The science of happy relationships. Lecture 2 (2016)
00:00:08 Relationship problems
• A woman comes to a consultation, talks about pain in a relationship and asks what they are for.
• The astrologer explains that the sensitivity of a woman is incompatible with the rudeness and assertiveness of a man, and this can be the cause of problems in a relationship.
00:02:56 put up one's hat
• The astrologer emphasizes that women often do not want to endure the male character and this can lead to loneliness.
• He explains that it is important for a woman to enjoy harmony and relationships, and if she sees that a man has no harmony with her, then she must decide whether she wants to build a relationship with him.
00:09:01 Relationship problems and solutions
• An astrologer discusses a situation where a husband lives with another woman, but wants to live with his wife and child.
• He invites a woman to work on herself and develop relationships to put them in order.
00:11:47 Relationships and astrology
• A woman talks about her experience of cheating and breaking up with a man who could not forgive her.
• The importance of becoming a strong personality and establishing itself in oneself is discussed.
00:13:17 Development and trade
• A man asks how to realize his destiny and become successful in trading.
• Various development schemes and their effectiveness are discussed.
00:18:42 Relationships and astrology
• The man talks about his experience of contacting an astrologer and its consequences.
• Recommendations on how to behave with an astrologer and how to develop relationships are given.
00:24:00 rabbit allergy
• A man asks a question about the causes of rabbit allergies and how to communicate with them.
• Various types of intolerance and their impact on health are discussed.
00:25:38 Problems with husband and children
• A woman faces problems in relationships with her husband and children, including threats and libel.
• The lawyer advises to pray for her and not to interfere in her affairs.
00:32:41 Prayer and victory over fate
• Prayer can help solve problems, but it is important to understand that a person himself is responsible for his actions.
• Prayer can help you understand your mistakes and correct them.
00:41:04 Faith in ignorance and the evil eye
• Faith in ignorance is a belief in evil when a person believes that his problems are caused by someone else.
• This leads to negative thoughts and suffering.
00:49:30 Relationships and happiness
• Happiness is the basis of a person's life, and it is given free of charge when a person falls in love.
• However, in order to maintain happiness, one must work selflessly and receive gratitude in return.
• It is important to understand that love is eternal, and time recedes when a person is filled with happiness and love.
00:53:38 Energy of Love and Compatibility
• The energy of love is taken only from God, and even if a woman attracts the attention of a man, this does not mean that she is a source of beauty.
• Beauty is the energy of love, and when a woman has a lot of love energy, she becomes beautiful.
• Compatibility between people can be at different levels, including compatibility for mutual life and compatibility for love.
01:00:04 Three stages of love
• The first stage of love is the acceptance of a person with all his shortcomings and difficulties.
• The second stage is respect for a person for his good and patience of his bad.
• The third stage is loyalty when harmony and resonance of hearts arise between people.
• falling in love is not love, but lust, the desire to enjoy a person.
01:08:46 Degradation and love
• The video discusses the stages of human degradation and their impact on relationships.
• It is mentioned that each person has his own shortcomings, and it is important to work on yourself to maintain the relationship.
01:12:26 Energy of love and love
• The video explains that falling in love lasts for about three years, after which people must include the energy of love in a relationship through serving each other.
• It is discussed that sometimes people can pull the energy of love onto themselves, which can lead to loneliness.
01:17:29 Love and stubbornness
• The video emphasizes that a girl should not fall in love with someone if this person does not want to build a relationship with her.
• It is mentioned that love for a person is not selfless, and that selfless feelings arise only as a result of the work of the soul.
01:21:09 Relationship between man and woman
• The video discusses the importance of respect and selfless feelings between a man and a woman, and how relationships can fall down when children are first born and then gradually rise.
• It is mentioned that a man should serve a woman, understanding her feelings and desires, and a woman needs harmony and understanding on the part of a man.
01:26:14 tactile behavior
• Tactful behavior towards a man means not to be too emotional and not to put pressure on him with your ideas and rules.
• Tactful behavior towards a woman means not to put pressure on her with your thoughts and not to include negative emotions.
01:28:21 Relationships between men
• In relationships between men, they can communicate and discuss various topics without experiencing negative emotions.
• At the end of the video, the author promises that his theater will play a performance based on his lectures in Perm in December.
01:30:41 relationship and self-esteem
• The video discusses how self-esteem affects the relationship between a man and a woman.
• If a man or woman has a strong sense of dignity, they can attract the attention of the opposite sex.
• If the relationship begins, it is important that both partners are ready for it and do not drag the energy of love towards themselves.
01:35:08 Relationship problems and solutions
• If one of the partners begins to feel humiliated in a relationship, he must learn humility, patience and forgiveness.
• If both partners begin to feel humiliated or proud, this can lead to relationship problems.
• It is important to learn how to behave in a relationship correctly so that they are harmonious and happy.
