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My husband moved away from me and talks about divorce

Galina

August 14, 2019

How do you do? What should I do? I have been living with my husband for five years. The last year he moved away from me. From other people I learn that he hates me. I tried to speak directly to him. He is silent. I accidentally read his correspondence on VKontakte with another woman. Love, kiss, hug. When talking, he denies everything. He even tried to make me look like a fool, as if I had come up with everything. There is no intimate relationship for a year. In a fit of anger, I called him impotent (I really regret it, it was six months ago).

I want to save the marriage. I pray for six months, but nothing changes. I don't know what to do. I understand that I am to blame. Any attempt to talk ends in a scandal. He said that another such hysteria and ... divorce. I try not to talk about these topics at all. To the question: «Are you going to live with me?» He answers: «I live with you.» How to behave towards him?

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How do you do?

The question is why did your husband go to look for love on the side and what did you do to give him this love? And it's not about sex, but about mental attitude. What is love for your husband? Maybe it's listening to him when he talks about his fishing and you don't listen, you don't like it. Or love when you cut it, but you don’t like it, or when you sleep in the same bed with him and it snores a lot, and because of this you went to sleep on the sofa ...

Think about what love is for your husband? How does he understand that you love him? And start doing that. Cooking his favorite food, ironing his shirts, etc. Any discussion and clarification of relationships come down to one thing: when will you start making me happy? Of course, there are scandals about this. And you ask: how can I make you happy?

Be interested in him, his life: «How are you? Good morning! Are you tired?» And, staying with you, he gives you this chance - to start being a wife, a woman, show love and open your heart. Write a list of «What I respect my husband for», it will give you strength to show your love. Turn on tenderness, smile, look relaxed and open: I accept you for who you are! And of course, thank you! For everything. Out loud!

Develop like a woman! This situation in the family is always an indicator that you have left the women's path. I invite you to the online female development and support club «Happy Woman», where you will find many answers to your questions.

I wish you good luck and joy in family relationships!

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