Happy family life. Lecture 2 (2012)

00:00:01 prolegomena

• Discussion of the topic of men and creating a family may be continued in the evening.

00:01:16 Time and its impact on life

• Time is the main energy that changes the world.

• In the spiritual world, time acts in such a way that happiness becomes more every second.

• In the material world, time acts so that every next moment becomes harder than the previous one.

00:03:28 The influence of time on life and attitudes

• Time ages the rude body, but in childhood the energy of the soul is more pronounced.

• Parents love children because of the clean life they see in them.

• Childhood energy can be transmitted through songs, cartoons and other artworks.

00:09:38 The concept of nationality and karma

• Discussion of the fact that the concept of nationality is associated with karma and is not a spiritual feeling.

• An example with Pushkin, who was a Negro, but dedicated his lyre to the people.

00:11:14 attitude towards the nation and faith

• The idea is that nationality and faith are secondary to the soul, the main thing is purity and spiritual understanding.

• Example with Mother Teresa and King Akbar, who became part of their faith.

00:15:45 National characteristics and children

• National characteristics always mean the best, and they must be taken in the nation.

• An example with a child who becomes native when he is seen as small and accepts his features.

00:17:09 Old age and meaning of life

• Old age is not a joy, and every year of life it becomes harder to live.

• The meaning of life is passing exams, understanding that happiness on earth is not intended for happiness, but for passing exams.

00:21:39 Spiritual energy and relationships

• The Vedas say that the soul wants happiness and cannot live without it.

• To do this, you need to live a spiritual life, build a relationship of fidelity, love and faith.

00:28:23 Exams and happiness

• The Vedas say that in this world there is nothing but fate and God.

• The husband may be woven from the mercy of God or from the fate that manifests itself through his behavior.

• Examinations in life are the best period when a person experiences happiness and difficulties.

00:33:34 mercy and happiness

• If a person is waiting for happiness, he becomes stingy and unhappy.

• Real life flows when a person serves, cares and accepts fate.

• Happiness can only be felt in a monastery where there is a pure relationship and sublime life.

00:38:51 System errors in relationships

• Women often think that they can always find better for themselves, but this is not the case.

• A woman deserves better than a man, because she identifies herself with divine energy.

00:40:22 How to control your feelings

• It is impossible to control your feelings, but you can behave correctly in an intimate life with your husband.

• If the husband inclines his wife to intimate life, and she does not want this, then this is an exploitation.

00:43:46 Spiritual Relationships and Friendship

• Friendship and relationships on the subtle plane are more important than sexual relations.

• If a woman exalts life in the family, then the relationship becomes cleaner and more sublime.

00:48:25 Sex and spiritual development

• Sex can be sublime if the relationship is cleaner and more sublime.

• Sex for the conception of children is considered divine activity, but not for spiritual development.

00:51:07 Flirting and relationship with her husband

• A woman can flirt with other men, but this can lead to problems in her relationship with her husband.

• It is important to build relationships with loved ones, giving them their energy and getting in return.

00:57:53 Forgiveness and relationships with the former

• If a woman has left a loved one, she must ask for forgiveness and repent.

• It is important to remember that relationships with God are more important than with ordinary people.

01:01:18 Method for solving family problems using constellations

• Good spirits are involved in the Helenger method, but it is important to understand that spirits are always present in life.

• The prayer of a holy man can help get rid of the spirit, but it is important to understand that life in this world is intended for exams, and not for personal happiness.

01:04:23 Discussion of male and female nature

• The video discusses how men and women show their love differently and how it affects their relationship.

• Mentioned that men often fight and fight while women can create museums and collections.

01:08:53 The influence of principles on relationships

• It is said that principles should not stand above a person, and what is important to understand and accept your loved one.

• An example is given how a woman can be selfish and destroy a relationship if she does not accept her husband and his desire.

01:11:09 The impact of money on life

• It is discussed that if a person wants a lot of money, it can lead to degradation and discord in the relationship.

• It is explained that God can give money, but only to those who are able to use it correctly for the benefit of people.

• It is emphasized that the more a person is engaged in charity, the more wealth he receives in life.

01:17:45 Happiness and nature

• The author talks about how he lives in a simple house near Krasnodar, where he enjoys nature and simple life.

• He emphasizes that happiness and health come from closeness to nature, and not from money and power.

01:26:08 Spiritual Teachers and Relationships with God

• The author explains why he builds relationships with the spiritual teacher, and not with God directly.

• He says that for him this is a more elevated level, and that he wants to learn to worship all people, as it is even better.

• He also explains that for God, he is more dear to the one who serves His servants, since God himself has such a property.

01:33:41 Man and his karma

• A man takes on the karma of the family, and when a child is born, it becomes harder for him to live.

• A woman experiences more happiness from the birth of a child, and a man must be ready to give part of his strength to satisfy his wife.

01:37:00 clairvoyants and clearly thinking

• Clairvoyants clearly see, but do not always benefit in their own words.

• Most clairvoyants scare people and make their life miserable.

01:41:31 Planets and human mind

• The Moon cools the mind and gives memory, the sun activates mental activity, Jupiter connects the mind to the mind, Saturn gives concentration.

