Happy family life. Lecture 2 (2017)
00:00:08 Relationship problems
• The husband has not been working for a year, the wife does not know what to do.
• The husband has lost himself, the wife tries to support him, but this does not help.
00:01:14 Tips from Oleg Gennadievich
• The husband must find a job according to his fate, in three months.
• The wife needs to be softer and not put pressure on her husband, but to pray and be stronger.
• The wife needs more spiritual life and be closer to God.
00:12:12 discussion of relationships and development
• A man who works on the railroad believes that his mission is to always go, even if it is not always possible.
• A woman must develop and work on herself so that a man begins to change.
00:16:18 Questions about personal life
• A woman asks about a favorable period in her personal life.
• Oleg Gennadievich replies that she has the potential to develop and improve relations.
00:19:12 Relationship Tips
• Oleg Gennadievich emphasizes that you should not suffer in a relationship, but live with a person, but not suffer.
• He also talks about the importance of spiritual life and acceptance of the character of a partner to improve relationships.
00:25:09 Acceptance and humiliation
• The lecturer explains that acceptance of a person does not mean humiliation, but rather an internal feat.
• He emphasizes that acceptance can be a game when you agree with your husband or child, but do not accept them completely.
00:27:25 Women's and male psyche
• Lecturer explains that women and men have different powers of emotions, and that men can be tense because of the emotionality of women.
• He also says that men can get tired and behave rudely, and that it can be a protective response to tension.
00:28:48 Concessions and change in character
• The lecturer emphasizes that concessions and acceptance of the character of the husband can help change his behavior and attitudes.
• He also talks about how important it is to learn to take on the character of a husband in order to change him and himself.
00:30:04 Divorce and family energy
• Lecturer discusses that divorce can be a bad option, and that family and family energy is female energy, not male.
• He encourages women to learn to build relationships and accept the character of a husband to change him and himself.
00:33:08 Love and its energy
• Love is the energy of God, which is reflected in a person.
• Women are able to accumulate this energy, and men can conquer and prove their love.
00:35:31 Mutual love and relationships
• People converge at the peak of the charge, which evokes harmony and mutual feeling.
• Fall in love can last a long time, but to maintain relationships, efforts and work on yourself are needed.
00:37:17 Acceptance and austerity in relationships
• Acceptance of a loved one without spiritual practice and love for people is impossible.
• Patience and acceptance of the emotions of a loved one is an asceticism, which makes it possible to fill with power.
00:40:38 Happiness and illusions in relationships
• Real happiness arises among those who win fate with their inner strength, and not for those who are lucky.
• With age, the possibility of hot feelings becomes less, and love becomes more selfish.
00:44:15 Fairy tale and reality
• The priest says that love is a divine feeling that is given to a person and reveals to him the power of love.
• He explains that when a person falls in love, he sees only the good in his partner, but does not see the bad.
00:49:04 Loneliness and relationships
• The priest emphasizes that people often believe in a fairy tale and expect their relationship to be the same as in a fairy tale.
• He talks about the fact that it is important to build relationships correctly and gradually open the heart of a loved one.
00:53:10 Love and selfishness
• The priest explains that love means that a person must become self-sufficient and happy from relationships with nature, people and God.
• He emphasizes that it is important to accept a loved one and his character, and not demand something from him.
00:56:33 Happiness and relationships
• For a happy life, you need to take care of others and give yourself away, and not expect happiness from a loved one.
• It is important to learn to take care of everyone around you to find happiness with other people.
01:01:55 Love and Relationships
• True love can only be in a relationship with God, through serving other people and nature.
• It is important to understand that love is not only sex and bed rest, but a way to spend your energy on others.
01:05:17 Relationships and Strength
• To become happy, you need to become strong and filled, and not wait for happiness to give another person.
• It is important to move away from relationships and learn to expect other people, not from your partner.
01:10:24 Relationship with God
• Relationships with God give the strongest battery and understanding of what love is.
• It is important to listen to songs that are combined with lectures and help to understand what a relationship with God is.
01:12:51 Faith in man and stress of separation
• The woman talks about how she believed in her son and how it led to suffering.
• Faith in a person can lead to pride and selfishness, which destroys relationships.
01:20:21 Love and stages of relationship development
• Love has a calm, pure and bright nature, and not a burning passion.
• To move from falling in love to love, you must go through the stages of acceptance and understanding of the partner's shortcomings.
• It is important to have the strength and the right life to maintain a healthy relationship.
01:24:25 The importance of distance in relationships
• Oleg Gennadievich says that you first need to become strong inside yourself, and then give something to a loved one.
