Lecture 1. Man: Myths and Reality (2013)
00:00:00 Lecture on family relations
• Lecturer explains that there will be a lecture on family relationships today, but they usually begin with the duties of a woman.
• Today we will talk about the duties of a man.
00:01:48 Subtle body of the mind and psychic channels
• The lecturer explains the structure of the subtle body of the mind and its connection with the mental channels.
• In women and men, the structure of the subtle body of the mind is different.
00:10:36 Male and female qualities
• The lecturer discusses the male and female qualities associated with mental channels.
• A man should be ascetic, reasonable and firm in his promises, and a woman should be emotional and flexible.
00:17:25 Differences between male and female psyche
• Men and women have different mind energies that affect their behavior and abilities.
• Women are emotionally nature and easily start new business, while men first study and analyze information.
00:20:47 The influence of the moon on the female psyche
• The female psyche constantly flows and changes, is associated with the influence of the moon and its 28 lunar sites.
• Men have a more stable psyche and are focused on winning and achieving goals.
00:23:02 The influence of a woman on a man
• A woman influences a man, and he can be tormented or torment others depending on her attitude towards him.
• Man and woman have different levers of application of power: man - in work and society, woman - in relationships with a man.
00:29:06 Differences between a man and a woman
• A man must be able to tolerate a woman's emotions, be calm and wise.
• A woman quickly changes her desires, so a man should be ready for this.
00:39:09 Subtle body and evolution
• The subtle body is formed before birth and affects the life of a person.
• If a person exerts mental strength, he develops, if not, he degrades.
00:44:40 Duties of a man and a woman
• A man is born a man to give happiness to everyone around.
• Selfishness prevents a person from changing and leads to suffering.
00:46:22 Selfishness and its influence on relationships
• A woman is sensitive and wants to adapt the world for herself, while a man wants everything to be the way he wants.
• A man's selfishness destroys family life if he tries to change a woman.
00:51:43 Duties of a man and a woman
• A man must learn to listen to his wife and be an impeccable person.
• A woman should learn to obey and respect a man if he deserves it.
00:56:48 adaptation and love
• A woman can adapt to the situation, but inside remains the same.
• A man can easily change his principles if there is love energy.
• The ideal option is when the husband gets up early, and the wife will lie down a little more.
00:59:56 man's responsibility
• A man must listen to his wife and accept her emotions to create a happy family life.
• A man must understand and accept a female fairy tale in order to be happy in a relationship.
01:06:34 Duties of a man
• A man must set the rules for living together and make decisions.
• A man must be strong and firm to establish the laws of life in the family.
01:11:03 male happiness
• Male happiness consists of working on oneself, asceticism and the ability to endure and forgive.
• A man should be afraid of a woman's excessive passion so as not to lose himself.
01:16:08 Male power and asceticism
• A man must be strong and able to endure a woman's emotions, otherwise he will not be able to live with her.
• A man must be hardy and bold, which is associated with his asceticism and work on himself.
• A man must sleep on a firm one to be healthy and strong.
01:19:02 Attachment to a woman and asceticism
• A man should enjoy austerity and work on himself, and not become attached to a woman.
• If a man is strongly attached to a woman, he loses himself and becomes dependent on her psyche.
01:22:55 Men's health and asceticism
• A man must be calm and ascetic to be reliable and forgive.
• Men's health also depends on the ability to conceive children and the ability to think about more serious things in life.
• Excessive thoughts about sex can cause male impotence and incontinence.
01:25:03 Sexual energy and its impact on life
• Sexual energy can be directed in a different direction if a man is not satisfied in sex.
• If a man constantly thinks about sex, he will not be able to develop and be developed.
01:28:00 The role of a woman in a man's life
• A woman should not live only for herself, she should help a man develop and direct his energy in the right direction.
• A man must study, work on himself and not think about sex all the time.
01:31:48 The impact of energy on the family
• If a woman saves a lot of sexual energy, it can lead to family problems.
• If a man cannot calm down, he needs to give birth to a second child or engage in spiritual practices.
01:33:36 Spirituality and family life
• If the family directs their lives to spiritual development, it can help them become happier and more harmonious.
• Icons and spiritual music can help create a clean and sublime atmosphere in the family.
01:36:41 Loyalty and respect in relationships
• The author emphasizes the importance of respect and loyalty in relationships, noting that all people are naturally good and have only good qualities.
• He also says that if people do low-lying things, then they do not see the good in their loved one and see only the bad.
01:43:02 Work on yourself and inner life
• The author emphasizes that in order to be happy in relationships, it is necessary to elevate your life, work on yourself and develop your inner qualities.
• He explains that inner life means a connection with the sublime, an understanding of one's love energy and the ability to forgive and believe in your family.
01:45:35 Development and Leadership
• The author says that development and leadership in society depend on the inner life of a person, his ability to forgive, manage and manage.
• He emphasizes that internal development makes it possible to become a person who can do more important things in society.
01:51:09 Women management
• The speaker says that women should develop feminine qualities such as maternal energy to manage men.
• He emphasizes that women should be calm and balanced as mothers, not hysterical and capricious as a wife.
01:52:12 Energy of femininity and obedience
• The speaker explains that there should be more women in society with the energy of mother and daughter, not with the energy of the wife.
• He argues that the wife's energy can lead to uncontrollability of society, as she has a huge power of seduction.
