How to build harmonious relationships in the family. Lecture 3 (2019)
00:00:18 Answers to questions
• The lecturer answers questions about personal life, work, depression and forgiveness.
• Recommends yoga, swimming, sprouted grains, vegetables and prayer to improve health.
00:09:35 Recommendations for work and forgiveness
• The lecturer advises her husband to change jobs in a year, as now there is a bad period.
• Forgiveness of the mother requires deep prayer and immersion in a relationship with God.
00:13:45 Creation of the club "Blagost"
• Lecturer explains how to create a club "Booly" and participate in its activities.
• Mentions the prayer workshop held on 17 August.
00:15:27 Forgiveness and Faith
• A story about a man who lost everything due to a friend's betrayal, but was able to forgive him through prayer.
• Prayer helps a person to find happiness and forgive insult.
00:21:47 Relationships and understanding
• Talk about misbehavior in relationships when one of the partners requires understanding, but does not understand the other.
• Tip: Learn to understand another person and serve him to achieve a deep sense of understanding.
00:25:14 The impact of the country on a person
• A story about how the country's energy affects a person, his behavior and attitudes.
• In each country, people have their own energy and behavior, and a person must accept this and adapt to a new environment.
00:32:33 Depression and resentment
• Discussion of depression and resentment, their influence on the relationship and life of a person.
• Mention that reason has three centers: in the head, heart and groin.
• Women have a center of mind in the heart, in men - in the head.
00:40:29 Application of knowledge in life
• Tips for women: do not impose your knowledge on men, but explain gently and kindly.
• Advice for men: do not put pressure on women with your knowledge, but speak directly and kindly.
• Mention of the complementary nature of men and women, their influence on each other.
00:45:22 Faith and purpose of life
• The video discusses the concept of depression and its connection with the human mind.
• A person receives happiness through the purpose of life, and without it he cannot live.
• Faith means the direction of the mind and the ability to receive the energy of happiness.
00:47:11 Choosing the purpose of life
• Faith may be the highest goal of life, but other options can lead to the destruction of fate.
• If the child becomes the goal of life, this can lead to a cynical attitude of the child to the mother and the destruction of relationships.
00:50:09 Consequences of choosing the purpose of
• If a person sets someone as the goal of his life, relations with this object are inevitably destroyed.
• Stress and depression can occur when contact with life's purpose is destroyed.
00:51:29 The impact of the purpose of life on relationships
• If the mother sets the child to be the goal of her life, it can lead to depression and problems in relationships with the child.
• The child's love for the mother is of a temporary nature and ends when he begins to depend on another person.
00:54:26 Love and Faith
• The author discusses the different types of love and their impact on relationships.
• He emphasizes that love-faith, when a person believes in another person, can lead to the destruction of relationships.
• He also discusses how love-faith can lead to depression when a person cannot live without another person.
01:04:51 Depression and exhaustion
• The author explains that depression can be caused by exhaustion when a person does not know how to replenish himself.
• He discusses how people can get exhausted because of work, family and other responsibilities, and how this can lead to depression.
01:09:43 fatigue of life
• The author discusses how fatigue from life can lead to depression and how people can try to deal with it by drinking, smoking or looking for another woman.
• He emphasizes that a correct understanding of the purpose of life and faith in God can help to cope with these problems.
01:13:46 destruction of love
• The song says that a person brings dawn, and this indicates that love will be destroyed.
• Shakespeare wrote that such a strong love will be destroyed, and this is true.
01:16:13 Faith and love
• Faith is the core of a person's life, and without it he cannot live.
• People dream of true love, but in fact they need to dream of God, not a person.
01:17:28 family destruction
• The sweet taste of love destroys human life, just as the moth dies from the light.
• A person loves to love, and this feeling destroys his family.
01:20:08 hope for a person
• Most people believe in people, not God, and therefore dream of a person.
• The main reason for divorce is the hope that a person will find himself such a partner who will give him the opportunity to experience happiness.
01:21:58 Love-Award and Love-Gratitude
• Love-reward is what people aspire to, but in life they do not meet this.
• Love-Gratitude is what is forever and forever, but is associated with God, not with man.
01:22:45 Love and acceptance
• The author explains that true love arises as a result of work on relationships and does not cause only pleasure.
• He gives the example of his friend, who accepted his wife and began to do good deeds for her, which led to calmness and stability in relationships.
01:27:43 Stages of love
• The author distinguishes three stages of love: acceptance, service and gratitude, fidelity, sincerity.
• At each stage, people experience different feelings and emotions, but at the stage of sincerity, they can talk about spiritual and deep things, trust each other and be tender.
01:33:34 Love and Relationships
• The video tells how important it is to have in life a person who understands and supports you.
• A case is mentioned when a man and a woman lived together for 45 years, and their relationship was so deep that they did not feel separation after the death of one of them.
01:44:25 Vedas and Divine Feminine Energy
• The video says that in every woman there is Divine feminine energy, which is the embodiment of love and wealth.
• It is mentioned that each religion has its own wife of God, and that this energy manifests itself in different forms, such as Mary Magdalene, Lakshmi and others.
• The video also says that the opportunity to fall in love does not belong to a person, and that God decides who we fall in love with and how He decides it.
01:48:38 Love and Divine Vision
• Holy people see the divine in every person, while ordinary people see only the opposite.
