Happy family relationships. Day 1. Part 2 (2024)
00:00:08 Three laps of fate
• First round of fate: start making positive habits.
• Second circle of fate: communicate with a loved one about the importance of proper habits.
• Third circle of fate: a loved one begins to understand that he also needs it.
00:01:07 example from life
• An example with a wife who at first did not understand the importance of water, but gradually began to do static exercises.
• It is important to share knowledge and experience to help others.
00:04:41 family life rules
• It is important to learn the rules of family life and not put pressure on a loved one.
• Gradually involve others in the right habits.
00:07:09 Spiritual Reality
• In the spiritual reality, the ego works to serve others.
• In this reality, we often think only of ourselves, which is called the dream of the soul.
• The real life of the soul is connected with serving others.
00:09:11 Energy of Love
• The energy of love lives in the zone of disinterestedness when people serve each other.
• God helps the mother in a relationship with the child to save his life.
• In the relationship between husband and wife there should be a zone of growth and love.
00:11:09 thirst for love
• Everyone needs love, and we long for it.
• Man and woman dream of selfless relationships so that they feel good.
• A woman wants a man to be affectionate, gentle and caring.
• A woman sings that she will take care of a man and do everything to make him feel good.
• It is important to live for another and forget about yourself.
00:14:37 Problems in love
• There is no concept of "First chairs, then money" in love.
• People are focused on themselves, which interferes with the spiritual nature of love.
• Fall in love is a phenomenon that temporarily includes the energy of love.
00:16:20 Love and love
• Fall in love is a manifestation of the energy of love that the Lord launches.
• Fall in love helps people live and multiply.
• For true love, you need to make an effort and thank.
00:19:12 work of the soul
• Love requires effort and gratitude.
• Fall in love ends, and people begin to live like strangers.
• People do not understand that love requires mental labor.
00:21:38 house of the bar
• People often think that they were unlucky with loved ones.
• The first impression is often erroneous.
• People's thirst for love is great, but the ability to love is minimal.
00:24:25 Happiness and love
• People are far from happiness, despite the thirst for love.
• Love requires forgiveness, patience and service.
• Love is a joy for the successes of others and a willingness to bear other people's hardships.
00:28:07 Energy of Love
• Love operates from different sources, and energy must be taken from other sources.
• Make love through violence or deceit does not work.
• Love is included through gratitude and understanding.
00:33:30 Gratitude and pleasure
• Women need gratitude, not truth.
• Men enjoy the process, not serve.
• Gratitude is service, not pleasure.
00:35:44 Love and symmetry
• Love is not symmetrical, unlike a symmetrical answer.
• Love does not require action in response.
• The problem is that people don't understand how to include love.
00:37:59 METHODOLOGY OF
• Love must be launched artificially.
• Example with mother and child: love inspires.
• In a relationship, you need to support, not tell the truth.
00:40:21 support and knowledge
• A man needs support, not truth.
• A woman should support her husband, not criticize.
• Support is more important than knowledge.
00:44:23 right behavior
• You need to do what you need, even if you don't want to.
• Positive habits are instilled later.
• Wrong desires destroy life.
00:46:17 Selfishness and love
• People want to use each other.
• We are egoists by nature and not worthy of love.
• The problem is in our nature, not in luck.
00:49:41 Gratitude and selfishness
• Gratitude is the energy that helps to see the good in people.
• An example of a woman who did not have time to express her gratitude to her husband.
• People suffer when loved ones leave because of a lack of sincerity and gratitude.
00:51:39 Human nature and relationships
• People are looking for beautiful girls, but this is bodily perception.
• Relationships between people are of spiritual nature and can produce love.
• Relationship problems arise from the desire to live for oneself, and not for others.
00:54:15 Awakening the soul and knowledge
• Real life is passed on from holy people filled with God.
• Awakening the soul makes a person conscious and happy.
• Knowledge helps make the unnatural natural, like jogging in the morning.
00:55:14 Respect and Divine Nature
• Respect for the divine nature of man launches love.
• Women have a feminine divine nature, which makes them faithful and caring.
• Men have divine qualities that include love: generosity, courage and patience.
01:00:39 Culture of addressing a woman
• A man should talk to a woman affectionately and kindly.
• Roughness and voice enhancement offend feminine divine qualities.
