How to learn to live happily with your loved one. Lecture 1 (2019)
00:00:04 Betrayal and love
• Discussion of how betrayal destroys love and how important it is to forgive and not hold a grudge.
• It is mentioned that a woman was born for happiness, and a man is to be able to overcome difficulties.
00:02:13 Needs and happiness
• It is said that a woman has many needs, and if she cannot satisfy them, then she may be unhappy.
• advises to direct your desires to the spiritual realm to be happy and satisfied.
00:05:45 Problems with study and movement
• The problem with the child's study and the need for movement for its development are discussed.
• It is mentioned that children are now immobilized and spend a lot of time in front of the computer, which negatively affects their health and development.
00:09:16 Characteristics and attitudes
• It is said that the woman in question is sensitive and individual, and it is difficult for her to adapt to the team.
• It is mentioned that she does not want to compete and win, but strives for harmony and love.
00:12:21 Relationships with parents
• Discussion of the importance of respect for elders and their opinions.
• Respect for the wife's parents and their opinion.
00:21:37 Love and Relationships
• Love is a challenge that requires proper attitude and behavior.
• Studying the theme of love and its influence on human life.
• The importance of studying the theme of love for preserving relationships and happiness.
00:27:08 Energy of happiness
• The energy of happiness or prana permeates the entire existence of a person, and every organ and cell of the body needs it.
• The energy of happiness has different characters, and each organ and cell need different kinds of happiness energy.
00:34:12 Love and health
• Love is the energy of God, its component, and it is the basis of life.
• It is impossible to live without love, and health is impossible without love.
• Nature is a special kind of love, and health is naturally possible only with the help of love and movement.
00:38:12 sun energy
• The sun gives a person good digestion, immunity, mood, vitality and the ability to overcome diseases.
• The sun also gives a person energy for deep assimilation of substances, good vision, skeletal system and beauty.
00:41:00 water energy
• Water gives a person a good metabolism, the interaction of all parts of the body and the absence of inflammatory processes.
• Water is also associated with beauty, harmony and the ability to conceive and endure many children.
00:42:42 earth energy
• The earth gives peace, rest, sleep and lack of fear.
• The earth is also associated with mental health and makes it possible to conceive and bear many children.
00:48:23 earth energy
• The ground relieves voltage and restores normal pressure.
• Earth gives immunity, vigor, concentration of attention and strength.
00:50:12 air energy
• Air gives a person good immunity, cheerfulness, concentration and strength.
• Air sets a person to a strong life position and a large amount of possibilities.
00:51:49 space energy
• The energy of space gives a person freedom, emancipation and removes fears.
• The energy of space sets a person to a wide position in life and many opportunities.
00:54:55 Energy of Love
• The love of nature gives health, the love of man for man gives strength and opportunities in society.
• Love for elders gives respect and authority in society.
00:59:29 respect for elders
• Respect for elders gives the opportunity to manage others and have power.
• Respect for younger people makes it possible to have a wonderful team and children who will take care of you and love you.
01:02:28 Love and its types
• The video discusses that love can manifest itself in various forms, such as the desire to help others, friendship and respect.
• Love for nature and elders can give health and a high position in society.
01:08:43 Beauty and austerity
• Women's beauty is a kind of austerity when a woman forgets about herself and begins to serve others.
• Male beauty is a type of male austerity when a man forgets about his desires and begins to serve others.
01:13:45 Money and their energy
• Money is the energy that can be used correctly or incorrectly.
• If a person is using money incorrectly, it can lead to negative consequences such as illness and relationship problems.
01:19:02 piety and love
• In this world there is justice, strength and love.
• If a person has money, wealth and power, this means that in a past life he has done many good deeds.
• Piety is the accumulated love, which gives a person the authority in life.
01:24:18 Love between man and woman
• The energy of love between a man and a woman has a high potential, but it can be destructive.
• If a person does not cope with this energy, he loses it and may lose his loved one.
• It is important to serve love, not enjoy it.
01:27:13 Dependence on love
• Dependence on love makes a person unhappy and uninteresting for a partner.
• A self-sufficient and happy person can be loved and happy in a relationship.
01:31:58 Love and Relationships
• Love is a huge power to earn.
• The boss, who stops drooling at the sight of his wards, receives huge powers from them.
01:35:16 mistreatment to love
• A woman wants a man to be caring and understanding, but a man does not understand its nature and does not know how to behave.
• A woman can give love only to someone who behaves sensitively and carefully.
01:40:55 Love and Faith
• Love-faith is a blind love that can make a person a monster.
• Love-faith in a person can lead to the destruction of the family or to the fact that a person becomes a madman.
01:45:05 Love and Relationships
• It is important to have knowledge about how to behave with loved ones in order to maintain love and reciprocity.
• If a person behaves correctly with a loved one, he seems to give his energy of love into the void, since there will be no reciprocity.
