Before a woman works, she must establish herself in personal relationships and develop as a person in accordance with her nature.
Oleg Torsunov in his lectures always shares work in the understanding of women and in the understanding of men. He says that before working, you must understand your nature and work in accordance with it.
According to the Vedas, a woman should not think that work is the most important thing in her life. Ancient treatises describe that two main channels pass along the spine in the human body. Ida-nadi on the left side are responsible for female nature, and in women this channel works 3 times stronger. Pingala-nadi on the right side is responsible for male functions, and, accordingly, works 3 times stronger in men than in women.
The left side means the female side, the right side means the male side. So, for both men and women, the left side is responsible for family relationships, harmony with the world, love, warmth, care. Since in women this side is 3 times stronger, respectively, it has 3 times more love and caring for the family is its primary duty. It's in her psyche. In connection with it, a female body is formed: it is more beautiful, soft, gentle, sophisticated than in men. A woman's intuition works well, she understands the situation better, feels false in the words of people, she has a very sensitive heart.
On the right side, both men and women show more volitional functions. The energy of knowledge flows through the right side, so men try to develop as a person, actively work in social activities, reveal all their best qualities at work. In this regard, a man has a strong stable psyche, strong will, determination, asceticism, stability.
Based on the fact that a man and a woman are fundamentally different from each other, it is not surprising that they have different sources of happiness. A man gets more happiness at work, and a woman gets more from relationships. Therefore, even at work, she tries to make friends with everyone, establish a trusting relationship, which, as a rule, is the cause of her suffering. Oleg Gennadievich claims that there can be no personal relationships at work, but only business relationships, that is, the relationship of duty.
The closer the relationship, the more emotions, resentment, disappointment turn on. Meanwhile, at work, you do not need to be friends with everyone in order to fulfill your duties. Although friendship can also be, but without mutual expectations and affections. However, women cannot live without relationships. Therefore, the Vedas say that a woman should first of all take care of her personal life, and then about work.
- When a woman plunges into work without having a personal relationship, then in this case her feminine energy of love is depleted, and the male energy of will increases. So, at first, its mental structure changes. And since the mind controls the gross body, the external structure also changes over time. A woman who devotes too much time to work, loses her hormonal functions, beauty, attractiveness, her character changes, she becomes very persistent, strong-willed, adamant, which men really do not like. She doesn't feel like she's dependent on a man. In the future, she develops male habits: to drink, smoke, sip iron. The result is sad: the woman loses herself, - notes Oleg Gennadievich.
Thus, the development of the will does not contribute to the development of relations. Because personal relationships develop in a very sophisticated, gentle environment that a woman herself creates. A woman is very sensitive and softly can create such an atmosphere. And this is the normal life for a woman, in it she feels like a fish in water. But when a woman develops volitional functions, her psychic energy flows to the right side and she starts a mechanism with four stages that are familiar to all women: very interesting work / I'm tired / tired / it's time to leave.
However, this does not mean that a woman does not have to work. This means that you must first establish yourself in personal relationships with loved ones, that is, create an environment in which you can cultivate relationships with loved ones. From a woman's personal relationship, the woman will have the strength to work, and stability in labor will arise. The result will be peace of mind at work. What to do if there is no family? In this case, it is necessary to create relationships with parents, relatives, friends, neighbors.
What kind of work is good for a woman? There are four signs: at such a job you can talk, you can drink tea, you can leave early and no one presses on you, that is, little responsibility. Women know what I'm talking about. However, everything I named has nothing to do with work. It's just a cultural vacation. A place where a woman can come to chat and somehow realize herself. Why is it so? Yes, because the real serious work ruins a woman. Since a woman has a subordinating nature, she is told to do, she does. It turns on, but it can no longer turn off. As a result, everyone at work uses it, and it becomes unhappy, - Oleg Gennadievich comments.
So, in ancient culture there was an understanding of where women should work. They were engaged in social activities: they took care of children, the elderly, the beggars, about education. They created relationships in society, so all female specialties are associated with caring for society: teacher, doctor, educator, nurse, secretary, manager.
- Female nature is woven out of love, which means that everyone must be loved. If a woman feels that she is dry, it is difficult for her to communicate, it is difficult to get to know each other, smile, create relationships, it means that she puts her strength in the wrong place. She plows or studies too much in order to work hard later. The result is a broken life. The female power melts, it becomes ugly, children do not love it, the husband does not love. This is at best if they exist. After all, if she works even more, then they will not be at all, because they will not be interested in living with such a woman. Therefore, for a woman, the first place should be personal life and development of relationships. Through them, she will be able to develop as a person, - emphasizes Oleg Torsunov.
Often the problem is not that people cannot find a job. Sometimes we simply do not know what to do, and this problem is directly related to our character. So, there is a developed character, and sometimes undeveloped. When character becomes developed, a person begins to feel what he needs to do in life. And the correct character develops from the fact that we develop in accordance with our nature. At the same time, a woman has an understanding of what she needs to do in women's relationships, and not business.
- A woman, of course, can learn to ride a tank, but this will not help her either in health, or in her personal life, or in rapid development. No need to become Jeanne d'Arc to be happy, - emphasizes Oleg Gennadievich.
Therefore, a woman first needs to develop in a feminine way. That is, to develop in oneself feminine qualities of character: compassion, warmth, kindness, responsiveness, the ability to communicate correctly, humility, obedience, care. In the process of working on her character, a woman develops as a person. As a strong personality, she begins to understand where she needs to work. Because if a person does not deal with his nature, even if he is actively, he destroys his life. If a person is engaged in nature, but not much, then he thus creates life.
