The science of happy relationships. Lecture 2 (2016)
00:00:08 discussion of extrasensory perception and faith
• The author discusses that extrasensory and faith are different things, and that faith helps people to comprehend life and truth.
• He also says that people who feel more than others are often negative and can put others on the negative.
00:00:09 Problems with the grandmother and spiritual practice
• The woman talks about her grandmother, who has become stronger and offends her after the birth of her youngest daughter.
• The author explains that sincerity and spiritual practice help to cope with such problems and that it is important to treat people and the world correctly.
00:00:11 Three kinds of relationship and correct distance
00:12:49 Help for the soul after death
• The author explains that after the death of a person, his soul remains alive and needs help from loved ones.
00:18:18 Working with Prayer
• The author suggests using the sound of people praying to turn on memory and nourish the heart with power.
00:23:05 mother's help
• The author says that if a person has tension in the heart, this means that his mother needs help.
• He proposes to use the proposed methodology for working with the heart and prayer.
00:25:11 Problems with the child
• The child suffers from a lack of harmony with nature and contact with the energy of the earth and water.
• The mother must establish contact with these elements and be herself relaxed.
00:31:50 Prayer and development
• Prayer and development help the child become a good person.
• It is important to work with your soul and give yourself to other people.
00:32:35 Relationship with ex-husband
• A woman is going through a difficult period in her life associated with her ex-husband.
• It is important to go through three stages of relationships: a good feeling for a person, friendship and repentance.
• Prayer and work on yourself will help restore relationships.
00:40:43 Relationship problems
• Discussion of the importance of preserving memory of the past and respect for loved ones.
• Discussion of the problem of torment and laziness of the soul, and how this affects the relationship.
00:44:34 Three layers of human consciousness
• Explanation of three layers of human consciousness: ignorant, middle and spiritual.
• Discussion of the importance of developing and changing one's consciousness to improve relationships.
00:46:24 How to build relationships with loved ones
• Tips for building relationships with loved ones, including fulfilling duties and taking care of them, but without too close relationships.
• Discussion of the importance of prayer and service to change the relationship and heart of another person.
00:51:26 Torment and happiness in life
• The author discusses that life should not be torment, but rather happiness.
• He explains that the torment arises from anxiety and lack of heart strength.
00:55:44 Life in passion and goodness
• The author discusses two types of life: life in passion and life in goodness.
• In passion life, people strive for success and cannot imagine other options.
• In life in goodness, people learn to develop relationships and love.
01:00:11 Relationships and love
• The author emphasizes that relationships are not only love, but also service, forgiveness and care.
• He also says that people should learn to develop their relationships and maintain them.
01:07:28 Talk about family relationships
• The song says that in a relationship, efforts must be made to restore relationships, but this is not always possible.
• Relationships often have problems because people don't understand each other and don't make enough effort to solve them.
01:14:28 Differences between men and women
• Men and women have different approaches to communication and problem solving.
• Men often get tired of emotional conversations, and women may have difficulty understanding male demagogy.
01:17:58 Three types of relationships
• The video discusses three types of relationships: in goodness, passion and ignorance.
• People in goodness are able to build deep and close relationships, while people in passion and ignorance may experience suffering and problems in relationships.
01:23:30 Faith in man and stress
• If a person believes not in God, but in another person, this leads to stress.
• Belief in a child, husband or wife can lead to pride and stress.
01:30:49 EXAMPLES FROM LI
• In the park, people pay attention to the person who stands near the tree, as he charges with energy.
• At the airport, people pray, which attracts the attention of others.
01:35:16 Relationships and Faith
• If a person falls in love very much, but cannot reach the object of his love, this can lead to stress.
• If a person begins to believe in his partner, this can lead to the destruction of relations.
01:39:58 Love and Relationships
• Faith is a special state of a person that cannot be expressed in words.
• Relationships with God begin with nature, then with people and only then with the temple.
• Love is the work of the soul, which requires austerity and care for loved ones.
01:46:05 proper pride
• Serving loved ones with the goal of getting gratitude can lead to addiction and humiliation.
• Service with prayer and disinterestedness brings joy and gratitude, which strengthens self-esteem.
01:50:54 Gratitude and respect
• Unselfishness and gratitude cause respect and desire to listen to advice.
• Gratitude for the good done to others makes you listen and respect his opinion.
01:53:28 The problem with truth and respect
• The problem is discussed with people who cannot tell the truth to close people, as they do not respect them.
• It is mentioned that people in ignorance often cannot tell the truth, as they consider themselves guilty and do not want to admit their guilt.
