How to get rid of insults and disappointments. Lecture 1 (2019)
00:00:06 Problems with work and personal life
• The hero of the video wants to find another job, as the current job is not suitable for him due to long and difficult conditions.
• The importance of understanding and supporting each other in relationships is discussed.
00:06:12 Love and addiction
• The hero of the video discusses the wrong love, which can lead to problems in the relationship.
• The importance of being self-sufficient and learning to love nature and God, not just your child, is mentioned.
00:10:20 addiction and love
• Dependence on one person can lead to problems in relationships and deterioration of well-being.
• Discussing how to get rid of addiction and learn to be happy for other people.
00:13:16 Problems in personal life
• The woman talks about problems in her personal life associated with the departure of her husband and his return.
• She also talks about how she prayed and communicated with her ex-husband to get him back.
00:20:40 Development and Success Questions
• A woman asks how to find her way and develop her abilities.
• She is advised not to rush into marriage issues and focus on the development of their abilities.
00:25:14 Questions about business and relationships
• A man asks about his life purpose and how to build relationships with people.
• He is advised to develop his relationship and be more tolerant of the mistakes of other people.
00:28:32 Questions about health and relationships
• The video blogger discusses health and relationships related to sensitivity and irritability.
• He explains that sensitivity and irritability can be caused by a lack of strength and energy, and that it is important to devote time to your health and well-being.
00:31:22 Questions about death and relationships
• The video blogger answers the question of how to treat the death of a loved one.
• He emphasizes that it is important to pray for the deceased and create a relationship with him in order to overcome the emptiness and pain of loss.
00:32:29 Questions about children and relationships
• The video blogger discusses whether it is worth taking a second child if the first is on guardianship.
• He says it can be hard, but it will eventually lead to happiness and harmony in the family.
00:34:03 Gratitude and call to action
• The video blogger thanks for the hard work and calls for action, offering to start lecturing and create clubs for people who want to change their lives.
00:41:54 Relationships and their construction
• Relationships between people are built on the basis of connections that exist in the mental body.
• If a person does not have enough strength to help a loved one, you need to take strength from nature, good people and prayer.
00:46:17 Impact on relationships
• Relationships are built on the basis of the inner strength of a person, and then prayer.
• It is important to understand that relationships are not created during a conversation, but during prayer and influence on them through the heart.
00:47:13 impact on relationships in different periods
• At certain periods of life, such as during menstruation or fatigue, do not try to build relationships with other people.
• It is important to let a person rest and fill with strength before starting to sort things out.
00:49:56 The influence of fate on relationships
• The video discusses how fate affects relationships between people, and how this can lead to the destruction of connections.
• It is said that if a person understands that his relationship with another person is a manifestation of his fate, then he can correct them by accepting this.
00:56:41 Forgiveness and fullness
• The video emphasizes that forgiveness does not mean something special, but simply fullness.
• If a person has enough strength, he can forgive another, even if he did a bad deed.
01:00:27 Love-faith and relationships
• The video explains that love-faith can destroy a relationship, as it involves an eternal connection with another person.
• Instead, it is suggested to trust and treat others well, to be faithful and live with them.
01:02:10 Faith and Relationships
• Faith means firm conviction that this is what will fill a person in the long run.
• Faith should be only in relation to God, and not to people, otherwise a person loses himself and his life.
01:04:30 Love and Relationships
• Love is the strongest feeling that makes you believe in a person.
• It is important to control your faith so as not to lose yourself and not destroy your life.
01:09:59 Switching and Faith
• Switching to nature, faith or attitude helps to cope with difficult situations and maintain relationships.
• Faith means the ability to receive happiness and power from different sources.
01:13:13 Relationships and happiness
• Relationships are always a return, not just a receipt.
• If a person cannot switch to what defeats his fate, his faith is weak and he cannot count on a good relationship.
• Happiness must be given, and not just take.
01:19:02 Reflections on happiness and relationships
• The author says that happiness in a relationship is possible only if both partners are ready to give and receive.
• He emphasizes that it is important to be filled and not expect too much from a partner.
01:25:16 Attachment and disappointment
• The author explains that attachment to one person can lead to disappointment if this person does not give what he wants.
• He suggests starting to work on himself and changing his life to become stronger and more tolerant of loved ones.
01:28:48 Gratitude and desire
• The author explains that the man's gratitude is expressed in the fact that he does what a woman wants.
• He also emphasizes that it is important to learn how to treat a man correctly and earn his gratitude.
01:31:39 Disappointment and Faith
• The author says that disappointment in a loved one can be caused by a lack of strength and a desire to change.
• He calls for filling himself and serving others to see gratitude and joy in the eyes of loved ones.
01:34:39 Hate and punishment
• The author says that hate is not a way to live, because evil forces come through hatred.
• Punishment, on the other hand, is a way to live, and even the death penalty can be a punishment.
01:36:08 Forgiveness and love
• The author emphasizes that forgiveness is possible only after punishment, since forgiveness without punishment makes no sense.
• He also talks about what love means action, and that a person must do something to change his life.
01:39:14 Examples from the scriptures
• The author gives examples from the scriptures where people forgave their offenders and became stronger thanks to this.
• He emphasizes that forgiveness and love can change the fate of a person.
01:48:26 The Importance of Forgiveness and Relationship
• Oleg Gennadievich says that it is important to value relationships more than your own truth, and that the principle should be lower than the relationship.
