A woman has only two options: to nurture her loved one or to destroy him.
Often women turn to Oleg Gennadievich who complain about their family life, about their non-working husband, about his indifference to his responsibilities, about the lack of help on his part. There are even more women who do not ask for advice, but simply file for divorce, thus trying to cut off the relationship and put an end to their ordeals. After all, they still have to rely only on themselves, so why else keep ballast in the form of a non-working husband?
What do the Vedas say about this and how to ultimately start living a happy life? This is what we will talk about in this article.
About the roots of the problem
You should know that the current situation is, first of all, our amount of work, because when a person comes into our life, he brings with him the baggage of our unprocessed karma. In this baggage, lessons are selected for everyone: some women get a weak-willed husband, some, on the contrary, with a strong and bad Mars, with some comes the impossibility of conceiving children, and some get a husband about whom everyone says: “ Lucky you". It's the same with women. Each of us carries lessons for our loved ones, we just can’t always understand it, much less accept it.
As Oleg Gennadievich says, there are three stages in defeating fate. The first is when I believe that my loved one is to blame for all my troubles and misfortunes. The second is when I believe that the fault is somewhere between us, the so-called “both are good” position. The third stage means that a person deeply understands that he alone is to blame for everything that happens to him. The Vedas say that a loved one only reflects our destiny. He shows us what's in our heads, even if we don't say it out loud.
About internal and external actions
All problems are of an internal nature and are solved on the internal plane, and not on the external. If even in a moment of crisis you do not believe in the effect of prayer and think: “Yes, I’ve already heard about prayer 100 times, give me some other recipe for happiness,” then most likely you will continue to act on the external plane, in other words, break firewood. In this case, it will be very difficult to come to an agreement with fate and qualitatively change your life.
What does external action mean? This is when we think that with our words, conversations, moral teachings or actions we can explain something to a loved one. But what's the point of telling your husband to look for a job? He already knows this. However, with your reproaches you can add fuel to the fire, and your husband, due to the fact that he does not want to do and live according to your orders, will resist with all his might. Therefore, external actions, alas, do not always lead to success, but they take a lot of strength and nerves. After all, not everyone knows how to speak correctly, ask, and even more so make comments. This requires a certain qualification, which most of us are not even interested in, let alone do not possess.
The Vedas explain that it is best to solve problems on the internal plane, that is, with the help of prayer. We already know from Oleg Gennadievich’s lectures that a loved one can do us neither good nor evil, our fate simply acts through him. But you can’t solve anything with fate with words. You need to work on it, cleansing your heart from sins and accumulated filth.
— Victory over fate occurs during prayer. At first you will feel better; you will feel that you were biased towards your loved one and behaved harshly towards him. When a man is cursed, he becomes cursed. That is, he becomes even more of a rag. There's just a lot of work in front of you - that's the kind of husband. Work on it. Firmness, of course, will not hurt, but it must be with love, and then the man will begin to rise up. But if you want to destroy your husband, then you can do it too. But along with it, you will also destroy your happiness,” notes Oleg Gennadievich.
Grace or curses?
Often women think that by getting divorced they will be able to find a better person, and this is a colossal misconception. Understand that it's not about the person, but about fate. If you already have some kind of problem with your husband, then most likely it will be in the next relationship, and will follow you for many years until you work it out.
Therefore, instead of reproaching your husband for irresponsibility and inciting war, you need to engage in spiritual practice in order to pacify your fate. Overcome a problematic situation in your heart, because all problems are solved there, not in your head. By looking for shortcomings in their loved one and cursing him in this way, women make their husbands even more downtrodden, painless, weak-willed, in a word, unhappy people. Most often, women do not understand the truth of masculinity and are unaware of how they destroy it. But those who have received knowledge are able to change their entire lives and not only theirs, but also those of a loved one.
- A woman is made of mercy or curses. Since a woman does not know this strength in herself, she destroys her life. This applies to all women. When it acts like a volcano, a man has no chance of defeating this energy. If a woman becomes a destroyer, then in this case she has no stone left unturned from a good fate,” explains Oleg Torsunov.
Three forms of a woman
The Vedas explain that a woman has three hypostases, and we need to discover them in ourselves.
1. A believing woman. When she serves God, she becomes a source of wealth and prosperity for everyone around her, especially her husband.
2. Knowledgeable woman. When a woman gains knowledge, she makes her husband very powerful. He becomes the ruler of the world. A woman who is woven from knowledge understands how to live correctly, and she conveys this knowledge through her heart and love to her husband. As a result, he becomes educated in how to live.
3. Destroyer. When a woman enters such a state, she destroys the fate of a loved one, as well as her own. This means that it is not woven from love, but from only curses. She curses everything that comes her way and does not give her loved one a second chance. When a woman becomes a destroyer, all the knowledge of a man is destroyed.
- To serve a loved one, you need only one thing - faith in the person. Many women do not believe in their husbands, which means that they completely destroy them. The result will be sad. Complete devastation in life. It is clear that some husbands are not worthy of their wife’s faith, but if she nevertheless begins to accumulate it in prayer, then she thus cultivates it and gives herself the opportunity to have a good husband and live a happy life. But if you destroy it in your consciousness, then, undoubtedly, it will be destroyed,” emphasizes Oleg Gennadievich.
Therefore, a woman has only two options: to nurture her loved one or to destroy him, and she can do both options. Moreover, if a woman destroys what God gave her for development and work on herself, then there will be no happiness in her life. Thinking that the problem is with her husband, the woman does not understand that she was given such a person by fate, that her marriage is not a mistake of youth.
Our karma is personified in our loved ones, and it is from them that both happiness and suffering come. But it is in our hands to decide who the husband will be - an executioner or a gift from heaven. The personality of our loved ones is always the same, but fate can be defeated, and then their bright sides will be revealed to you. Become a blessing force for your husband. Don't cut the branch you're sitting on.
