Dear Oleg Gennadievich! Your lectures are amazing, and I think that they should especially help those people who have not yet chosen a life partner in order to see a person with their hearts. But tell me what to do if I chose with a closed heart. I haven’t seen the man, and now his qualities seem completely irreconcilable to me. And this doesn't apply to the two of us. This also applies to our two children.

Children see this terrible situation. They see that there is no warmth and mutual assistance. We live under the same roof, but we are not together. Example: a little daughter is often in the hospital. She is 2.6 years old. Any virus that my brother brings from kindergarten leads to severe vomiting, there is no way to stop it, and we go to the hospital.

Imagine the picture. Night. Two children are vomiting. They need to be soldered off, the temperature lowered, and clothes changed. I don't sleep all night and ask my husband for help. And what do I hear in response: “Listen, close the door. Don’t you see I’m sleeping.” Always like this. At the same time, the father of my children does not overwork. He lies on the couch and watches TV, and I run around like a squirrel in a wheel all day.

Yes, great advice to lie down next to. But then my children will simply die in vomit, without food or drink. I've tried a lot. She prayed, performed her duties selflessly, a person only becomes corrupted. He doesn't see me or the children. He's not interested in us. He is not involved in raising them. Just screams and pokes. Shut up. Leave. Get out! He only wants TV and food. Maybe there is no point in continuing this relationship and it is better to end it? Help!