The influence of prayer on our loved ones. Lecture 2 (2018)
00:00:57 Restoration of family relations
• The author talks about the importance of the movement and energy of nature to improve all spheres of life.
• Mentions that many people do not have the strength due to lack of energy.
00:02:50 Questions about family life
• A man talks about his problems in family life and asks how to restore relationships.
• The author replies that it is important to continue to behave well and not to lose yourself so that the woman thaws and returns to him.
00:10:13 Work and new work
• The man asks about the possibility of a new job and receives an answer that in two months he will be offered a new job.
• The author says that the new job will be better for a man, as the boss will be softer and more reasonable.
00:12:44 How to fix a loved one
• The video discusses how to help a loved one who has problems in a relationship.
• It is said that men and women react differently to relationships in relationships.
• Women can endure for a long time, but in the end they become disappointed and cannot make the right decision.
• Men, on the contrary, can quickly break loose and start behaving incorrectly.
00:16:51 How to restore relationships
• If a person stops swearing and prove his case, this may be a sign that the relationship has gone too far.
• In this case, it will be extremely difficult to restore the relationship.
• If a person starts to merry and stops suffering next to you, this may be a sign that he has found an alternative and the relationship may be lost.
00:19:36 How to recover strength
• If you feel like you don't have the strength, you need to include nature and God in your life.
• It can be a walk in the fresh air, prayer or other ways to restore strength.
• It is important to understand that if you do not have the strength, you will not be able to correct a loved one or establish a relationship.
00:23:40 a bad period of life
• It is important to understand that a bad period of life is not the fault of a person or situation, but the action of time.
• If a person gives up and does not accept the situation, this may lead to death.
00:27:21 Running as a recovery method
• Running is a natural movement that helps to restore strength and defeat fate.
• It is important to run calmly without exhausting yourself, and choose the rhythm that you like.
00:30:30 attitude towards nature
• When contacting nature, a person is filled with forces and receives the necessary resources to overcome fate.
• It is important to treat nature with love and respect in order to get more strength from it.
00:34:35 The effect of time on a child
• The child can get a deuce due to the influence of time, and it is important to take it and calm down.
• The reasons may be different, including a bad teacher, uncomfortable home environment or learning problems.
00:39:45 The impact of time on relationships
• The wife may behave cruelly and exploit her husband, but this may be due to her condition and situation.
• It is important to understand that a person may behave inappropriately due to pain and suffering, and it is important to calm down and accept the situation.
00:44:02 acceptance of loved ones
• The author calls for acceptance of loved ones, regardless of their behavior and character.
• He explains that each person has his own destiny, ignorance and difficulties, and this must be accepted.
00:46:11 Differences between men and women
• The author emphasizes that men and women have different approaches to relationships and understanding of each other.
• He says that men often evaluate people in terms of their behavior and words, while women tend to trust their hearts.
00:49:04 Acceptance of differences between men and women
• The author calls for understanding and acceptance of differences between men and women, emphasizing that this can be difficult for men.
• He gives the example of his wife, who at first thought that he was doing something on purpose, but then she realized that he was not on purpose, and began to treat him kindly.
00:51:13 Differences between men and women
• Men are focused on victory, understanding and action in extreme situations, while women are better oriented in known situations and systematize information.
• Men don't say "like" or "dislike", they say "correct" or "wrong".
• Men can act in the field of the unknown, while women are better at acting in the field of the known.
00:56:45 upbringing and education
• For women, education is of great importance, they quickly assimilate the material and apply it in life.
• For men, the experience and development of the personality is more important than education.
• Men are encouraged to work in one place for three years to develop their identity and find their business.
• For women, work is a rest from personal life, and real work is a responsibility in the family.
01:03:57 Differences between work and family
• Women find work more easily because they easily come into contact with employers and prove their qualifications.
• However, they often change jobs due to being bothered or sensible to exploit.
01:07:24 raising a loved one
• In business relationships, the clarity of fulfillment of duties, loyalty and the ability to distract from money is valued.
• In family relationships, nature is opposite: love and play, where sincerity and depth of relationships are important.
• In love, it is important to say what will make a person happy, not what really is.
• Love is woven from play and service, where a person says what needs to be said to increase love.
• In love relationships, the truth is to cultivate what a person wants to come to, not what they really are.
01:17:01 Creating a light atmosphere in the family
• The author explains that the atmosphere in the family should be easy and kind, where the rules are in fifth place, and love - in the first.
• If the husband drinks, it is important to create an atmosphere where it will not be a problem, but on the contrary, it will become a reason for jokes and fun.
01:21:38 relationship game
• The author gives an example of how a wife decides to leave, and her husband begins to look for an apartment.
• He shows his love and care, playing in a relationship, which helps his wife to thaw and start trusting him.
01:26:12 upbringing in the family
• The author emphasizes that education in the family occurs through a light and soft style of relationships, where serious behavior becomes simple and cheerful.
• He also explains how important it is to use humor and play in a relationship to maintain love and trust between spouses.
01:30:12 misunderstanding of styles
• The heroine of the video discusses his mistress and their relationship with her husband.
• She says that if she had a lover, it would break him through, but he does not react to her words.
• The heroine believes that this is due to a lack of understanding of communication styles and relationships.