• Women perceive information with the heart and absorb it without analysis.
01:04:15 Woman renewal
• A woman needs constant renewal of knowledge and values.
• Pressure does not work, you need to tell with love so that it absorbs knowledge.
• Respect for a woman includes love and vision of her divine qualities.
01:07:41 Paradox of respect
• Respect for a woman is austerity aimed at her happiness.
• A husband who does not show respect does not receive gratitude and does not see the divine in his wife.
• Example: a husband who does not look his wife in the eyes does not appreciate her, despite all his efforts.
01:10:07 The Importance of Respect
• A man must make an effort to see the divine in his wife.
• Respect makes a woman grateful and happy.
• Example: a wife who appreciates her husband for his efforts, despite his shortcomings.
01:15:07 Woman and love
• A woman is born for love and pleasure, not for saving.
• A woman must do everything through love so as not to feel bad.
• Example: a woman who does not understand why she should do something through force feels bad.
01:18:34 Love and respect
• A woman should look at her husband with delight and compliment him.
• Love is when you support a person in his goals and aspirations.
• Example: A man who receives support and recognition from his wife feels love and self-confidence.
01:21:37 Love and austerity
• Love lives in an atmosphere of jokes and playfulness.
• People in love often joke and behave playfully.
• Love requires a serious attitude and austerity.
01:23:27 Respect and austerity
• Respect in relationships requires serious effort.
• It is difficult for men and women to show tenderness and affection.
• Respect is important to create harmonious relationships.
01:24:41 Problem with husband and child
• The husband beats the child because of the lack of respect and consent.
• A man feels love through a woman.
• A woman must show respect and agreement to soften her husband.
01:27:00 Behavior with husband
• A woman should behave affectionately and gently with her husband.
• A man needs to be understood and supported so that he softens.
• A woman must be affectionate and kind, so that her husband feels love.
01:28:56 family problems
• A woman is afraid of her husband and cannot reach out to his heart.
• The husband must feel love and support from his wife.
• A woman should create an atmosphere of respect and kindness.
01:30:49 Behavior with children
• The husband should be relaxed and not aggressive at home.
• A woman should behave in such a way that her husband feels comfortable.
• The husband raises his son with rigor, not kindness.
• A woman must respect her husband so that he is in the zone of generosity.
• The Tiger Example illustrates how you can change a man's behavior.
• A woman must listen and understand in order to achieve family happiness.
01:36:43 The Importance of Respect and Gratitude
• Women should behave respectfully and smile.
• Problems in the psychic body require a solution.
• Gratitude for lectures and awareness of the importance of respect in relationships.
01:39:16 System Outputs and System Changes
• The lecturer sees the fate of people and draws systemic conclusions.
• Changes in personal life occur immediately after the introduction of new approaches.
• Examples of successful changes in relationships.
01:40:26 Jokes and behavior in relationships
• Jokes should be aimed at the benefit of the partner.
• Example of a dress: it is important not to evaluate, but to admire.
• Love lives in the game and is aimed at the happiness of a loved one.
01:45:37 Sources of strength and lifestyle
• Forces must be taken from nature, good people and God.
• Life of passion leads to exhaustion, the life of goodness - to filling.
• Admiration and service are key elements in relationships.
01:47:28 individual needs and patience
• Patience with the needs of another person is important.
• An example of a husband's snoring: understanding a partner is soothing.
• Relationship problems require treatment, not a quick solution.
01:50:37 Understanding through concessions
• People begin to understand when you make concessions.
• Example: The husband does not tolerate the smell of meat, the wife cries so that he changes his habits.
• Men understand only actions, not words.
01:52:16 sibling
• Men turn on the mind through actions.
• It is important to feel and do actions in order to convey your desires.
• Love is a game that gradually becomes a reality.
01:53:50 example from life
• An example with the father who was waiting for the daughter at the door.
• The wife repeats this gesture to show her love.
• Love is woven from play and deeds that are pleasant to a loved one.
01:56:02 Love and gratitude
• Fall in love is the energy that God gives.
• After falling in love, people should learn the right relationship.
• It is important to know the nature of love and get involved in relationships correctly.
01:58:14 Mistakes and betrayal
• Relationship errors can lead to other people.
• Betrayal is a surgical pathology that needs to be treated.
• It is important not to communicate with people who destroy the family.