01:43:53 Proper formation of self-esteem
• The video discusses the importance of proper formation of self-esteem, which should be based on relationships and actions, and not on pride or selfishness.
• It is mentioned that in modern society people often do not develop power from themselves, but instead watch TV and live in a passive state.
01:50:03 Relationships and their influence on self-esteem
• The video emphasizes that relationships play a key role in shaping self-esteem, and that a person must be prepared to be strong, even if it means being prepared for conflict and change.
• It is mentioned that if a person is proud of his truth, then he can be stupid, and that in order to become wise, one must be human and put others above his truth.
01:58:59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWER
• At the end of the video, questions and answers related to relationships and self-esteem are discussed.
• It is mentioned that the girl may not be sure that her partner is her "man", and that she may need help from the elders to decide on the marriage.
02:01:10 Spiritual development and relationships
• It is important to put spiritual development in the second place in relation to relationships if they begin to deteriorate.
• If a person does not reach your spiritual development, take a step back and establish a relationship.
02:03:15 Sectarianism and incorrect behavior of elders
• Sectarianism can be in any faith, and elders should not extort money or inciting family destruction.
• Elders should not make eyes and enjoy female beauty, this is wrong.
02:08:13 Relationships in the women's team
• In a women's team, it is important to outline the rules and give a choice of submission.
• The rules should have time for rest and communication, as well as the opportunity to leave work for good reasons.
• Strictness and comfort at work are important for women, and they are ready to sacrifice something for this.
02:14:00 Destruction of relationships due to excessive love
• If a person is not able to start a family, this may be due to his undeveloped personality or excessive love for his partner.
• In case of excessive love, a person may lose his head and become dependent on a partner, which leads to the destruction of relationships.
02:18:01 The choice between loneliness and family
• Women often prefer loneliness in their personal lives, but this can lead to loneliness and depression.
• It is important to learn to love and build relationships in order to avoid loneliness and save the family.
02:25:01 Relationships with elders and vaccinations
• In relations with elders, the main thing is respect and love, and not the fulfillment of their instructions.
• If parents insist on vaccinations, you can tell them that you respect them, but you can't accept their opinion yet.
• If the elders do not commit violence, you can tell the truth, if they commit violence, it is better to deceive.
02:28:10 Destructive processes in the family
• Relationships between a man and a woman are selfish in nature, which can lead to pain and suffering.
• Attachment to a loved one can cause pain if expectations are not justified.
02:35:41 Right attitude towards loved ones
• A person should serve everyone around, accumulating happiness, and not expect gratitude from loved ones.
• If a person is waiting for gratitude from a loved one, this can lead to scandals and the destruction of the family.
02:40:09 Sacrifice and upbringing of loved ones
• Sacrifice and expectation from loved ones can lead to love and cooperation.
• A reasonable person sacrifices, but does not lose himself, and this can become the basis for a happy family.
02:43:08 Противоположности между мужчиной и женщиной
• Мужчина ведет себя гневливо, женщина обижается на это.
• Мужчина становится лживым, когда женщина не может прощать.
02:46:14 Внутренний психический цилиндр мужчины и женщины
• У мужчины внутренний психический цилиндр мягкий и подвижный, у женщины - неподвижный и сильный.
• Женщина может быть категоричной и принципиальной, что приводит к обману мужчины.
02:52:47 Kindness and forgiveness
• Женщина должна прощать недостатки мужчины и не обращать на них внимания.
• Мужчина должен видеть в женщине человека, а не принципы.
• Любовь означает прощение и принятие.
02:56:54 Женская правда и ее влияние
• В видео обсуждается, как женская правда может быть использована для подчинения мужчины.
• Женщина, которая знает, как правильно, может использовать свою правду для контроля над мужчиной.
• Мужчина не может выдержать женскую правду и часто не может сделать правильно, но знает, как правильно.
02:58:41 Уважение к правилам и отношениям
• Уважение к правилам и людям, которые живут рядом с вами, важно для поддержания здоровых отношений.
• Если вы живете рядом с человеком, который принимает вашу позицию, уважайте его и не наглейте.
03:00:33 Разум и удачливость
• Мужчина становится удачливым, если он советуется с женой и уважает ее мнение.
• Женщина становится удачливой, если она прощает ошибки мужа и не гнобит его за недостатки.
• Если женщина гнобит мужчину за его недостатки, она разрушает семью.
03:03:40 Молитва и память о святости
• Обсуждение важности молитвы и памяти о святости для победы над судьбой.
• Упоминание о том, что иногда люди могут чувствовать себя плохо, когда слушают молитву, но это не должно их останавливать.
03:10:02 Процесс победы над судьбой
• Процесс победы над судьбой включает в себя слушание молитвы, воспоминания о святости и преодоление боли.
• Упоминается, что время может мучить человека, но если он любит святость и преодолевает боль, то он может победить судьбу.
03:14:00 end of the lecture
• Лектор благодарит слушателей за внимание и желает им счастья, духовного знания и любви.