01:50:53 Delicacy and education of loved ones
• Delicacy in relationships with loved ones is very important, as any pressure causes severe pain.
• Raising a loved one should be delicate, without pressure, with the help of a joke or allegory.
01:56:41 The price of love and self-sufficiency
• To pay the price of love, you need to serve God and love Him, which gives the energy of self-sufficiency.
• If a person serves a loved one, but does not love God, he becomes humiliated and devoted.
• Love filled with self-esteem is possible only if there is self-sufficiency.
01:59:06 Love and Relationships
• The author explains that love needs strength and that a woman should be holy, and a man should be noble.
• If a woman sees the nobility of a man, she calms down and becomes obedient.
02:08:29 Second stage of relationship
• The second stage of the relationship is called gratitude or respect when a loved one begins to see the unusual qualities of another.
• At this stage, there is a feeling of gratitude and respect for a loved one.
02:13:40 Third stage of relationship
• The third stage of relationships is called loyalty, when people see paradise next to a loved one and do not want to leave him.
• At this stage, people see a lot of purity in each other and feel eternal relationships.
02:15:35 Price of Love
• A person comes to Oleg Gennadievich with the question of why he lost his family.
• Oleg Gennadievich explains that this was done in order to increase love for them.
• He says they are waiting for him in paradise and he will join them soon.
02:17:40 Loss and Punishment
• Oleg Gennadievich claims that no one loses in this world, but sometimes feelings can be experienced by fate.
• He explains that if a person wants more than God, he can lose the object of love.
• It can be a terrible punishment, but it is necessary for a person to love God.
02:23:01 Selflessness and love
• Oleg Gennadievich says that the purpose of life is the one who is the source of love, and not love itself.
• He claims that in order to tune in to disinterestedness, one must connect with disinterestedness and fall in love with the holy people who go to God.
• It changes the heart of a person and allows him to do good deeds and love.
• Oleg Gennadievich completes, saying that we live for the sake of love and this is enough.
02:26:18 Attitude towards love
• The video discusses how the mother sees the cleanliness of her child and conveys this vision to her husband, who begins to love and care for the child.
• This leads to the fact that a person is born with the ability to see in other people what the mother sees in her child.
02:30:24 Types of love
• The video discusses various types of love: material, spiritual and love for relatives, friends and animals.
• Material love means the love of exploitation when we want to enjoy each other and have each other.
• Spiritual love means love that God gives, and it revives us to Him.
02:36:08 Worship and love for God
• The video emphasizes that worship and faith in a person make people moral and cultural, but without understanding what conscience and higher love are, this leads to polar thinking and wars.
• Love for God is the highest love and reward, but it is not visible or heard, and we can earn it only if we hear about Him from someone and feel someone's love for Him.
02:43:05 Relationship with family and God
• The lecture discusses the importance of a proper attitude towards the family and God.
• It is said that a person cannot help but sin if he does not feel God.
• It is mentioned that some sinners received the mercy of God, despite their sins.
02:49:48 Prayer and attitude towards relatives
• The lecture emphasizes that prayer for relatives does not always help, since a person can think about a relative, and not about God.
• It is recommended to set yourself up for prayer, forgetting about a relative, and thinking about God.
02:54:14 Easy relationship between husband and wife
• The lecture speaks of the importance of easy relationships between husband and wife based on faith in God.
• If a wife believes in God more than in her husband, she will be more calm about his advice and comments.
02:56:59 Faith and kindness
• The video says that faith and kindness win everything, and that people should shine and love each other.
• It is mentioned that in a past life people have earned each other and must live correctly so that everything is fine.
03:00:51 Various manifestations of God
• The video claims that God is one, but can appear in front of people in different ways, depending on their needs and tastes.
• Various scriptures are mentioned that reflect different aspects of love and relationships with God.
03:02:16 Illusion and saints
• The video emphasizes that people see only one facet of God and begin to draw conclusions, which can lead to the wrong relationship with Him.
• It is mentioned that insulting God is the biggest insult in the world, and that people should be careful when they have a wrong attitude towards God.
• In conclusion, it is said that if a person believes that God is not a person, but himself, then he is in an illusion and cannot be better than God.
03:07:06 Questions about love and relationships
• The lecturer discusses why some people do not want to start a family.
• He explains that sometimes it may be related to the punishment in the heart that arises from an abandoned loved one.
03:12:01 The Importance of Close Relationships
• The lecturer emphasizes that a woman is arranged in such a way that she enjoys the energy of love inside herself and can be happy with herself.
• If she starts to exploit this energy, however, and think she doesn't need to build a family, she may regret it in the future.
03:16:19 Combining different traditions
• The lecturer calls for respect for different traditions and beliefs, emphasizing that love is always felt in different cultures and faiths.
• He calls for the unification and respect of all people, regardless of their faith.
