different types of leadership. Male and female dignity. Lecture 3 (2019)
00:00:12 discussion of family relations
• The author discusses various layers of life, including the ignorant, passionate and blissful layers.
• He explains that for friendship and communication at a blessed level, it is necessary to have a religious family.
00:08:02 Relationship problems
• The author discusses problems in relationships with the child and his father, as well as with another person who does not want to marry.
• He advises to pray and work on himself to overcome the difficult periods of life.
00:12:40 Spiritual life and relationships
• The author discusses that in order to solve problems in relationships, one must focus on spiritual life and prayer.
• He also says that the other person must choose a path that corresponds to his inner potential.
00:16:31 Death of a husband and his influence
• The author discusses the death of her husband and his influence on the life of the author.
• He says that the husband is on the higher planets and supports the author.
00:19:11 heavy periods of life
• The video discusses that the difficult periods of life are intended for human development, and not to change something.
• Prayer and practice can help overcome these periods and become stronger.
00:25:08 Relationships and destin
• The video says that relatives can incite a person in difficult periods of life, and it is important to take care of yourself and not succumb to provocations.
• If a person has left for another country, it may be fate, and it is important to digest this situation and start communicating with him kindly.
00:33:18 Diseases and their treatment
• The video emphasizes that it is important not to panic and not to feel helpless in front of the disease.
• If the disease does not torment, you can lead a healthy lifestyle and ignore it.
• If the disease can kill life, then you need to fight it, but not to fall into despair.
00:37:22 Degradation and development
• If a person leads an unhealthy lifestyle, he has female shortcomings: resentment, vulnerability, soreness, laziness, pessimism.
• If a man does not work on himself, in the next life he is born a woman with male flaws.
00:43:01 Work on yourself and changing orientation
• If a man works on himself, he begins to see women as normal people and changes his orientation.
• If a woman works on herself, she begins to see men as normal people and changes her orientation.
00:48:36 self-esteem
• Communication with other people helps maintain self-esteem and move forward.
• You can use different ways of communication, such as wearing certain clothes or drawing on a window.
00:53:10 self-esteem
• The author talks about his experience of smiling and joy to people when he ran along the path in the park.
• He notes that some people smiled back at him, while others turned away or did not notice him.
• The author emphasizes that the correct position of self-esteem is to rejoice and not be afraid to smile at people.
00:56:29 Optimism and attitude towards people
• The author explains that optimism is a good attitude towards people, even if they can be hostile or dangerous.
• He gives an example of how his assistant, who transported the altar across the border, was able to avoid problems due to a kind attitude towards the customs officer.
• The author emphasizes that it is important not to succumb to the hostile behavior of fate, but to remain calm and kind.
01:05:21 Choice between money and life
• The author says that you should always choose life, not money, since money is a temporary phenomenon.
• He talks about a case when a person protected him from attack, but did not take the money.
01:09:27 Acceptance of fate and forgiveness
• The author explains that if a person accepts his fate, then he can defeat it and not succumb to influence.
• He gives an example when a woman forgave her husband, who cheated on her after she learned that she herself cheated on him in the past.
• The author also talks about a case when a husband and wife simultaneously asked him a question about forgiveness, and he helped them understand that they are both to blame for their problems.
01:17:11 Passing two stages to defeat fate
• The author explains that in order to defeat fate, it is necessary to go through two stages: realizing injustice and accepting this.
• He emphasizes that the feeling of injustice can kill a person, and that realizing this and accepting the situation can help a person live a normal life.
01:19:10 Stages of acceptance and forgiveness
• The author also mentions the stages of acceptance and forgiveness when a person agrees that his fate is fair and begins to take insults and criticism calmly.
• He gives an example when he himself went through these stages and stopped responding to insults, which led to the disappearance of a page with criticism on the Internet.
01:21:15 Acceptance and humility
• The video discusses the importance of acceptance and humility in difficult situations, such as the husband's departure or betrayal.
• The author explains that in the second stage a person can start talking with an ex-partner and even make friends with him.
01:24:04 development of self-esteem
• The author emphasizes that self-esteem should develop in different situations, and that it is important to be able to take the position of the elder in relation to others.
• He gives an example with a dog that barks at everyone, and how he was able to change his behavior without reacting to her aggression.
01:29:55 Helping children and accepting their developmental levels
• The author says that it is important not to be surprised by the behavior of children and accept them as they are.
• He gives an example from his childhood when he stole a book from the library, and as a teacher came to his house to find out what he was doing after school.
01:35:21 attitude towards elders
• The author talks about his experience when he stole a book and was caught.
• The teacher did not punish him, but simply talked to him and explained that theft is a sin.
• The author remembered this lesson for life and did not steal anymore.
01:40:03 attitude towards younger
• The author explains that respect for elders should not change, even if they make mistakes.
• It is important to treat them with kindness and understanding, but give advice if necessary.