01:54:27 Loyalty and Spirituality
• The speaker says that spiritual strength and loyalty in the heart can be more persistent and penetrating than external attachment to a woman.
• He also claims that falling in love and honeymoon can last a maximum of three years, while loyalty in the heart can live a lifetime.
01:55:56 Acceptance of different types of people
• The speaker emphasizes that people can have different types of energy and need to be accepted as they are.
• He gives the example of people with the energy of the planet Saturn, who can be focused and quickly make decisions, but may also be late.
• He calls for acceptance of such people and communication with them, taking into account their characteristics.
01:57:02 Raising a man
• A woman should take into account the nature of her loved one and help him improve.
• A woman is the inspiring power and fire of a man, she constantly raises him and her child.
01:58:48 Love and education
• A woman should be more modest and not terrorize her husband, constantly telling him the truth.
• It is important to learn to treat a man calmly and not torment him for his shortcomings.
02:02:09 Emotions and their use
• Tears and words of despair can be used as a weapon, but only if they are directed at themselves.
• A woman's emotions can be a boomerang for a man if they are directed at him.
02:06:21 Training and development
• A woman can learn from her own experience or with the help of knowledge.
• It is important to consider that a woman is six times stronger than a man, but for this you need to turn on the energy of love.
02:10:34 Raising a son from a first marriage
• The author explains that it is important for a man to develop family feelings for a child from his first marriage in order to become a real father.
• He emphasizes that family relationships develop only as a result of love and that a child raised by another woman can feel "native" for a man.
02:14:17 Family and relationships with the child
• The author says that the family is created for the child, and that a man must become a friend for the child in order to win his trust and friendship.
• He explains that the child will avenge the destruction of the family, and that the man must be ready for this and forgive him.
02:19:04 Energy of beauty and attractiveness
• The author discusses that a woman becomes more attractive when she works on herself and does good deeds, and not just paint her lips and eyes.
• He emphasizes that a woman receives beauty and attractiveness through her relationship and the manifestation of her feminine nature.
02:23:03 Women's beauty and work
• A woman should act in a feminine way, learn to forgive, make friends, care and get to know each other.
• Women's beauty develops only in activity, and not in the desire to be beautiful.
02:26:11 Women's psyche and relationships
• The female psyche is more resistant and slower than the male psyche, so you need to calmly ask for forgiveness several times.
• A woman controls the mood in an apartment and can make others behave badly if she is not in the mood.
02:28:34 Greed and work
• Women are often greedy and tend to go to work faster to buy more things.
• A woman must invest her efforts in a man in order to be happy.
02:30:59 Acceptance of the character and living conditions of the husband
• A woman must take on the character and living conditions of her husband to change him.
• A woman can live without money, but a man must work to provide for a family.
02:33:06 The role of a woman in relationships
• A woman must be worthy of her man and work at his level.
• A woman must put her strength into her man so that he develops and achieves success.
02:34:41 The influence of a woman on a man
• A woman should inspire her man, not criticize him.
• A woman must learn to invest the right things in her man so that he becomes strong and successful.
02:37:22 Duties of a man and a woman
• A man must study his duties, but not strangers, so as not to destroy his family.
• A woman must study her duties in order to become a real woman and worthy of her man.
02:40:28 Relationship between man and woman
• A woman should be the heart of her husband and support him.
• If a woman constantly tells her husband, this may be a sign of a wrong relationship.
• A man must be strong and calm not to succumb to a woman's provocation.
02:42:49 Love and Relationships
• A woman constantly attracts the attention of a man, but when he starts devoting too much time to her, she loses interest.
• A man must be calm and not succumb to provocations in order to maintain the relationship.
02:46:08 Energy and fidelity
• A man should give his energy to his wife, and not demand from her.
• A woman must be faithful and believe in her husband so that he becomes responsible and responsible.
02:50:57 responsibility and word
• A man must be responsible and keep his word, even if it hurts.
• A wife can help her husband become responsible if she is faithful and supportive.
02:54:19 Spiritual life and relationships
• The author talks about the importance of spiritual life for family and relationships.
• He emphasizes that spiritual life not only includes reading the scriptures, but also includes concern for loved ones and their spiritual development.
02:57:29 The influence of spiritual life on relationships
• The author explains that spiritual life gives rise to happiness and harmony in relationships, while material life leads to suffering and conflict.
• He also emphasizes that relationships are built on the basis of spiritual strength, not on the basis of sex or material wealth.
03:01:59 Developing relationships and dreams
• The author discusses the stages of development of relationships in the family and emphasizes that it is important not only to dream of a happy life, but also to work on its creation.
• He also says that most people do not know how to build relationships and how to live together properly, and that this knowledge can be gained through the study of spiritual life and communication with other people.
03:09:38 Method of changing attitudes towards people
• The video offers a simple method of changing attitudes towards people through the wish of everyone happiness.
• This method is based on the repetition of the prayer "I wish everyone happiness" and on establishing a connection with the holy people.
03:14:08 Setting up for a holy man
• To set up for a holy man, it is proposed to choose any holy person and think about him.
• This will help to establish a connection with this person and start living for him.
03:15:47 Repetition of the prayer "I wish everyone happiness"
• To enhance the effect of prayer, it is proposed to repeat it many times, tuned in to holiness and giving your strength.
• This will help establish the right relationship with other people and become happy.