01:43:02 Childless couples and upbringing of children

• If the couple cannot conceive a child, they must reconcile and take the child to be raised.

• When a woman takes a child to raise her, her feminine energies are activated and the probability of having her child increases.

01:46:04 Relationships and stress

• The author says that in a relationship with a person it is important not to attach too much importance, otherwise you will have to take an exam for loyalty and devotion.

• If a person does not want to return, then you need to wait and not humiliate yourself in front of him.

01:49:32 inner life and depression

• The author explains that depression passes when a person begins to live an inner life and worship a holy person.

• This leads to the end of ignorance and the establishment of relationships with the inner world.

01:52:01 Duties of a man

• The author speaks of the man's divine structure and his duties to a woman.

• He explains that a man should serve female beauty, read it and not use it for selfish purposes.

• If a man exploits female energy, then a woman can become a cobra that torments and sucks strength from him.

01:58:50 Creating a clean family atmosphere

• A woman must create a clean atmosphere in the house so that her husband behaves decently and does not be offended by her.

• To do this, you need to feed your husband with illuminated food, pray, wash your clothes in prayer, hang the house with icons and turn on spiritual music.

02:00:45 The influence of the atmosphere on relationships

• If a woman enjoys at home, her husband begins to exploit her body and the relationship becomes mundane and rough.

• If the atmosphere in the house is clean, the husband will enjoy and work on himself, and the wife will work on herself and thank her husband.

02:02:29 Husband's Blessing for Success

• A woman can bless her husband for success in life, but this does not mean that he will bring a lot of money.

• It is important to be unattached to your desires and sincerely wish success for your husband so that the blessing works.

02:05:48 Blessing of a wife and its influence

• The video tells how a wife can bless her husband, and how this blessing can affect his life.

• An example is given when the wife blessed her husband on a successful trip, and he lost his passport, but managed to get on the plane thanks to this blessing.

02:08:32 Duties of a man and a woman

• The video discusses the duties of a man and a woman in the family.

• A man should strive for prayer, development and work on himself, as well as for knowledge.

• A woman, in turn, should feel fate and give advice to her husband.

02:11:53 The influence of the study of the scriptures on a man

• Learning the scriptures helps a man become a responsible, serious and influential person.

• This is due to the fact that the study of the scriptures reveals the energy of knowledge in the heart of a man, which then manifests itself in his life.

02:13:48 The emotional strength of a woman

• A man should be able to resist the emotions of a woman, as they can be very strong and wounding.

• A woman can tell the truth, but her emotions can be perceived by a man as an attack.

02:19:00 man's responsibility

• A man must be responsible and kind to a woman so that she can live and be a woman.

• A man should be ready for emotional conversations with his wife and be able to calm her down.

02:22:27 Differences between a man and a woman

• A woman is experienced in the realm of certainty, and a man is in the field of uncertainty.

• A man must understand that a woman loves stability and static, and take this into account in her decisions.

02:26:45 Responsibilities of men and women

• A man should give a woman the opportunity to have something new in life, as she is prone to learning and learning.

• A woman should allow a man to make decisions, but not take them to heart.

• A man should listen to his wife's heart and accept her advice, as she has the purity of the mind.

02:33:24 Work and family

• A woman should work, but not too much to strain, as this can lead to family problems.

• A man must understand that the work of a wife is hard work, and not to force her to work too much.

• A woman should be kind, caring and warm in the family, which is hard work for her.

02:40:08 Relationships in the family

• Alexander Khakimov, a spiritual teacher and mentor, is an example of an ideal family relationship.

• His wife is also a mentor and mature person.

02:44:12 fosterage

• The father should give the opportunity to raise a daughter to his wife, since a man has a strong connection with his daughter.

• The mother must solve the main issues with the life of her daughter, but in difficult situations, the father can turn on and give advice.

• Education means example, not actions for a person personally.

02:49:36 Punishment and humiliation

• It is impossible to punish with force and humiliation, as this causes irreversible changes in the child's psyche.

• A woman should not be humiliated, as this causes her a feeling of inferiority and inability.

02:50:56 How to make a wife happy

• The lecture discusses how to make a wife happy, and examples of how a woman can cope with her emotions and create a calm atmosphere in the family.

• The importance of spiritual music, consecrated food, icons and flowers in the house, as well as a respectful relationship between family members is mentioned.

02:56:05 Astrology and predictions

• The problem of astrologers who give predictions is discussed, not taking into account the spiritual strength of a person and his ability to cope with fate.

• It is mentioned that astrology should be a secret knowledge available only to people with spiritual power so that they can correctly present information and help people cope with their fate.

03:00:09 Vision of Holiness

• The author explains that he sees holiness in a person as something pure and sublime, causing delight and faith.

• He explains that this is a superficial explanation, and that a real vision evokes certain feelings in the heart.

03:03:41 Practice of worshiping a holy man

• The author offers a simple practice: to repeat "I wish everyone happiness" and bow to the holy man, thinking about his holiness.

• He claims that this will change the concept of life in five minutes.