How to develop self-esteem. Lecture 2 (2019)
00:00:03 Problems with children and their development
• The girl is afraid of society and cannot leave the house, which leaves an imprint on her social development.
• It is necessary to help the girl find hobbies and engage in them in the company of other people.
00:03:30 Self-realization and work
• It is important to understand that self-realization is not related to work, but to spiritual self-improvement, charity and prayers.
• Work can be a source of income, but not happiness.
00:07:48 Relationship between man and woman
• Relationships between a man and a woman must be disinterested, otherwise they turn into violence.
• It is important not to expect something from a partner and not to be selfish in a relationship.
00:11:24 Problems with mom and their solution
• If the mother is very worried about her child, it may be bad for him.
• In this case, it is important to understand that this is fate and accept it.
00:13:00 The influence of fate on relationships
• The author explains that fate is what happens to a person, and he must accept it and not be offended by his mother.
• Fate can be presented as the amount of work to be done, not as violence.
00:17:10 Attachment and Relationships
• The author says that fate shows a person his future life through a relationship with his mother.
• If a person does not learn to build relationships with his mother correctly, his child may repeat his mistakes in the future.
00:20:39 Love and Relationships
• The author explains that love has an egoistic nature and can lead to problems in relationships.
• If a person wants to find a worthy partner, he must work on himself and choose a person with good qualities.
00:24:01 Relationship problems
• A woman behaves incorrectly with a man, allowing him to use his body, which does not stimulate him to be responsible and serious relationships.
• If a woman lives with a man, she must recognize him as her husband and start working on herself to change his behavior.
00:27:34 The influence of a woman on a man
• A woman can teach a man how to behave and how to change his life.
• It is important to cook with prayer and turn on spiritual music so that food becomes a victory over fate.
• A woman can influence the choice of films that a man watches and his mood.
00:39:43 Problems with her husband and search for purpose
• A woman talks about problems with her husband and how she was exhausted by bearing a child.
• Discussing how important it is to engage in health and work in parallel to avoid being exhausted.
00:46:13 Questions about betrayal and self-confidence
• A woman asks how to understand what her husband wants to return and what to do if he leaves.
• Discuss the reasons why the husband may leave and how to get him back.
00:50:42 Betrayal and the wrong life
• It is said that betrayal arises from a wrong life, and that if a man has no conscience, he may go to another woman.
• The importance of full practice for a woman is discussed so that a man has a conscience and does not leave.
00:52:17 Fate and acceptance of responsibility
• The author says that fate can change if a person makes an effort and prays.
• He gives an example that if a person is offended by someone, this is his problem, not fate.
01:00:13 Strength and social development
• The author explains that social development means not only work, but also relationships with people, care for others and respect for others.
• He also says that the strength and success in life depend on the love of people and nature.
01:06:06 Love and success
• The author emphasizes that successful people love people and nature, and this makes them successful at work and in their personal lives.
• He also explains that if a man does not fill himself with nature and love for people, then he may not be successful in his personal life and at work.
01:11:49 love for people
• The video discusses the importance of love for people and respect for elders.
• Respect for elders helps a person to climb the social ladder and have more responsibility in life.
• Love of work and respect for elders can lead to a happy life, even if a person does not have much money.
01:16:24 piety and wealth
• Piety is a power that comes from the past and helps a person to have accumulations and respect for elders.
• Piety helps a person to serve the elders and take care of their parents and mentors.
• Respect, respect and giving are three degrees of respect for elders.
• giving is the highest degree of respect that can lead to happiness, but requires strong development and purity of reason.
01:20:36 Piety and its impact on life
• The video says that if a person does good deeds in the past, then he is worthy of having a birth in an aristocratic family or a priest's family.
• If a person serves people, then in the next life he will have a good memory, if he serves as money, then he will have a lot of money, if he serves as labor, then he will be strong, if he gives health, then he will have iron health.
01:26:09 The influence of piety on beauty and happiness
• The video emphasizes that beauty and happiness depend on the piety of a person.
• If a person does good deeds, he becomes attractive and happy.
01:31:16 How to attract good luck and overcome obstacles
• The video explains that if a person does not have good qualities, he can start doing good deeds and gradually change his life for the better.
• If a person has problems, he can share his happiness with friends and get support.
• The video also says that a person can overcome insurmountable obstacles if he serves God and people with joy.
01:37:17 ignorant life
• Ignorant life leads to degradation of a person, both material and moral.
• Ignorant people believe only in themselves and their strengths, do not respect others and do not have a deep knowledge of life.
01:42:08 Ignorant language and thinking
• Ignorant language is based on mother tongue and is associated with the genitals.
• Ignorant people are not motivated and have no connection with other people.
01:44:15 The influence of the planets on the police
• The influence of the planet Mars on the police is related to potency and leads to energy depletion.
• After a lecture on the influence of the planets, the police began to listen and were happy.
01:54:10 Reflections on life
• The video discusses three layers of life: ignorance, passion and goodness.
• Ignorant people are considered degradants, passionate - fanatics, and blissful - sectarians.
01:56:49 Ten signs that change life
• The transition from one layer of life to another can be difficult, as people may notice changes in behavior and lifestyle.
• Meat, debauchery and wine can lead to degradation, as they bind a person to the body and cause subtle pleasures.
02:02:25 Nutrition and spiritual practice
• If a person prays and practices spiritual practice, he can develop even if he eats meat.
