Important character traits for the teacher, supervisor and manager. Lecture 3 (2018)
00:00:06 Talk about love and relationships
• The woman talks about her situation with her husband, who went to another woman and has a child.
• She says she can't let go and wants to bring him back.
00:01:38 Discussion of the meaning of life and love
• A woman says that the purpose of human life is not to return the husband, but to know God and know himself.
• She explains that when a person loves someone very much, it is unbearable for him and can lead to the loss of himself.
00:07:11 Tips and Recommendations
• A woman asks how she should be in this situation and how she can communicate with her husband.
• Oleg Gennadievich explains that she needs to learn to love God and not live for a person, but to achieve higher truths.
• He also says that if she continues to live as she is now, it is impossible for her to give her another person or that her husband returns to her.
00:12:27 Causes of family problems
• Guilt and selfishness in the relationship between a man and a woman lead to problems.
• Love and happiness in relationships can be used for selfish purposes.
00:17:37 Love and selfishness
• Love means the desire for a person to be happy, despite his shortcomings.
• Selfishness in relationships leads to suffering and wars between a man and a woman.
00:20:31 The right way to love
• Love begins with love for God, which is a big whole.
• Love for God fills a person and allows him to give love to others.
• The right way to love is serving each other and respecting the feelings and dignity of the other.
00:24:45 QUESTIONS AND ANSWER
• The main question: what to do when the husband does not help and does not take care of his wife.
• Answer: You need to be filled with God to repair yourself and your husband.
00:32:07 Depression and help
• The daughter wants to get out of depression, but does not know how to do it.
• Answer: You need to accept your destiny, not try to change the past and believe in God.
00:38:51 helping others and accepting yourself
• To help others, you must first recover and become strong.
• It is important to accept yourself and your loved ones as they are, and not try to redo them.
00:41:06 Questions about death and relationships
• Discussion of the topic of death and relationships with loved ones.
• Mention that the author has many deaths in the family through the maternal line.
00:45:52 Prayer and austerity
• Discussion of the practice of prayer and austerity to neutralize misfortunes and accidents.
• The mention that first comes a subtle plan, and then a rough one.
00:50:46 Help the dead and relationships with them
• Discussing how to help the dead and how it affects their relationship with them.
• Mention that sometimes help does not reach the deceased due to his wrong lifestyle.
00:54:11 Knowledge and judgment
• Discussing that knowledge and judgment are two different things.
• Mention that the surgeon must see a purulent process and a purulent process of the intestine to help the patient.
• Discussing that to help the deceased need to properly adjust their heart and thoughts.
00:56:31 discussion of knowledge and its types
• The speaker discusses various kinds of knowledge, including scientific and those that go through the heart.
• He affirms that knowledge is when a person sees the truth, and that the knowledge that goes through the heart is wrong.
01:00:18 Relationship problems and solutions
• The speaker helps a woman who has problems in relationships because of money and fear of poverty.
• He suggests she change her lifestyle, focus on positive aspects and not think about negativity.
01:06:47 Tips for communicating with your husband
• The speaker gives advice to a woman who has encountered problems in her husband's relationship.
• He recommends that she not despair and not leave home, but calmly discuss the situation with her husband and find a compromise solution.
01:12:30 The impact of character on life
• The video talks about how a person's character affects his life and activity.
• It is mentioned that a person who believes in his country and homeland is protected by it.
• Talks about how the dog feels whether its owner loves it and how it affects its behavior.
01:19:33 Rulers and fathers
• It is discussed that the ruler is the father of all people, and that each person must respect the elders and juniors.
• It is mentioned that if the younger does not respect elders, he can get older who are outrageous.
• A story is told about how a son respects his father, despite his behavior, and how this affects the father's conscience.
01:25:15 Acceptance of fate and relationships with subordinates
• A woman comes to a psychologist with a suicide problem and talks about her life, where she suffers from a son who drinks and behaves badly.
• The psychologist explains that acceptance of fate and respect for elders is the key to success and happiness.
01:39:28 Respect for elders and subordinates
• Respect for elders and subordinates is the basis for development and success.
• If a person accepts and respects elders, he becomes respected and successful.
• If a person is hostile to subordinates, this leads to the destruction of the team.
01:42:58 Pride and development
• A scientist who is proud of his knowledge may not develop further, as he has already received everything he wanted.
• Pride can be dangerous for a person who aspires to knowledge, as it can lead to degradation.
01:51:59 Relationships and pride
• Pride can lead to the fact that a person is fenced off from others and stops communicating.
• Pride can also lead to the creation of a second half theory, which can be dangerous for relationships.
01:53:46 Faith in elders and honesty
• It is important for people of the first category to believe in elders and be honest, as this helps them to develop.