• He also emphasizes that forgiveness and preservation of relationships can lead to a light road and a reward in the heart.
01:58:51 Humiliation and forgiveness
• Oleg Gennadievich explains that asking for forgiveness does not mean being humiliated, and that forgiveness can bring good luck in life.
• He gives the example of diplomats who ask for forgiveness in order to avoid war and suffering.
02:02:34 When you don't have to ask for forgiveness
• Oleg Gennadievich says that it is not necessary to ask for forgiveness when a person punishes someone, as this can lead to fear and meanness.
• He also emphasizes that it is important to respect elders and not interfere in their relationship.
02:05:57 Relationships and destin
• The video discusses that people often confuse good relationships with fate, believing that if they feel good with someone, then they will have a good fate.
• However, good relationships mean that a person puts his strength into another, serves him, regardless of his behavior.
• Relationships can be mutual when a person seeks to correct them if they become bad.
02:07:32 Education and Relationships
• The video emphasizes that parents have the right to raise their children, as they gave them life.
• If a person invests kindness in another, he has the right to educate him if fate says that he is well done.
02:12:40 opportunity to be stupid
• The video says that if a person allows another to be stupid, it can help improve the relationship.
• At the moment of anger, when a person does not understand what he is doing, you can use this time for your own purposes.
• It is important not to draw conclusions and not to contact with the person at this moment.
02:19:49 Forgiveness and self-relationship
• A person can be good, but at the same time change.
• If we learn about a loved one, this may be a reason for forgiveness.
02:21:59 Forgiveness and Relationships with Others
• If we condemn someone, then God can test us in the same way.
• Forgiveness means fullness and understanding of the price of victory over fate.
02:26:41 Blessing and Development
• God can give a blessing or action depending on the situation.
• If business does not go, you may need to deepen your relationship and develop yourself.
• If a person develops, he cannot be poor, even if he does not have money.
02:34:08 Prayer and forgiveness
• Prayer and repentance help to understand the cause of injustice and forgive the offender.
• It is important to know that prayer can be different, for example, a joint prayer or prayer in front of a holy place.
02:43:19 Return of the wife or husband
• If the wife is gone, then the mother can help get her back, if the husband is gone, then his mentor or friend can help.
• It is important to be persistent and take your time to get the relationship back.
02:48:03 Relationship with wife or husband
• If the wife leaves, then she can recover within three months or six months.
• If the wife says "never come back", it can be revenge and the man should accept it.
• If a man is persistent and behaves nobly, he can return any woman.
02:53:14 How to behave to be forgiven
• The video discusses how a woman should behave so that a man accepts and forgives her.
• It is said that a man who is optimistic about forgives a woman's whims and condescendingly treats her behavior.
• If a woman behaves badly, a man can send her off, but only if he is offended and upset.
• If a man is positive, he can forgive a woman for her whims and treat them condescendingly.
02:55:33 How to become a winner in a relationship
• The video also talks about how a woman should behave in order to always be a winner in a relationship.
• She should be modest, shy, kind, soft and strong at the same time.
• If a woman loses herself and cannot behave like this, she can begin to pray and work on herself to become self-sufficient and strong.
03:00:41 An example of a person who has passed through a concentration camp
• The video shows an example of a person who has passed through more than a dozen concentration camps and survived.
• After the war, he began to do gymnastics and won five gold medals.
• This example shows that anything is possible if a person has the right mood and self-confidence.
03:03:15 Victory over fate
• The author says that each person can defeat his fate, even if he has fourth-degree cancer.
• He gives the example of an elderly woman who passed away, focusing on God, and received a spiritual body and liberation from suffering.
03:10:27 Resentment and doom
• Resentment means a lack of happiness in the heart, and it is defeated by abstraction from the problem, deep prayer, contact with nature and kind people.
• Doom means the breaking of faith, and to get rid of it, you need to gain a higher faith.
03:13:48 Happiness and life together
• Happiness comes from God, and when a person can live with another person, he will receive the happiness of living together.
• The author says that he has already received this happiness, and that God gave him this feeling.
03:20:12 acceptance and giving
• Discussion of the importance of acceptance and giving in relationships.
• Acceptance of a person means accepting him as he is, without trying to change it.
03:25:03 Work and family
• Discussion of the importance of work for a woman and the opportunity to sit at home without work.
• It is mentioned that a woman can find joy in communicating with her friends and children.
03:27:15 Impact on loved ones
• Discussion of one person's influence on another and the need to change oneself to change a loved one.
• It is mentioned that the sun rises and the shadows disappear when a person gets better.
03:31:27 Relationship with husband
• Discussion of the influence of faith in God on the relationship with her husband and his ability to refuse the temptation to have another woman.
• It is mentioned that conscience in the heart of a man means faith in the heart of a woman.
03:35:02 Reflections on Death
• The hero of the video reflects that each person can do any act, since we often fail to cope with ourselves.
• He explains that a person can be weak and make mistakes, but this does not mean that he is bad.
• The hero also says that people can be good in nature, but sometimes they make mistakes.
03:37:17 set
• The hero explains that in order to defeat fate, you need to repeat the prayer "I wish everyone happiness" and think about God.
• He says that God is one and he loves all people, regardless of their faith.
• The hero encourages everyone to repeat prayer and think about God to help themselves and others.