01:31:17 Relationships of love and education
• Relationships of love are complex, but in the atmosphere of the game they develop rapidly.
• A man is afraid that his self-esteem will be trampled, and this can lead to a break in the relationship.
• The heroine explains that it is important for a man to be financial strength for his wife, but this is not a key point.
01:35:24 Faith in love and play
• The heroine talks about what you need to believe in love and do what you want to have, not what you have.
• She gives an example of how a wife should behave with her husband, even if he is drunk, and how it can help strengthen the relationship.
• The heroine uses the game and love to show her husband that she appreciates him and wants to have a deep relationship with him.
01:38:16 relationship game
• The video discusses the importance of playing in relationships, especially in family life.
• The game allows you to create an atmosphere of kindness and understanding, which facilitates communication and helps to avoid conflicts.
01:44:05 Examples of playing in a relationship
• The video shows an example when a woman agrees to a relationship with two men in order to save her family.
• However, in the end, this situation becomes unbearable for all participants and leads to a break in relations.
01:47:42 The Importance of Understanding and Accepting Truth
• The video emphasizes that in a relationship it is important not to prove your truth, but to strive for understanding and love.
• If you think the truth is higher than love, you may lose a loved one.
01:50:43 Relationships with mother-in-law and mother-in-law
• Women should understand the principle of relations with the mother-in-law: "Mom is always right, I'm always wrong.".
• It is important to do what the mother-in-law says, but not to feel obligated.
01:56:51 Courage in relationships
• Courage in a relationship means playing and being bold in any situation.
• It is important to learn courage in any relationship and not succumb to provocations.
02:00:31 Relationships with junior and senior
• Relationships with younger ones should be in an atmosphere of love and play, and with older ones - in an atmosphere of seriousness and learning.
• It is important to choose the right style of relationships and not destroy them if they do not meet expectations.
02:02:48 Creating an atmosphere of love and trust
• The video discusses various situations in which people can use the game of love and trust to improve relationships.
• An example is given when a husband comes to his wife who left him, and they drink tea together, which helps the wife to feel better and change her attitude towards her husband.
02:07:27 upbringing and self-control
• The video emphasizes the importance of education and self-control in relationships.
• A story is told about how her husband, despite the fact that his wife said that she did not love him, continues to behave as if she loves him, and this helps her understand that he is a good person and worth staying with him.
02:11:20 heartfelt feeling and revelation
• The video also talks about the importance of including a heart feeling and revelations in a relationship.
• An example is given when the bride's father was unable to say sincere blessings at the wedding, but his daughter was able to say this for him, which helped to strengthen their relationship.
02:14:20 fostering loved ones
• The video discusses the importance of the right style of behavior and communication in family life for raising loved ones.
• It is said that in family life it is important to choose the right style of behavior that will cause maximum understanding and love.
• It is mentioned that in family life situations often arise when you need to choose the right style of behavior to achieve results.
02:21:01 EXAMPLES FROM LI
• The video provides examples from life where the wrong behavior can lead to the destruction of relationships.
• It is discussed how important it is to be kind and gentle in communicating with loved ones in order to create an atmosphere of love and understanding.
• The movie "Enjoy your Bath" is mentioned, which shows how a serious style of behavior can destroy the family.
02:25:57 conflict analysis
• The video analyzes the conflict between two people, where one of them is angry with the other.
• It is discussed that the principle is higher than love and can lead to the destruction of relationships.
• The video emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and understanding in relationships to avoid conflicts and keep love.
02:28:05 Relationships with parents
• It is important to respect and love your parents, even if they say something that seems wrong.
• If you say you respect and love your parents, even if they say something wrong, they will be happy and forgive you.
02:34:42 Prayer and Relationships
• If the relationship with a loved one is poisoned, prayer can help restore them.
• Prayer helps to restore relationships when you start thinking about God and forget about a loved one.
02:39:19 QUESTIONS AND ANSWER
• A man asks how to save strength when his wife is seriously ill.
• Answer: It is important to learn to distract from your wife and switch to nature, good people and God.
02:41:13 Discussion of relationships and karma
• Discussion of the influence of karma on relationships and how to change a loved one.
• The importance of the style of relationships and how it affects fate.
02:49:02 QUESTIONS AND ANSWER
• Questions about how to help people with bad habits and how to change relationships.
• Discussion of individual approaches to help and how not to impose your help.
02:55:04 EXAMPLES FROM LI
• An example of a situation where a person does not accept help and how dangerous it can be.
• The importance of respect for the choice of a person and not to impose your help.
02:59:56 Relationships and problems
• Discussion of the importance of a serious approach to relationships and understanding that a family is a place where a person should be protected, not fight.
• It is mentioned that sometimes people get acquainted with serious intentions, but then the relationship can become too playful and frivolous.
03:03:02 Impact on relationships
• Discussing how a woman can influence a man by setting conditions for him and helping him become stronger and healthier.
• It is mentioned that if a man does not want to change and is not ready for a serious relationship, then this may be a sign that he is not needed.
03:08:40 Prayer and overcoming problems
• Referring to the fact that prayer and repetition of words can help to forget about the situation and start to feel stronger.
• Importance of listening and repeating to those who pray to get strength and energy to overcome problems.
