Good afternoon. I am grateful that you help people and me accordingly. Thanks to the lectures of Oleg Gennadievich, life changes, improves. But there were some of my shortcomings from the past and their consequences.
Less than a month ago, we met with a girl with whom we had known each other for a long time, but somehow did not communicate closely. And somehow it quickly turned out that we were together in bed. I like the girl, I would like to build a serious relationship, because after sex, whatever one may say, it is necessary that everything be serious. But, as it turned out later, she has a man, but not her husband. Divorced or not, she does not speak. He is older than her and lives in another country. He does not want and can no longer have children. She lives here and he gives her money.
She does not want a serious relationship, but wants me to be her lover. She also does not want children and a family. Wants to be strong and independent. Our meetings and relationships last less than a month. Her more specific views on life have only become clearer recently.
Question: How should I do it? I want to be an honest person and build a serious relationship. But if she doesn't want to, then do I have the right to leave her? Or do I need to get her location? What to do? Thank you.