• Fall in love with a child and divine vision in him is preserved for life.
01:54:22 Education and Relationships
• To maintain the divine vision in a relationship, you need to communicate with God, set up an altar at home, illuminate food and read prayers.
• Fate can chain our memory to bad things, but through kindness and knowledge, knowledge can be transferred to another person.
01:59:01 Love and education
• Love is the care, attention and understanding of a person, and education is the closure of what a person received by itself.
• Education means that you close the faucet, but do not treat a person badly.
02:02:20 upbringing of a husband
• The author explains that the first stage of raising a husband - do not pay attention to his behavior, the second stage - to suck up and ask to cook better, the third stage - to be grateful and ask to be grateful.
• He also tells a story about a woman who left for her mother for two weeks to take a break from her husband, and he called her to ask to stay for another two weeks.
02:05:15 fosterage
• The author explains that the upbringing of children occurs through care and service, and then through suspension.
• He emphasizes that the upbringing of a boy occurs through actions, not words, and that a woman is brought up through a good conversation and trust.
• He also says that a man is brought up only through actions, and that a woman should be prepared for the fact that her husband may be ungrateful and capricious.
02:07:17 proper pride
• Self-esteem is associated with conscience and a sense of happiness, knowledge, memory and oblivion.
• A person communicates with conscience when he says "I feel that I have lived this life for a reason.".
02:13:41 proper self-esteem
• The right sense of self-worth makes a person attractive, influential and strong.
• It arises as a result of doing the right actions and cannot be developed by self-hypnosis.
02:16:00 Self-esteem in goodness, passion and ignorance
• In goodness, self-esteem arises after doing good deeds and causes satisfaction and calmness.
• In passion, self-esteem is associated with the desire to be successful and can be artificial.
• In ignorance, self-esteem is associated with faith in good luck and may be associated with requests to God for material goods.
02:26:18 Faith in luck and wrong thinking
• A person who believes in luck can only be happy in good periods of life, but not in bad ones.
• Wrong thinking leads to misperception of fate and depression.
02:31:12 self-esteem and its impact on life
• Self-esteem may be in the past, future or present.
• If a person lives in the future, he can be unhappy, since happiness is in the future.
• To be happy, you need to switch to serving other people and do something interesting for them.
02:37:49 self-esteem and fate
• The video discusses how self-esteem can influence the fate of a person.
• Если у мужчины чувство собственного достоинства уходит влево, он становится эмоциональным и плаксивым, а у женщины - наоборот, она становится грубой и независимой.
• Если у мужчины чувство собственного достоинства уходит вправо, он становится агрессивным и крикливым, а у женщины - капризной и плаксивой.
02:43:43 Как вернуть чувство собственного достоинства
• Для возвращения чувства собственного достоинства, нужно заняться собой и перестать быть униженным или депрессивным.
• Если человек хочет от другого человека то, чего он не дает, его чувство собственного достоинства может выйти из равновесия.
• Важно научиться быть самодостаточным и не требовать от близких людей того, что они не могут дать.
• Если судьба давит на человека, он может обратиться к добрым людям, природе или богу, чтобы отвлечься и наполниться.
02:49:08 Как побеждать судьбу
• В видео обсуждается, как побеждать судьбу, когда женщина сильно хочет, чтобы ее сын слушался ее, но это приводит к непослушанию.
• Для победы над судьбой нужно отвлечься от желания и начать служить другим, молиться богу и стать самодостаточным.
02:53:50 EXAMPLES FROM LI
• В видео приводятся примеры из жизни, когда женщина не хочет детей, но муж не хочет их давать.
• В этом случае, женщина должна начать служить мужу, заботиться о нем и воспитывать его, чтобы он изменил свое восприятие и дал ей детей.
02:58:08 Как проигрывает человек в судьбе
• Если человек сильно доверяет своей судьбе и начинает плохо думать о близких, это приводит к разрушению семьи.
• Важно быть внимательным и осторожным, не приковываться к своим мыслям и не доверять своей судьбе полностью.
03:01:23 Victory over fate
• Человек должен иметь силу и способность направлять свою память на что-то другое, чтобы не думать о плохом и не раниться.
• У человека должна быть способность к самонастройке и вера в бога.
03:06:55 acceptance of fate
• Когда человек принимает свою судьбу, он побеждает ее и становится легче.
• Важно помнить о боге и не забывать о своей проблеме, чтобы она теряла силу влияния.
03:10:30 proper pride
• Правильное чувство собственного достоинства - это когда человек делает добрые дела и чувствует часть от этого.
• Чувство собственного достоинства является критерием успеха и помогает прийти к победе.
03:15:54 Правильное мышление и отношение к другим религиям
• Автор говорит о том, что люди должны мыслить правильно и понимать, что другие религии не являются злом.
• Он приводит пример, как он сам был в мусульманском храме и чувствовал счастье, так как везде все одинаково.
03:22:04 Медитация и повторение настроя
• Автор предлагает медитировать и повторять настрой "Желаю всем счастья", который подходит для всех религий.
• Он объясняет, что это настрой, а не молитва, и что он будет повторять его на итальянском и русском языках.
03:32:11 end of the lecture
• Автор благодарит зрителей за посещение лекции и желает им здоровья, крепких семей и духовной жизни.
