Leader Independence and Dependency (2020)
00:00:03 Acceptance and adaptation
• The author discusses the importance of accepting himself and adapting to new living conditions.
• He emphasizes that a person must learn to accept himself and his limitations in order to adapt to new conditions.
00:08:02 Awareness and self-sacrifice
• The author discusses that for awareness and self-sacrifice, you must step over your mind and learn to accept the knowledge of the elders.
• He emphasizes that knowledge of elders can be obtained through the study of spiritual traditions and the search for teachers.
00:14:20 Relationships and understanding
• The author discusses the importance of restraining and studying a partner in a relationship to understand him and help him understand himself.
• He emphasizes that a woman must be restrained and study a man in order to help him understand himself and his relationship.
00:15:29 conflict at work
• The manager is faced with a situation of conflict at work when he is imposed on an additional function that he does not want to perform.
• It is important to accept fate and not resist, but calmly and firmly defend your rights.
00:20:41 Belarus and the revolution
• People in Belarus should understand that revolution is not an option, as the change of power takes a lot of time and requires serious education.
• Instead, it is important to calm down and accept your destiny, and to demonstrate your firmness and kindness in dialogue with management.
00:23:09 Large-scale vision and government of the country
• Successful governance of a country requires systemic thinking based on knowledge of laws and understanding of its role in society.
• It is important to take into account both the material and spiritual aspects, as well as to take into account the opinion of people and their discontent.
• Prayer can be an effective way to influence the situation, but only if a person cannot directly influence the situation.
00:27:07 Discussion of politics and Stalin
• The speaker discusses that even his answer to the question about Stalin is not complete, since he is not an expert in this field.
• He emphasizes that people should study and understand the processes taking place around them and not discuss what they do not know.
00:31:16 Questions about work and dependency
• The speaker answers the question of whether the leader can go on vacation.
• He explains that the manager cannot go on vacation, as he is responsible for the work of the enterprise.
• The speaker also discusses how to communicate properly with the boss to avoid conflicts and keep his job.
00:38:25 Leadership position and addiction
• The speaker explains that the leadership position is to be a worker without a boss and to pass on his knowledge of how to work without him.
• He emphasizes the importance of bringing difficulties to the head of his activities and doing so throughout the year, and not just before he goes on vacation.
00:40:06 Question about work and management
• The video blogger discusses how to behave in a situation where the leader is not completely in control of the situation and cannot fully control the situation.
• He emphasizes the importance of having his own point of view and his position, but at the same time being loyal to the company and his leader.
00:43:53 The question of translation and dependence
• The video blogger also discusses the issue of transferring to another company if the top management allows one company to take over another.
• He emphasizes that if the top management agrees to this, then there is nothing to do, and it is better to maintain a relationship with everyone and stay at work.
00:45:39 interaction of self-esteem and dependence
• The video blogger moves on to discussing the interaction of self-esteem and independence.
• He argues that if a person is dependent, it does not necessarily mean that he has a weak sense of self-worth, and vice versa.
• He also emphasizes that it is important to maintain self-esteem and independence, but at the same time be loyal to your company and management.
00:46:49 proper pride
• Self-esteem can be in goodness, passion and ignorance.
• In goodness, self-esteem means respect for elders, equals and juniors, the ability to listen and hear their opinion.
• In passion, self-esteem can be strong, but immature, which means the ability to defend one's opinion, but inability to obey.
• In ignorance, self-esteem can be strong, but immature, which means pressure on others, the inability to listen and respect the opinion of elders.
00:54:05 Interaction with people with different sense of dignity
• People with a strong sense of dignity in goodness or passion can be communicated at a distance, waiting for them to mature.
• It is better not to cooperate with people with a strong sense of dignity in ignorance, as they are not able to respect the opinion of others and cannot be mature.
• It is important to respect the opinions of others and be able to obey in order to maintain good relationships and cooperation.
01:00:22 proper pride
• Self-esteem gives a person the opportunity to be properly independent, to have a rich inner experience and to understand the laws.
• Independence with a minus sign (rebellion, protest) means a weakness of reason and unwillingness to understand what is happening.
01:07:00 dependence and independence
• Dependency with the plus sign means a reasonable dependence on elders and respect for them.
