Causes of conflicts and methods of their elimination. Day 1. Part 2 (2023)
00:00:08 Conflicts in relationships
• Conflicts arise from misunderstanding and selfishness, not because of love.
• It is important to learn to listen and understand each other, and not to impose your point of view.
00:05:27 love and truth
• Love should be higher than truth, especially in the family.
• It is important to maintain and respect each other's opinion, not to argue and impose their point of view.
00:11:17 LOVE FOR CHIL
• God gives the opportunity to love children, so all people love children.
• It is important to keep the opportunity to love each other and learn together.
00:12:44 Love and Relationships
• Love means a good lady, even if a man is wrong.
• It is important to support the man, agree with his opinion and be his ally.
00:22:13 Conflicts and desire
• Conflicts arise from the development and misunderstanding of each other's desires.
• Desire blinds consciousness and prevents you from seeing reality.
00:28:19 Misconduct in relationships
• Humiliation of a loved one in front of friends.
• Wrong behavior in a situation where a man got money.
• It is important to understand that you can not tell a man that he himself is to blame for his problems.
00:31:44 Love and Relationships
• It is important to put up an altar in the house and serve God in order to maintain love and relationships.
• You can not put a man in the first place in a relationship, you always need to serve God.
00:38:46 Playing in love
• Love is a game, an easy behavior that makes a person happy.
• It is important to see God in man, not just his dignity.
00:41:32 Stinginess and selfishness
• Relations between a man and a woman are saturated with selfishness, one must serve a loved one.
• It is important to overcome your stinginess and see other people who can be better.
00:46:40 stupidity and forgetting
• People suffer because of their stupidity and inability to notice the needs of another person.
• It is important to understand the interests of another person and not forget about them.
00:49:06 Love and Faith
• The video discusses various kinds of love, including love-faith that can be experienced with God.
• It is said that people should serve and care for others to make them happy, but it is important to believe in God.
00:50:49 Stages of love
• Respect, gratitude and loyalty as a stage of love are mentioned.
• It is said that if people reach the second drop of love (poverty), their family will never fall apart.
00:54:40 Sincerity and paradise
• Mention is mentioned as the third drop of love, which can lead to happiness in paradise.
• There is no place for happiness on earth, but there is room for study and trials.
00:55:30 Conflicts and their causes
• Conflicts arise from misunderstanding and lack of knowledge.
• It is important to understand whether a person has stepped in Moses' line or not.
01:01:39 Love and understanding
• Love can help understand another person.
• Desire prevents you from understanding and building relationships.
01:07:04 Conflicts due to different platforms of consciousness
• People can be on different platforms of consciousness, which interferes with understanding and relationships.
• It is impossible to change a person if he enjoys not what is needed.
01:11:05 stupidity and conflicts
• The video discusses how people often face conflicts because of their stupidity and unwillingness to understand each other.
• The author suggests that we are all stupid, and this will help us to better resolve conflicts.
01:22:05 God and kindness
• God is not a strict elderly man, but the kindness and consciousness of God.
• Kindness means the ability to treat other people with love and understanding, even if they are wrong.
• The path to God and the acquisition of God's consciousness helps to overcome conflicts and become kinder.
01:30:37 acceptance of your cross
• It is important to understand that each person has his own cross, which must be accepted and not to swear with others.
• If a person accepts his cross, he becomes kind and begins to serve others, studying how to educate and punish.
01:37:37 See Divine Power in Other People
• If a person sees divine power in another person, he can understand that his behavior is due not only to his own actions, but also to the influence of other people.
01:44:25 Understanding reflection in other people
• If a person understands that his behavior and actions reflect his own qualities, he can better understand other people and avoid conflicts.
• It is important to look at your reflection and understand that everything we get in life is the result of our own actions and choices.
01:47:01 Love and purity
• The speaker emphasizes that love cannot exist without purity and worship of God.
• He calls to see purity and beauty in his loved ones and not attach importance to their shortcomings.
01:49:35 Soul and insight of the heart
• The speaker says that every person has a soul, and even in the worst person there is beauty and kindness.
• He calls not only to see beauty in his loved ones, but also to other people, and not to judge them by their appearance.
01:51:34 Vision of the soul in a child
• The speaker mentions that the human soul is first opened in his child, and calls to see the soul in all people.
• It also mentions the importance of learning asceticism for getting rid of disease and improving character.
