Features of relationships in our time. Lecture 2 (2016)
00:00:08 Divorce and consequences
• A woman talks about a divorce from her husband, who began to build relationships with another woman.
• Discussions and the consequences of both partners are discussed.
00:03:13 Return to husband
• A woman asks about the possibility of returning her husband, who went to another woman.
• Discussing ways to save the family and return the husband.
00:09:10 Female power and optimism
• Female power and optimism are discussed, as they are connected with the body's bodily laziness and nature.
• Advice on improving mood and increasing female strength.
00:13:43 Expectations and investments in relationships
• Debated expectations and investments in the relationship between a man and a woman.
• Tips are given on how to help a man take care of a woman and how to remind himself.
00:16:59 Relationship problems
• A woman complains about the control and distrust of the man.
• The man is proud of himself and does not see his shortcomings.
00:23:46 ministry and love
• Service means acceptance of criticism and forgiveness of a loved one.
• Love should live on using service and gratitude.
00:30:38 Expectations and love
• Expectations cause conflict and suffering in relationships.
• Love means service and gratitude, not just enjoyment.
• Love develops through service and respect for a loved one.
00:34:44 The strength of a woman and her influence on relationships
• The video discusses the strength of a woman and her influence on relationships.
• It is said that not every woman can sing about her strength, and that some women do not come with ease.
• It is mentioned that notes are usually written by people who are not ready to open the heart and that the responses to notes may be ineffective.
00:38:47 The problem of dominance in relationships
• The problem of dominance in relationships is discussed, when each person strives to establish his own dominance and promotes his truth.
• It is mentioned that the system of accepting truth in a relationship does not work, and that it is important to accept the truth of a loved one so that he calms down, and then humbly tell his truth.
00:40:36 Expectations in relationships
• It is said that the truth of a man in the eyes of a woman looks like injustice, and that the truth of a woman in the eyes of a man looks like injustice.
• It is discussed that a woman sincerely believes that tenderness in a relationship is equally pleasant for everyone, but for a man this can be an austerity.
00:41:15 Emotionality of men and women
• Men show emotions with difficulty, it is difficult for them to turn on emotions and be tender in a relationship.
• Women show emotions more easily and can be more affectionate and gentle.
00:45:05 Hearing and humility
• Women easily obey men when they are courageous and strong.
• Men can't always obey women, as this is for them asceticism.
00:47:39 Understanding the male perception of happiness
• Men come to lectures to prove their case, and women to understand and understand.
• Women must play along with men to help them be stronger and stronger.
00:52:26 Self-sufficiency and relationships
• It is important to be self-sufficient and happy to be happy in a relationship.
• If a woman is not self-sufficient, she will not marry.
00:56:03 Insults and their impact on relationships
• Insults destroy the memory of a good person.
• Only strong people can ask for forgiveness, weak people wait to be asked.
01:00:21 Sexual relations and their impact on relationships
• Sexual relationships increase attachment and expectations, which can lead to conflicts.
• Exception - conception of a child, when the energy of attachment goes to the child.
01:04:00 Forgiveness and a strong position in a relationship
• Strong position in life - ask for forgiveness, not be afraid to be humble in front of a loved one.
• A woman should ask for forgiveness gently and unobtrusively, a man - actively and strongly.
01:07:21 Forgiveness and Relationships
• Women usually do not forgive immediately, men should know this and be patient.
• Forgiveness occurs gradually, five times.
• In the house, women control everything, even if a man considers himself the owner.
01:11:00 RELATIONS OF R
• The first two stages of the relationship are unprotected, divorce is possible.
• At the third stage, people unite for development, the purpose of life is self-improvement.
• In these relationships, people strive to understand each other and develop.
01:17:07 Sleep and past lives
• In a dream, a person can contact the past, open the memory of past lives.
• In one of the dreams, the author saw his youth and realized that his life was like the past.
• The meaning of human life is in comprehending one's eternal nature and holiness.
01:22:27 Spiritual path and personality development
• The video says that each person should think about their spiritual path and personality development.
• It is noted that people are born in a certain culture and religion, and it is important to choose your faith and culture in life.
01:23:27 Conscience and development of relationships
• It is mentioned that conscience is included only in developed people who are interested in honesty and self-improvement.
• When people set the goal of their life, the development of personality and self-improvement, they can communicate more deeply with each other and open the heart.
• This leads to the appearance of true love, based on a deep understanding of each other.
01:24:43 Guaranteed loyalty and happiness in relationships
• It is mentioned that people can see each other's miracle of character and comprehend it, leading to deep relationships and guarantees of loyalty.
• Happiness from such relationships is hundreds of times more than from sexual relations.
• If life did not work out with a husband or wife, this may be due to the insufficient development of personality and relationships.
• It is important to develop and not be sad if something does not work out.