• Independence with a plus sign means competence and ability to act for the benefit of others.
01:10:45 misbehavior
• Incorrect self-esteem is manifested in fanaticism, lack of reason and unwillingness to be included in the relationship.
• Mature self-esteem includes the ability to act properly and engage in relationships with other people.
01:14:55 Differences between male and female thinking
• The video discusses the differences between male and female thinking based on their nature and perception of the world.
• Men strive for the unknown, and women strive for harmony.
01:20:48 impact on society management
• Successful leaders should be calm and able to control the situation, and not tear their vests.
• Self-esteem must be in balance to be strong and independent, but pure.
01:23:45 The role of women in society
• Women strive for purity and fidelity, which gives them strength and the ability to make decisions.
• Men must be bold and determined to make decisions and overcome difficulties.
01:25:37 proper pride
• The video discusses that self-esteem does not mean that a person should love everything and not love anything.
• Instead, it means that a person has the right to love the right things and not love the wrong ones.
• Self-esteem also includes the ability not to love what is wrong and not to accept betrayal.
01:29:22 EXAMPLES FROM LI
• The video shows an example of a woman who wants to save a family, despite her husband's infidelity.
• The author explains that self-esteem requires a person not to accept betrayal and not to live with the person who betrayed.
• Instead, the author invites the woman to live separately and wait until her husband repents and pays the price for the return.
01:33:13 The Importance of Knowledge and Experience
• The author emphasizes that self-esteem should be based on knowledge and experience.
• He explains that knowledge can be derived from the Holy Scriptures, but also from the experience and experience of other people.
• In conclusion, the author emphasizes that self-esteem is not a humiliation, but a strong position and the ability to educate other people.
01:35:03 self-esteem and knowledge
• The video discusses how self-esteem can be based on knowledge and understanding.
• An example is given as a little girl asks a lecturer about life and death, and he explains to her that there is no death, but only a transition from one existence to another.
• He also explains that life is our eternal nature, and we can live in different bodies, but we always remain alive.
01:37:24 Fearlessness and knowledge
• The video says that fearlessness can be based on knowledge, not blind fearlessness.
• If a person knows that his life has a deep meaning and can continue to live after death, he will feel fearless and happy.
• In contrast, a person who does not have knowledge and blindly gives his life can be frightened after death, as he understands that everything goes on, but not in the direction in which he would like.
01:39:37 work with dignity
• The video discusses various situations in which self-esteem can be applied.
• For example, if a person is working with a boss who behaves incorrectly, he may decide to quit or find another boss.
• If a person is married and has problems with his wife, he can accept his fate and work to improve relationships, instead of looking for a new wife.
• In general, self-esteem should be based on knowledge and understanding, and not on blind fearlessness or the desire to change one's destiny.
01:41:58 diminution
• The video discusses that a person can take the power to be worthy only from God.
• The three energies of God are mentioned, which act differently: nature, people and the personality of God.
• An example of Porfiry Ivanov, who draws the power of dignity from nature, and Poddubny, is given, which draws power from bodily power.
• Mother Teresa is mentioned, who draws strength from love for people, and Seraphim of Sarov, who draws power from God.
01:45:36 Building self-esteem
• The video says that self-esteem is formed as a result of actions and is based on good deeds.
• An example of a boy who helped other people is given and thanks to this he formed a strong sense of self-worth.
• The difference between mature self-esteem and immature, based on dependency or independence is discussed.
• A mature self-esteem is based on serving others and filling with something else, while an immature self-esteem can lead to evil, proud and cruel deeds.
01:50:58 Strength and self-esteem
• The video discusses the importance of strength and self-esteem for a person.
• Strength is based on actions and knowledge, and self-esteem - on the right behavior and care for people.
02:01:52 friendship and dignity
• In friendship, self-esteem manifests itself in a strong position and modesty.
• Friendship is based on the motivation and ability to be a true friend when a person is ill.
02:05:18 Faithful friend and motivation
• A true friend is a person who is ready to help in difficult times.
• Developed people are able to be true friends, but undeveloped people cannot.
02:06:59 friendship and dignity
• The video discusses the importance of friendship and self-esteem.
