Lecture 2. Questions of Loyalty and Respect in the Family (2015)
00:00:01 Questions about personal life
• Discussing the importance of improving the quality of life and knowledge to help others.
• The mention that the desire to serve creates happiness, and the desire for happiness personally destroys.
00:03:57 Questions about female beauty and relationships
• Discussing how female beauty can tie to yourself and how important it is to take care of a woman, not enjoy it.
• The mention that a woman's desire for protection can turn into a desire to use it, and how important it is to understand that no one can have another person.
00:08:30 Questions about understanding fate and personal relationships
• Discussion of what the foundation for a woman is personal life, and how important it is to learn and develop as a person.
• Mention that a woman must bring purity and spirituality to the family through her knowledge.
00:12:08 Questions about self-realization and balance between career and personal life
• Discussing that modern men want a woman next to them who will be successful in their careers, but it is important to find a balance between work and personal life.
00:12:39 Female strength and relationships
• Modern culture teaches women different sciences who are not related to relationships and families.
• Women should develop their feminine power, take care of people and nature to become beautiful and attractive.
00:16:49 dependence and independence
• Women who deal with relationships are not dependent, they are free and happy.
• Men who want a dependent woman themselves do not understand what a real woman should be like.
00:20:44 Causes of Conception Problems
• Refined life and modern education can lead to problems with conception.
• Hormonal remedies and life in the city can negatively affect the possibility of conception.
00:24:34 Treatment and healthy lifestyle
• Treatment with natural remedies such as roots can help in activating hormonal functions and the possibility of conception.
• A healthy lifestyle, including walks in nature, exercise, nutrition, vegetables, can help in solving problems with conception.
00:26:20 Depression and conception
• Modern medicine can help in conception, but it is important to bet on nature and work on yourself.
• People living in the village have more health than those who live in cities.
00:30:32 Fear for a child
• Fear can be caused by suspiciousness or conscience.
• Prayer helps to overcome fear and gives strength to work on fate.
00:34:43 absolvent
• Fear means the absence of happiness and the amount of work that needs to be done.
• Prayer and contact with holiness help to get rid of fear.
00:36:55 Talk about irritation and sensitivity
• Discussion of irritation and sensitivity, how they affect relationships and family life.
• The mention that irritation may be associated with childhood memories and experiences.
00:41:08 Tips for Reducing Irritation
• Recommendations for using images of holy people, spiritual music, stones and yoga to reduce irritation.
• Mention of the importance of acceptance and love for loved ones to create a happy family life.
00:52:17 Second stage of love
• The second stage of love begins with the appearance of a feeling of good for a loved one, cultivating this feeling and forgiveness of his shortcomings.
• Respect arises when people can safely come home and not torment each other.
00:55:58 honeymoon and life after
• The honey period ends, and a life begins where people must work on themselves and relationships.
• Respect and service to each other help to strengthen relationships and turn them into loyalty.
01:00:07 Features of relationships in our time
• People often live together, but do not know each other and do not want to know, because there is no desire to serve and see the personality of another.
• The lack of moral development and culture in society leads to the fact that people become moral savages and live only to earn money and meet their needs.
01:03:43 Features of relationships in our time
• Women are more engaged in what entertains them in life, while men prefer to relax.
• Women develop themselves in activities, men in austerities.
01:10:05 Problems of modern relations
• Men go to the female spectrum, losing their strength and health.
• Modern culture incorrectly defines the concept of "man".
01:15:34 Features of relationships in our time
• Women with money, car and apartment are looking for strong men, but strong men prefer weak women.
• If a family is created on the basis of such a relationship, then sooner or later a man will become a man and leave his wife.
01:19:32 Features of relations in the modern world
• It is important to understand that the family is created not by the people themselves, but by the higher powers.
• If people do not find a loved one, this does not mean that they cannot start a family.
• Female energy and male energy are combined, and people can create a harmonious family.
01:26:05 Repentance and understanding
• If a person throws a loved one, he can be punished.
• Repentance begins with realizing one's guilt and the desire to correct the situation.
• It is important to understand that family is not only happiness, but also responsibility.
01:30:49 Family protection and civil marriage
• Civil marriage means that people are not sure of each other and are not ready to take responsibility.
• If people live together, they are still considered husband and wife, even if they do not want to consecrate marriage.
• It is important to serve each other, endure and care for the family.
01:36:04 Love and Relationships
• The importance of love and elders in relationships that can help overcome difficulties.
• A life-case example when a couple came to the elders for advice and support, and their relationship improved.
01:40:02 Family divorce and preservation
• The woman talks about her divorce experience and return to her husband.
• Tips on how to save a family, including knowledge of family destruction, loosening and prayer.