• If the elder has stumbled, you need to continue to respect him, but treat him as a person in need of help.
01:47:23 relation to equal
• If a close friend loses himself, you need to treat him in a friendly way, take care of him and tell the truth.
• It is important not to throw him in difficult times and support him in his decision.
• The author gives an example when a person who has made a mistake was able to recover and continue his spiritual path.
01:50:06 proper self-esteem
• Discussion of the importance of proper self-esteem and its work.
• It is mentioned that self-esteem is hard work, and if a person chooses an easy path such as condemnation, punishment or malice, then this will not help him or other people.
01:52:17 friendship and proper attitude towards loved ones
• It is said that a true friend is a person who treats a loved one with understanding and never hypocrites.
• It is mentioned that a friend must be able to be strict and tell the truth, but only with love.
01:58:00 self-esteem and its influence on relationships
• It is mentioned that self-esteem cannot be simulated or played, and that a person must connect himself with God and understand what God wants from him.
• It is said that the right self-esteem manifests itself in calmness, reliability and confidence, and that people will learn about it when a person is doing well.
02:01:06 Dignity and destiny
• Dignity is not how a person looks, but how he treats people and does his duty in life.
• If a person loves people, he already looks good.
• If a person does his duty in life, he looks good.
02:09:05 Prayer and destiny
• Prayer is communion with God, not just a repetition of words.
• If a person prays with a sincere heart, he approaches a sense of dignity and strength.
• If a person has a difficult period in life, he must pray with someone who sincerely thinks about God in order to overcome fate.
02:13:06 Distance with fate
• If fate acts aggressively towards a person, he must keep himself and move away from it.
• If fate acts in an evil way, a person must save himself and not contact it.
• If fate wants to kill or destroy a person, he must move away from it and not play tag.
02:18:25 Trials and overcoming
• The video says that in life there are trials that are designed to ensure that a person does not play with fire.
• If a person is fixed on injustice, then fate will cripple him.
• To overcome trials, one must desire only one kind of justice - justice with God.
02:22:19 Recovery after testing
• If a person feels bad, he must switch to kindness and nature to restore strength.
• If a person does not have good people in life, he loses another force that can save him in a difficult period.
• At this time, it is important to stay alone with yourself and immerse yourself in relationships with nature, holy places and a holy name.
02:31:34 Return to yourself and maintaining dignity
• At any moment in life, a person can be tested, and it is important to take care of yourself and not agree with the defeat.
• If fate destroys our dignity, we must preserve ourselves and not try to keep everything around us.
• Важно сохранять чувство собственного достоинства и не соглашаться с несправедливостью, которую судьба может показать.
02:35:05 Судьба и выбор
• Автор говорит о том, что человек рожден для красоты и гармонии, но иногда сталкивается с испытаниями и несправедливостью.
• Он приводит пример лягушки, которая говорит, что она мягкая и пушистая, но в жизни у нее плохой период.
02:40:55 Судьба и выбор
• Автор рассказывает историю о человеке, который не хотел уезжать из опасного места, но его жена настояла на этом.
• Он объясняет, что судьба может быть серьезной и опасной, и что человек должен быть внимательным к своей жизни и выбирать, как себя вести в сложных ситуациях.
02:45:06 Астрология и выбор
• Автор критикует астрологов, которые могут говорить о судьбе человека, но не имеют права решать, как ему жить.
• Он приводит пример из своего детства, когда врач сказал ему, что его нос невозможно поставить на место, но он смог сделать это сам.
02:49:46 Обсуждение судьбы и характера
• Женщина рассказывает о связи черт лица с характером и о том, что из-за кривого носа у человека могут быть кривые помыслы.
• Обсуждается, что если бы человек не прыгал в высоту, его помыслы могли бы быть другими.
02:55:07 Защита своего достоинства и выбор пути
• Говорится о том, что у человека всегда есть выбор, как поступить в сложной ситуации.
• Если человек чувствует, что его хотят разрушить, он может занять неподвижное положение тела и молиться, чтобы его внутренняя сила стала сильнее агрессии другого человека.
03:02:58 Воспитание мужчины и отношения с агрессией
• Мужчина может быть воспитан только действием, а не словами.
• Если мужчина ведет себя агрессивно, женщина должна жить отдельно и ставить условия, чтобы он вел себя нормально.
• Если женщина не знает, как воспитывать мужчину, она виновата в том, что он стал маразматиком или садистом.
03:07:12 DESIRE OF
• Персонаж желает всем счастья, повторяя эту фразу несколько раз.
• Он также говорит о том, что идет и шьет, желая всем счастья.
03:10:44 Пришивание счастья
• Персонаж продолжает желать всем счастья, пришивая его на одежду.
• Он также вышивает счастье на одежде, желая всем счастья.
03:13:37 Благодарность и пожелания
• Персонаж благодарит зрителей за выбор быть с ним в эти выходные и желает им счастья, любви, знания и здоровья.