01:58:10 True respect and self-esteem
• True respect for oneself and close people cannot be inspired, it arises from conscience and supersoul.
• Respect for oneself and loved ones arises from selfless deeds and service to others.
02:02:07 Love and family relationships
• Love does not mean only "stroke stroke", it also includes the ability to tell the truth and hear it.
• If there is reciprocity and sincerity between people, their relationship will be strong and happy.
02:07:31 Love and Relationships
• The author discusses that people often confuse falling in love with love, and this leads to relationship problems.
• He explains that love is a process that takes time and effort to develop.
• He also says that people should accept each other with all the shortcomings and serve each other to build a deep relationship.
02:15:44 Song of love and fidelity
• The author includes a song that explains how to treat a dead partner and emphasizes the importance of loyalty and love in a relationship.
• He says that when people are faithful to each other, they do not separate even after death.
02:20:06 work on relationships
• The author emphasizes that any relationship requires work and effort, and that without knowing how to live right, life will be full of suffering.
• He encourages listeners to ask questions on the topic and discuss their relationship issues.
02:22:19 Relationships and changes
• It is said that in a relationship one person may work on them, and the other may not know about it.
• It is mentioned that changes in a loved one may not be sufficient to satisfy, and that for this, changes must be made and accepted from God.
02:30:10 Relationships and Faith
• It is said that a person cannot treat someone who is worth more, and that even if a bandit lives with you, he will not violate the rules of relations with you.
• It is mentioned that a person does not know his past and present, and that the study of this world can help in understanding relationships.
02:33:22 Dependence and Joy
• It is discussed that if a man rejoices, he can infect his wife with joy, and that this may be the reason for changes in the relationship.
• It is mentioned that sometimes people may be dissatisfied with childhood engrams and that to change the situation, one must serve and believe.
02:36:10 attitude towards husband
• The author says that a person must become self-sufficient to help a loved one.
• It is discussed that sometimes fate can be difficult, and this may be related to the karma of the family.
02:39:02 Acceptance of fate and happiness
• The author says that happiness comes through the acceptance of one's fate and the development of faith in God.
• Discussing how important it is to serve close people disinterestedly and with the right attitude.
02:44:30 Invisible threads and relationships
• The author discusses invisible threads between people and how they can be related to errors and wrong actions.
• He offers a way to cleanse the light memory of a person to achieve more serious relationships and not make mistakes.
02:52:00 proper pride
• The author talks about how important it is to treat yourself and your shortcomings.
• He explains that people often do not understand their shortcomings and cannot accept them.
• To do this, you need to learn humility and accept elders as teachers.
02:56:35 Humility and firmness of spirit
• Humility is the ability to see one's flaws and not to consider yourself better than others.
• The firmness of spirit is the ability to rely on elders and their wisdom.
• The author emphasizes that the firmness of the spirit arises from faith in holiness and invincibility.
03:00:28 Self-criticism and self-esteem
• Self-criticism is an assessment of the amount of work and correction of errors.
• Do not make a victim out of yourself and feel sorry for yourself, you just need to correct your mistakes.
• Pride and self-criticism are different things, pride is self-esteem and self-esteem.
03:01:29 Self-criticism and close relationships
• The author says that you should not perceive your shortcomings too emotionally and worry about them.
• Instead, you need to work with your heart and repent to gain lightness and new opportunities.
03:06:32 Self-discipline and self-respect
• The author explains that self-discipline helps to get rid of anxiety and build close relationships with other people.
• Self-respect can be found when a person sees the good in others and does not expose himself in a bad light.
03:08:24 Truthfulness and concentration
• The author emphasizes that truthfulness is impossible without a proper attitude towards oneself and others.
• If a person does not see his shortcomings, he will not be able to be honest and truthful.
03:10:23 Practice and repetition
• The author suggests to practice the repetition of the adhan and wish everyone happiness in order to improve concentration and understanding.
• It is important to listen and repeat after others to learn to listen and concentrate.
03:14:31 Prayer and happiness
• The author explains that there may be fear at the beginning of the practice of prayer, since the mind does not want to give up its freedom and rely on God.
• If you continue the practice, however, the mind will begin to awaken and enthusiasm and happiness will appear.
03:16:33 Victory over fate
• The author says that when a person begins to feel happiness, giving something to others, his fate begins to change.
• He also emphasizes that it is important not to be distracted by your thoughts and continue to repeat the prayer.
03:30:49 Gratitude and completion
• The author thanks the audience for their love and support, as well as for their participation in the prayer workshop.