• If a person cannot be friends, this does not mean that he is bad or incapable of friendship.
• It is important to understand that each person has his own characteristics and do not try to change it.
02:10:54 dependence and independence
• Dependence and independence can be either with a plus sign or with a minus sign.
• Mature self-esteem leads to proper dependence and independence.
• Improper self-esteem can lead to false addiction and independence.
02:15:01 Loyalty and respect
• Loyalty and respect for parents and loved ones are important for developing self-esteem.
• The mature position of a man and a woman in a relationship can be achieved through the right self-esteem and respect for each other.
02:21:02 Openness and trust
• Openness means trust and independence from fear of people.
• Trustiness is a lack of respect for knowledge and trust indiscriminately.
02:23:41 Simplicity and naivety
• Simplicity is the sense of God in the hearts and simplicity in behavior.
• Naivety is not understanding that there are difficult people who can deceive.
02:25:22 Honesty and primitivism
• Honesty is the right to honesty and independence.
• Primitivism is dishonest and lack of understanding of what honesty is.
02:26:01 self-esteem and justice
• Self-esteem includes strength and purity.
• A sense of justice is strength and purity, understanding of the imperfection of one's sense of justice and allowing others to have the same feeling.
02:30:58 Interaction with people
• The author discusses the importance of developing self-esteem and modesty for successful cooperation with other people.
• He emphasizes that if a person has achievements but has no modesty, this can lead to a misperception of the world and communication problems.
02:38:08 Distance and trust
• The author explains that the distance between the leader and the subordinate must be correct in order to avoid problems in the relationship.
• It also emphasizes the importance of trust and kindness in relationships, but with the preservation of the distance to maintain objectivity.
02:40:54 Intuition and understanding of people
• The author discusses how intuition and understanding of people can help in communication and decision making.
• He emphasizes that kindness and trust can help in revealing the true nature of a person, but should not be too close.
02:47:17 Spiritual Relationships and Friendship
• The author discusses the importance of developing spiritual relationships and friendships, which can only be at a high level.
• He emphasizes that true friendship can only be on the basis of spiritual practice and that not everyone who engages in spiritual practice can give true friendship.
02:52:22 Faithful friends and their role in life
• The author says that true friends can be a gift from God and that they can save in trouble.
• He explains that a true friend is a representative of God who can help in difficult situations and ease suffering.
02:55:59 Work in the Ministry of Internal Affairs and relations with the head
• The author talks about his experience in the Ministry of Internal Affairs and how her leader was angry with her and humiliated her as a woman.
• He advises not to trust managers too much and keep your distance in order to maintain your heart and justice.
03:02:15 Motivation and Prevention
• Discussion of the importance of caring for children and their upbringing, as well as that it is not only a woman's duty, but also a responsibility of the state.
• It is mentioned that the boss may be angry at a woman who sits at home with children, as this may interfere with his work.
03:09:27 Employee Inspiration
• The importance of personal communication with subordinates, concern for them and their problems, as well as support and motivation.
• The example of Alexander the Great is mentioned, who prayed for many days before the battles to make the right decisions.
03:11:45 definition of reasonable people
• A method of identifying reasonable people is mentioned based on their motivation and development ability.
• Обсуждается важность развития людей, которые мотивированы высокими целями и могут стать верными и надежными сотрудниками.
03:16:39 Prayer and victory over fate
• Тренер объясняет, что завтра будет необычный день, когда они будут учиться побеждать судьбу.
• Он советует всем включаться в эту тему, так как она сложная для понимания.
• Он также упоминает, что есть две судьбы: судьба, которая мучает человека, и милость, которая освобождает его от всего плохого.
• Молитва и вера в Бога помогают человеку победить свою судьбу и избавиться от страданий.
03:19:05 Молитвенное настроение и повторение молитвы
• Тренер включает хор, который поет молитву "Отче наш", и предлагает повторять эту молитву, чтобы войти в молитвенное настроение.
• Он объясняет, что молитвенное настроение означает забыть о себе и думать о Боге.
• Он также подчеркивает, что молитва должна быть повторена в настроении глубокого верующего человека.
• В конце тренировки тренер желает всем счастья и здоровья.