• If a person does not believe in elders, he may lose his position in society and titles.
01:57:00 attitude towards money
• People of the first category should perform austerities and love people without using punishment as a way of relationships.
• Money can be used for good deeds, but should not be the goal.
02:03:37 attitude towards knowledge
• People of the first category should develop the right attitude towards knowledge, not limited to descending knowledge.
• It is important to see the world wider and to recognize ascending knowledge.
02:08:57 Power and politics
• People of the second category strive for power and politics to be in charge and take responsibility.
• Politics is a way of relations and retention of power.
02:10:25 The psyche of people of the second category
• The psyche of people of the second category is created from the desire to win at any cost, courage and inability to endure humiliation.
• The leader has the right to punish people and manage society.
02:13:06 Lecture on people of the second category
• The second category of people drives cars and people, but they should not be goats.
• They have the ability to see the psychology of a person and his ability to work.
• They must be brave, respect the elders and take care of the younger ones.
02:22:49 Tests of money and power
• The main test for people of the second category is money and power.
• They should not use money for selfish purposes and should not be purchased on the opposite sex.
• If they use their powers to enrich themselves, they lose their qualifications and love of the people.
02:24:36 Duties of people of the second category
• People of the second category should love their work, be grateful to God and respect elders.
• They must also sacrifice their wealth to develop society and honestly follow the rules of the game.
02:27:48 Rules for managers
• The video discusses rules for managers who must monitor their reputation, love their subordinates, punish them strictly, but fairly, and see people not to hire those who do not cope.
• If the leader does not understand these rules, he may face problems in the team.
02:33:05 Strictness and love in relationships
• The video also talks about the importance of combining rigor and love in relationships, especially in the family.
• Strictness should be deeply embedded, and outside should be kindness.
• If only love or strictness, it can lead to relationship problems.
02:35:03 How to encourage subordinates
• The video explains that salary should not be the only way to encourage subordinates, it is important to build a deep relationship with them, help them in life and give gifts for the holidays.
02:36:40 Management and ideology
• Respect for laws and love for the Motherland are important qualities for people who want to develop in society.
• Officials, police and plant directors belong to the second category, which creates the structure and rules for society.
• In the modern world, the second way of governance is forgotten - ideological management, which includes serving God and creating a mission for the enterprise.
02:41:03 Third category of people
• People of the third category are created to enrich the Motherland and have the insight and ability to understand where there is money and profit.
• They should direct some of their money to enrich the place where they live and take care of the poor.
• If they do good deeds, their reputation becomes cool and they want to cooperate and work with them.
02:47:51 Development and business
• The author explains that the desire to take care of people of the third category (poor, weak, sick) gives an understanding where profit is, since profit is always in the zone of benefit.
• He also emphasizes that success in business comes when a person begins to do something that the city lacks, and his heart tells how to do it.
02:49:15 Austerity for different categories
• For the third category, austerity is to obey the mentor, develop oneself and care for the weak.
• For the second category, asceticism is patience and the ability to win.
• For the first category of asceticism - self-sacrifice and willingness to accept the truth from anyone, even from an animal.
02:55:52 Development and fourth category
• For the fourth category, development lies in labor and love for work.
• The author emphasizes that if a person does not want to learn and develop, he will never be able to become developed in work.
• He also notes that some people can be developed in all four categories and be so developed that they have no price.
02:58:04 Reflections on politics and ideology
• The video discusses various categories of people and their attitude to power, money and fame.
• It is said that some people may abandon these things for the sake of love for people and knowledge, while others may use them to achieve their goals.
03:06:05 Ideological work and education
• The importance of ideological work with people, especially in schools and cities, is discussed.
• An example is given as a ruler who has suffered a defeat, was able to return power, thanks to the training of people and an understanding of how to live.
03:12:20 The Importance of Literacy and Knowledge
• It is emphasized that patriotism and the ability to win depend on the literacy of people and their knowledge of what is good and bad.
• It is said that teaching people this knowledge can become a huge force affecting the situation in the country.
03:14:14 Gratitude and respect
• The scientist needs faith in his words, the ruler - in fidelity, the businessman - in trust, the worker - in recognition of his work.
• Gratitude is the main one for all of these categories.
03:16:51 Unique qualities of priests
• Priests have unique qualities such as the ability to see knowledge everywhere and broader views.
• They need to be recognized and assisted.
03:18:51 Victory over fate
• If you repeat "I wish everyone happiness", you can feel that the heart opens and happiness appears.
• This means meeting with your fate and the opportunity to win it.
• If you repeat prayer and tune in to the mood of the worshipers, you can also defeat fate.