• However, if a person lives in a climate where wheat does not grow in winter and he has nothing to eat, he can justify his diet with meat.
02:04:02 The effect of meat on a person
• Meat consumption causes degradation at the physical, mental and spiritual levels.
• Meat causes hemolysis, destruction of the body and depression.
02:07:35 Transition to eggs and fish
• Eggs and fish are less organized and less affected at the time of death, so it is better to use them.
• Switching to eggs and fish helps a person gradually give up meat and switch to more blissful food.
02:14:13 The influence of good food on fate
• Blissful food, such as milk and eggs, helps a person change his destiny and consciousness.
• Blessed people are constantly changing their lives and environments, unlike people in passions who are afraid of change.
02:19:27 Divorce and fate
• The video discusses that divorce can be the result of a wrong choice and behavior, but it can also be the result of fate.
• Life examples are given when people who divorced then converged again and lived happily.
02:21:30 Work on yourself and goodness
• The video emphasizes that working on yourself and a proper life is both a simple and difficult task that requires a lot of time and effort.
• It is said that listening and sound can help change the mind and fate of a person.
02:26:03 Faith and religion
• The video explains that faith and religion are different things, and that faith is needed to comprehend the path to God.
• The stages of human development in faith and his choice of Holy Scripture and spiritual tradition are discussed.
02:30:45 Victory over fate
• The video discusses how a person can defeat his fate if he lives in goodness and acts disinterestedly.
• It is said that in order to defeat fate, a person must break away from himself and begin to act for others, which is a difficult and important step.
02:34:29 Relationship between man and woman
• Discuss the qualities that a man and a woman should see in each other in order to live in love and harmony.
• It is said that a man should see in a woman divine qualities, such as kindness, tenderness, loyalty, etc., and a woman should see in a man his strength and ability to conquer fate.
02:38:27 Attachment and destruction of relationships
• Discussing how attachment can lead to the destruction of relationships and how important it is to accept each other as they are.
• It is said that people often expect too much from their partners and this can lead to disappointment and destruction of relationships.
02:43:17 The process of changing life
• The process of changing the life of a person who begins to work on himself and his qualities is discussed.
• It is said that changes begin with a change in one's own life, then friends, attitude to work, relationships in the family and with other people change.
02:47:02 Bad period in life
• It is mentioned that a person may not understand that he has come a bad period in life, and that this may be due to fate.
• It is important to accept this period and not blame other people or circumstances.
02:52:57 set up in victory over fate
• To defeat fate, you need to look for optimism and not get hung up on problems.
• It is important to be filled with the energy of nature, the sun, the earth, the water and the space to become stronger and happier.
03:00:34 Social forces and success
• It is mentioned that love for people and the ability to be friends with them can bring success in business and good luck in life.
• It is important to be kind and caring to people to attract them and build a successful relationship.
03:03:47 attitude towards dogs
• The author tells a story about how he treated a dog that was aggressive on him, and how he became the eldest for her when she saw his kind eyes.
• He also shares his experiences from his life when he stole a book from a library and was punished for it.
03:13:19 PEOPLE RELATIONS
• The author explains that in order to be successful, you need to be the elder for people, to understand that there are people who think worse than you, and be strict, but not do stupid things.
• He also talks about how important it is to be a senior for your employees and friends so that they are successful and happy.
03:19:03 Subtle body and its connection with gross
• The author talks about his experience of observing the subtle body after the death of a person.
• He explains that the subtle body is copying the rough body, and that he saw the subtle body of his friend, which looked the same as he did in a two-ton body.
03:22:02 Dreams and their meaning
• The author discusses three types of dreams: conscious, unconscious and dreams in which a person feels that this is his life.
• He also talks about his experience of self-awareness in his dreams and how it helps him to analyze his dreams and understand that they can be related to past lives.
03:25:21 The influence of abortion on fate
• The author discusses how abortion can affect the fate of a person in the next life.
• He gives an example of his friend, who decided to have an abortion, but changed her mind after reading the poem on the wall.
• As a result, she began to love her child very much and treat him with great care.
03:28:01 Astrology and fate
• An astrologer or psychologist who sets a person to a negative result is a sinner and will answer before God.
• Fate is the amount of work, not predestination.
03:37:27 attitude towards people
• All people on Earth suffer, and all have equal chances of winning.
• It is important to treat people with understanding and support, regardless of their suffering.
03:40:06 Choice and Responsibility
• If a person wants to give knowledge, and not earn on you, then his words and logic will be reasonable.
• If a person wants only money, then his knowledge will not be useful.
03:41:03 animal care
• If you have an animal, you should take care of it and give it freedom, if possible.
• If you can't take care of an animal, then it's better not to start it.
03:43:13 Female greed and spiritual development
• A woman should wish health and well-being for her husband, but no more than he can achieve.
• If a woman wants more money, it does not mean that she is holy, it's just her desire.
• It is important to control your desires and not consider them feminine holiness.
03:45:32 Desires and their control
• Desires can be different, but the main thing is to desire a spiritual life and be reasonable about other aspects of life.
• If a woman wants more money than her husband can earn, she can drink his blood and destroy his capabilities.
03:46:32 Caring for the family and the desire for well-being
• A woman should take care of the well-being of the family, not just her husband.
• If the wife wants more money, it can lead to the depletion and destruction of the family.