01:44:01 Prayer and overcoming difficulties
• Prayer and turning to God to overcome difficulties in relationships.
• An example of a woman who prayed for her father who drank, and he was able to overcome his addiction.
01:51:35 Respect and loyalty in the family
• Respect in the family means to see a person purity and serve him.
• Women's money is dangerous for the family, so it is important not to spend it on unnecessary things.
01:57:31 Inspiration and respect
• A woman should put her energy into working on herself and inspire her husband.
• Respect for a man and a woman is the basis of a happy family.
02:00:45 Female nature and death
• A woman has the nature of a river that flows and changes, and it is the basis of human life.
• Female energy is cold and relaxing, which helps people recover and prepare for death.
02:03:09 shores and emotions
• A man must be strong and calm in order to withstand female emotions and not respond to them.
• A woman should be flexible and be able to apologize if she is wrong.
02:10:21 The role of man and woman in the family
• A man should be directed to life, and a woman - at the heart of the family.
• A man should give a woman the opportunity to make mistakes and accept her as she is.
• A woman should serve her husband, take care of him and gently tell him the truth.
02:14:12 Mental frames of men and women
• A man has internal and external mental frames, a woman has only external ones.
• A woman easily adapts to a new environment and takes on the character of her husband.
• A man can change his character, but a woman remains with what is given to her by nature.
02:17:15 Differences between men and women
• Men have a solid outer cylinder which is hard to change while women have a soft and mobile inner nature.
• Men can change throughout life, while women retain their best qualities from birth.
02:22:03 Impact on men
• Women can inspire men to a healthy lifestyle and early rise, but it takes time and patience.
• It is important to use the female approach so that a man feels satisfied and relaxed.
02:27:40 feedback
• Men and women share their opinions on how best to motivate men to get up early.
• Some men believe that the female approach can be more effective than their own.
02:30:24 First step strength
• Establishing a relationship with a woman may seem complicated, but in fact it is not.
• The power of the first step has great energy and can help overcome any difficulties.
02:35:34 Respect for a man
• A woman must understand her strength and respect a man using a gentle and compliant approach.
• This will help create a harmonious relationship and avoid problems.
02:40:31 humility and submission
• A woman cannot be humble, but she can behave correctly from a position of knowledge and use a soft compliant approach.
• A man obeys only if he sees submission, and this makes him happy.
02:42:35 Differences between a man and a woman
• A man easily serves close people, but he gives way to his position and gives his territory.
• A woman serves easily, but gives hard what she has.
• The man is generous in nature and is ready to give everything if he obeys him.
02:45:14 Concessions and gratitude
• A man and a woman can complement each other, but it is important not to defend their interests, but to serve each other.
• Concessions and gratitude are the key to a happy relationship.
02:51:16 Separation and relationships
• Separation is necessary to clarify the relationship, but it is important not to use it for manipulation.
• Service and love are the basis of a healthy relationship.
02:55:15 Early getting up and approaching the wife
• The husband must understand the feminine nature and not force the wife to get up early.
• Affectionate approach and understanding of the wife's needs is the key to success.
03:01:58 Respect and love in the family
• In a family, each person must find the right approach to the other, but moralizing does not work.
• The wife should help her husband live correctly, solve his problems and difficulties.
• The husband must listen to his wife and mentor, who will always tell the truth.
03:04:06 Daily routine and respect in the family
• In Russia, it is important to get up earlier and sleep at least seven hours.
• Only love, spiritual conversation, patience and personal example work in the family.
03:06:14 Types of happiness and purpose of the human body
• Human life is designed to work on yourself, not for enjoyment.
• There are different kinds of happiness in the world that are available in different animal bodies.
• The human body is designed to comprehend the depth of the human soul.
03:09:45 Strength and happiness in life
• When a person walks through the path of service and self-sacrifice, he gets the strength to live and happiness.
• Happiness is in service and recognition, not in accumulation and grasping.
03:11:24 Love and Relationships
• The author says that love is service, not lust.
• Knowledge of love is contained in the Holy Scriptures, not in love books.
03:14:05 Acceptance and forgiveness
• The author talks about how he saw that his wife wants to punish him, and how he accepted it, instead of trying to change the situation.
• He also says that you should not resist, but simply forgive and ask for forgiveness.
03:17:58 Prayer and Faith
• The author explains that it is important to tune in to your faith and repeat prayers to change your destiny.
• He also talks about how his concerts helped people change their lives.
03:24:58 wishes of happiness
• The author wishes everyone happiness by repeating this phrase several times.
• He also wishes everyone love and knowledge.
03:34:48 Thanks to the audience
• The author thanks the audience for being with him all three hours.
• He wishes them all the brightest in their fate.