• He gives the example of mongooses who quarrel, but then forget about problems and laugh together.
01:27:10 Suspension and expectation from a loved one
• Oleg Gennadievich emphasizes that people expect too much happiness from a loved one and this leads to suffering.
• He offers to learn to expect from life, God and nature, not from a loved one.
01:33:46 Loyalty and real feeling
• Oleg Gennadievich explains that the real feeling arises only after passing through three stages: acceptance, service and gratitude.
• He emphasizes that loyalty and love cannot be based on treason and betrayal.
01:38:08 Differences between a man and a woman
• Man and woman have different approaches to communication and perception of information.
• It is difficult for men to understand women, but they must try to do it.
• Women often talk about their feelings and emotions, and men prefer to talk about facts and experience.
01:46:12 Austerity of love
• For a man, the asceticism of love is obedience, and for a woman, harmony and understanding.
• Man and woman must accept and respect each other's differences in order to create harmonious relationships.
01:49:33 differences in perception and communication
• Man and woman perceive and communicate differently, which can cause conflicts.
• A man should be more attentive to the feelings and emotions of a woman, and a woman should be more patient and understanding.
01:53:07 The Importance of Support and Thanks
• It is about how important it is to support and thank each other in relationships, especially for men.
• It is mentioned that women often say that men do not appreciate their efforts and do not say thank you.
02:00:22 Differences in the perception of happiness between a man and a woman
• Men and women perceive happiness differently: men value strength and energy, and women - love and taste.
• It is important to understand these differences and take them into account in relationships.
02:02:15 The Importance of Support and Devotion in Relationships
• It is important for men to feel loyal and support from their women, and women feel beautiful and valuable.
• It is important not to argue with men and not disappoint them if they believe in something.
02:06:47 The Importance of Support and Truth
• A loved one needs support, not truth.
• First you need to support your husband, and then tell the truth.
02:12:14 The role of women and men in the family
• Woman - the heart of the husband, the man is the mind of the wife.
• A woman should insist on her desire, and a man must listen and fulfill.
02:17:06 Love and Relationships
• falling in love is not the basis of life, it is important to take care of a loved one and be grateful.
• Love goes through three stages: calm, care and fidelity.
• Relationships can be restored with prayer and good deeds.
02:22:33 Expectations from loved ones
• Discussion of what a woman should move away from negative emotions and not expect happiness from a loved one.
• It is mentioned that the man is arranged differently and does not understand how a woman behaves.
02:30:54 Relationships and expectations
• The question of how a man and a woman can be shifters in their qualities and how this affects relationships.
• It is mentioned that it is important to understand your mistakes and repent of them in order to move on in life.
02:34:29 Waking up a man
• A man who has realized his mistakes and repented can become happy thanks to his wife.
• It is mentioned that a woman can be the reason for awakening a man if she works for him and forgives him.
02:40:46 discussion of relationships and forgiveness
• A woman says that she does not agree with the man's opinion that it is better for her to be alone, and that she must learn to accept the will of her husband.
• A man explains that a woman who cannot accept her husband's will is not reasonable and that she must learn to do so.
02:48:09 Questions about forgiveness and relationships
• A woman asks how she can forgive her ex-husband who blocked her and does not want to communicate.
• A man explains that forgiveness occurs at the will of a person and that a woman should be stricter with her husband so that he becomes happier.
• The woman says that she endured and forgave for a long time, but this is not a way to live and that she should have been stricter and punish her husband in a dosed manner.
• A man offers to accept fate and not try to change it if it does not work.
02:53:09 Faith and Relationships
• Discussion of the importance of knowledge and understanding of what the other person feels to build relationships.
• The mention that faith in God and knowledge of His laws can help build a happy relationship.
03:01:19 Love and family
• Explanation that falling in love between people who do not agree with this is not sanctioned by God and may lead to the destruction of three people.
• Mentioning that knowledge of God's laws and understanding of their role in the family and society can help avoid mistakes and build a happy life.
03:05:39 Prayer and happiness
• Discussion of the importance of prayer and repetition of "I wish everyone happiness" to fill and incorporate the mind into the process.
• The mention of what happiness can lead away from prayer and that it is important to continue to repeat your prayer in your faith.
03:08:55 happily ever since
• The speaker wishes everyone happiness and expresses this in his words.
• It repeats this phrase several times, adding different variations.
03:12:09 end of the speech
• The speaker thanks the audience for their attention and patience, and also wishes them happiness, love and spiritual knowledge.
• He urges the audience to help with gifts and flowers.