01:31:13 love and relationships
• Love is compared to a snake that bites a person's heart, and it can be dangerous to relationships.
• Falling in love can be a sweet poison that destroys everything a person has.
01:34:48 piety and relationships
• Piety is the selfless actions that a person performs in this or past life.
• Piety can influence relationships, and if a person commits actions that do not correspond to his piety, he can be punished.
01:41:10 Attractiveness and relationships
• Attractiveness can be the appearance that causes sexual desire in men, but does not guarantee a stable relationship.
• The second kind of beauty that comes from the woman's heart can attract a stable relationship and start a family.
01:48:09 Repentance and family preservation
• If a woman is left alone and it is difficult to find a loved one, then a man can fall in love and suffer because of this.
• If a woman repents and prays, then God gradually forgives and consolidates the right actions.
01:56:37 Loyalty and Asceticism
• Loyalty - female energy, austerity - male.
• It is harder for a woman to accept a person in life and get married than for a man.
• If a woman believes that her person, then she can save the family and be faithful.
02:00:58 unrequited love
• The video discusses the situation when one of the partners in the relationship begins to give more love, and the other - pulls it more towards itself.
• This leads to the fact that the one who loves loses himself in a relationship, and the one who gives becomes strong and proud.
02:03:11 Loneliness and desire to love
• The video also says that the desire to be with someone increases with age, and this can lead to a situation where one of the partners falls in love but does not need the other.
• In this case, in order to get married, you need to marry someone who loves you and whom you consider a good person, but for whom there are no feelings.
02:06:00 Loneliness in women and men
• In women, loneliness can be caused by an unwillingness to strain in relationships, and in men - a desire to walk and see female shortcomings.
• In both cases, loneliness can be caused by the wrong approach to relationships and unwillingness to work on them.
02:09:49 Moral development and marriage
• Discussion of the importance of moral development and its impact on the quality of life.
• Mention that most people do not understand the importance of moral development and do not aspire to it.
02:13:24 lifelong watch
• A story about observing the departure of a person who did not know about the possibility of leaving the body.
• Discussing that people don't always understand what happens to them after death.
02:18:10 QUESTIONS AND ANSWER
• Discussion of questions about how to understand that a man is ready for marriage and how to behave with a man who is not ready for marriage.
• Discussion of the situation with a woman who met another man and now in other respects.
02:25:50 Choice between relationships and family
• The video discusses that the family is created from a sense of stability and reliability, not out of compassion.
• If a person is not sure of the reliability of his partner, he must temporarily end the relationship and deal with other relationships.
02:30:15 Spiritual education and overcoming of fate
• Spiritual education makes it possible to win fate and overcome difficulties.
• The video also mentions that the fourth day of the program will be unusual and will include tuning for the next year, wishes for happiness and a festive performance.
02:39:27 Divorce and its consequences
• Divorce always begins with the improvement of life, but after a few years, catastrophic consequences begin.
• It is important to repent and not repeat the mistakes.
02:44:16 Sex and its influence
• Sex is the strongest, uncontrollable and dangerous energy in a person's life.
• It is important to know that sex is a physiological need, and treat it carefully.
02:46:35 fosterage
• Strictness with children should be reasonable and not exceed five years.
• The physical punishment of boys after five years is acceptable, but with a good heart.
• It is important to understand that children's whims can be associated with their difficult life and tension.
02:49:58 family egoism
• The video discusses the concept of family egoism, when people, having married, begin to experience an urgent need for many things that they did not need before.
• This leads to tension, labor and the need to work hard to meet these needs.
02:53:47 Caring for others and prosperity of the family
• In order for the family to be strong and happy, it is important to take care of other people, invite friends to visit and take care of the neighbors.
• It helps to create a favorable atmosphere and promotes the prosperity of the family.
02:55:21 Selfless help and recognition
• If a person disinterestedly helps others, he becomes recognizable and respected in society.
• This may lead to the government helping him if necessary.
02:57:19 piety and selflessness
• Piety and good family name have great power in business life.
• Selflessness gives rise to success in life and social stability.
03:00:48 Relationships with relatives
• Mother-in-law is the energy of love that flows to another place.
• Women should learn to love their husband's parents more than their own.
• Restoration of relationships with relatives is important for saving the family.
03:10:07 work on yourself
• The author explains that at the first stage a person feels happiness and strength from the repetition of prayer, at the second stage the heart opens and lightness appears, at the third stage a person must continue to wish happiness to everyone and give it to the altar or shrine, which he worships.
• It is important not to let the memory of painful events that can come up during prayer, and continue to wish everyone happiness.
03:14:25 exercise
• The author offers to train, repeating "I wish everyone happiness" several times.
• He also encourages viewers to wish happiness and thank for their presence at the lecture.
