How to deal with your relationship. Nature of men and women. Lecture 1 (2019)
00:00:04 relationship control
• A woman controls the situation in relations with relatives, children and husband.
• The husband does not understand why the wife controls the situation so much.
00:01:01 Aesthetic needs
• A woman does not digest aesthetic flaws such as a speck on the table.
• The husband does not understand why this is so important for his wife.
00:02:34 Gratitude and austerities
• If the husband does what his wife likes, she becomes grateful and begins to change.
• Gratitude gives rise to the ability to listen and change.
00:05:39 Relationship between man and woman
• In the usual relationship between a man and a woman, there is no close relationship, as they do not listen to each other.
• Husband and wife should do austerities and do what they don't like to be happy together.
00:09:46 Differences between men and women
• Women idealize men by comparing them to others and destroying their psyche.
• Men and women have different mental structures: in men - the external mental cylinder, in women - internal.
00:15:29 Interaction between man and woman
• A woman must penetrate inside a man in order to establish a relationship.
• A man should not climb inside a woman too deeply so as not to break her psyche.
• If a woman sees a man's tears, she may stop feeling protected next to him.
00:20:02 Age-related changes in the psyche
• As you age, the outer mental framework is depleted, which leads to a change in behavior and character.
00:21:54 Features of the female psyche
• A man can unbalance a woman, but she cannot quickly return to her normal state.
• A woman may be offended by something and not communicate with a person, even if he is good.
• A man may love a woman, but she may not want to communicate with him after a quarrel.
00:25:36 Protection of a woman and her behavior
• The protection of a woman is not to unbalance her and not to make her suffer.
• A man should try to be gentle, affectionate and caring with a woman so that she feels good.
00:29:45 What does a woman want in a relationship
• A woman wants tenderness, affection, care and attention from a man.
• A man must be careful and attentive to a woman so that she feels happy and protected.
00:32:49 ideal wife
• Men believe that the ideal wife should be cheerful and pleasant, unable to bear the brain.
• Men don't really need other qualities of a wife, as they are already satisfied with these two.
00:33:58 stupid women in relationships
• Stupid women in a relationship behave harshly and not compliantly, which is a sign of their stupidity.
• Reasonable women behave softly and compliantly, which is also a sign of their reasonableness.
00:35:36 Rooster and its nature
• Rooster is the male's outer mental cylinder that always tries to win.
• If a woman is facing a rooster, she must either retreat or kill him.
00:36:45 Stupidity of women in relationships
• Stupid women do not understand that a man needs to win, and a woman - specifics.
• If a woman knows how a man works, she can safely tell him about her desires and principles so that he calms down and feels solidarity.
00:38:36 Differences between men and women
• Men and women give and accept money differently: men give easy, women give their energy easily.
• Men easily pay off the fruits of their labor, women hold on to the fruits.
• Women give service easily, men give money easily.
00:41:40 The influence of a woman on the atmosphere in the house
• A woman controls the territory, fills the apartment with her energy.
• If a woman's mood is bad, it affects everyone in the house, including children and animals.
00:44:54 The work of a woman and her role in the family
• A woman works at work to rest from family tension, communication with her friends and relieve mental stress.
• The man works at work for rest and relaxation after work.
00:47:34 differences in interests and preferences
• A man watches films about victories and achievements, a woman - about love, relationships and harmony.
• A woman who cannot behave gently and compliantly with a man extinguishes his success and achievements.
00:49:29 Desire and character of a woman
• A woman inside is stronger than a man, but if she does not know how to behave diplomatically with her husband, this can destroy family life.
• The desire of a woman never passes until it is fulfilled, and she feels hard when no one is around.
• Men forget their desires, but women do not.
00:52:44 The nature and desires of a woman
• Every woman has her own character, which she will not show when meeting a man.
• A man must know the nature of a woman in special situations in order to understand whether he can handle it.
• Every woman has her own exclusive desires that she will not change in life.
00:56:49 Talismans and desires of women
• A man can invest in a woman's character and health so that she is happy.
• A woman can wait and endure, but cannot cancel what she wants.
00:59:32 The importance of understanding the nature of the partner
• A man must consider the direction of life and bad habits of his partner in order to avoid problems in relationships.
• If a woman is mentally ill, it may be due to her sensitivity and requires treatment.
01:05:04 The influence of personality development on relationships
• Personal development can lead to a change in the character and behavior of a partner, which can be both positive and negative.
• A woman's energy reduction can lead to the loss of intimate relationships and the ability to build close relationships with a man.
01:09:58 The importance of family and close relationships
• The development of the country and the nation depends on the ability to save the family and close relationships.
• Love arises when a person sees in another person the divine qualities that the Lord gave him.
01:14:11 Love and Faith
• A woman's love for a man is based on his firmness of spirit, prudence, the ability to overcome difficulties and patience.
• The love of a man for a woman is based on her care, fidelity and ability to be in harmony.
01:16:12 Love-faith and its consequences
• Love-faith can lead to pride, rejection and rudeness, which destroys relationships.
• Holy people can withstand love-faith, but most people are not capable of it.
01:23:26 Mental threads and connection with loved ones
• Psychic threads connect people with each other and allow you to feel the state of loved ones.
• God connects the psyches of people and connects their energies so that they live with their fate.
01:26:12 Fate and relationships
• The author discusses that fate is not something rude or cruel, but rather reflects the qualities that we have in ourselves.
• He explains that if we are surprised at the behavior of a loved one, then this may be due to the fact that we behave the same way.
01:35:46 Love and Faith
• The author discusses that the desire to fall in love and be happy with someone from the very beginning may be wrong, as this means that a person does not want to work on his fate.
• He emphasizes that respect and love are the basis for relationships, and that the desire to fall in love without respect for another person can lead to suffering.
01:41:14 Love-faith and its consequences
• The author discusses that love-faith can be dangerous, as it can lead to the destruction of relationships and suffering.
• He compares love-faith with a moth that flies into the light, but dies from a burn.
• He also discusses that people often want hot love, which can lead to their defeat in fate.
01:44:19 Destructive power of love
• The author discusses that love can be destructive if a person does not understand its meaning and is not ready for it.
• He gives life examples when men leave their wives and children for the sake of new love, which leads to the destruction of their life.
01:47:53 The impact of beauty on relationships
• The author explains that a woman has two types of beauty: external and internal.
• External beauty attracts men, but inner beauty makes you want to be with a woman and build relationships with her.
01:52:03 Consequences of rupture of
• If a woman leaves her husband, she gets loneliness and emptiness, and the man who left his wife can quickly find a new love.
• The author emphasizes that for a woman, the family is the basis of happiness, and therefore it is not recommended for her to leave her husband.
01:58:31 New meeting is the best remedy for loneliness
• The author says that a new meeting can help a person forget about the past and start a new life.
• However, he also emphasizes that the new meeting cannot completely destroy the fate of a person, and for this you need to remember your mistakes and not forget about your fate.
01:59:31 Любовь как лекарство от судьбы
• Автор утверждает, что любовь является самой большой силой, которая может спасти человека от его судьбы.
• Однако, для того чтобы победить свою судьбу, нужно любить не человека, а Бога или святость.
02:00:30 Тренировка памяти о счастье
• Автор предлагает повторять настрой "я желаю всем счастья" после каждой лекции, чтобы отвлечься от своих тяжелых мыслей и победить свою судьбу.
• Он также упоминает о том, что после лекции он раздает цветы и мандарины, которые несут удачу и заряжены любовью слушателей.
02:03:13 end of the lecture
• Автор благодарит слушателей за терпение и желает им счастья, любви, здоровья и крепких семей.
