Responsibilities of a man and a woman Lecture 1 (2010)
00:00:00 External and internal in relationships
• The video discusses the importance of internal relations between a man and a woman, and not just external manifestations.
• Internal relationships are based on understanding and respecting each other, not on fulfilling the requirements.
00:03:51 Female strength and influence on men
• Women have power that can "roll the roof" to men.
• It is important to develop the inner life and culture of relationships to avoid misconceptions and disappointments.
00:09:13 Subtle human structure and mental functions
• A person has a subtle structure, a mental structure that affects his behavior and attitudes.
• It is important to study and understand the mental structure of a person to build the right family relationships.
00:14:27 Studying feelings and reason
• Human eyes reflect his mind and mental state.
• Five senses: sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell.
• Reason - the supplier of happiness for the human psyche.
00:26:25 Relationship between reason and happiness
• Problem: People often have a false idea of happiness.
• Reason is the main function of human life and destiny.
• Human life is in the heart, and the head is like a computer screen display.
00:31:34 Karma and fate
• Karma is how we treat the people around us, and our destiny depends on our actions.
• If we change relationships, our behavior changes and we become different.
00:36:49 Mind, psychic energy and self-perception
• Reason leads us through life, but psychic energy and self-perception also play an important role.
• Selfishness and self-esteem can distort our understanding of life.
00:40:13 Karma and relationships
• Karma may be related to relationships, and if we behave properly, it can be destroyed.
• It is important to show kindness, respect and humility in relationships to attract happiness and harmony.
00:44:06 inner life and love
• Inner life is prayer and addressing holy people for help in understanding your loved one and his right love.
• The subtle body of a person is formed in the process of life and lays the mood that determines his future life.
00:52:14 feminine and male nature
• The female body develops in the direction of overcoming difficulties and overcoming oneself, male - in the direction of love and care.
• Left eye, left ear, left hand and left hand under them are associated with the human family karma.
00:58:38 Overcoming karma and relationships
• Karma can be defeated with strength and inner life.
• It is important to serve all and all the world, not just your body, to attract love and become a strong woman.
01:01:08 slashing
• Relationships are destroyed due to selfishness that exploits the energy of the love of a loved one.
• Dislike means the desire for another person to be gentle, caring, respect and feed.
01:10:59 feminine and male nature
• The female psyche is aimed at internal relationships, male - on external.
• Female nature is more per family, male nature - to overcome difficulties and achieve goals.
01:13:20 Love and service
• Love is not a requirement, but a ministry.
• Demand destroys love, and service strengthens relationships.
• A man should serve a woman, and a woman should serve a man.
• Knowledge destroys love, so it is important to notice the truth in yourself and your heart.
01:17:12 Mistakes in family life
• The video discusses how people can behave in a relationship, which leads to cooling and frustration.
• It is important to understand that love is not only a passionate relationship, but also the ability to serve and learn from each other.
01:20:23 crisis in relationships
• The video explains that a crisis in a relationship is an inevitable stage that you need to go through to create a real strong family.
• It is important to understand that the honeymoon does not last forever, and after it, real family life begins.
01:26:08 Harmony and balance in relationships
• The video emphasizes the importance of harmony and balance in relationships, and also explains that you should not strive for extremes in giving or taking.
• It is important to learn the principles and rules to navigate relationships and avoid mistakes.
01:30:47 crisis in relationships
• The video discusses the trend in a society where people start to quarrel and swear when their relationship becomes tense.
• This is due to the fact that people begin to "pull" love and desire from each other, which leads to conflicts and scandals.
• The author explains that people cannot understand each other because they are different and have opposite views and desires.
01:35:08 Love and service
• The author says that love is the power that arises as a result of the feat and inner work on oneself.
• He emphasizes that people must learn to love each other and serve each other in order to create a harmonious relationship.
• He also explains that people often diverge when their relationship reaches the extreme point, and that it is inevitable.
01:38:30 True Ego and Service
• The author says that the true ego arises when a person commits selfless actions and serves others.
• He emphasizes that love brings a sense of true dignity and makes a person worthy, in contrast to exploitation that makes a person weak.
• He also discusses the importance of removing a loved one when necessary to give him time and space for rest and recovery.
01:42:42 Love and family responsibilities
• The video discusses that love is not related to the expectation of a certain person, but to the service of a loved one.
• A man must work on himself to show love for his woman, and a woman must feel gratitude and loyalty to her man.
01:51:14 Faith and Responsibilities in the Family
• Faith is the power that comes from the heart, and it is not associated with external manifestations.
• A man must become strong and mentally healthy to serve his family and take care of it.
01:54:06 Daily routine and health care
• A man should get up early, pray and take care of his wife so that she can feel his love and care.
• A woman needs more time to sleep, especially if she works intellectually or physically.
01:59:22 Health and psyche of a woman
• Women should sleep more than men to be healthy.
• A man should be prepared for the fact that a woman will torment him with her emotions and desires.
02:08:46 Family protection and apartment expansion
• A man must protect his family from difficulties and expand the apartment, taking into account the possibilities of the family.
• A man should rely on his own funds and not take loans.
02:10:39 The story of "Buy a goat"
• A man must be strong and persistent to keep peace in the family.
• A man must understand that his strength and responsibility depend on his ability to control his emotions and desires.
02:13:49 Duties of a man and a woman
• A man must cleanse the family's karma in order to improve his life and relationships with people.
• A man must develop his spirituality and be strong, calm and able to overcome the difficulties of family life.
• A man must be firm and able to control his emotions, and not torment his wife with moralizing.
• A man should direct his heart at the beauty of holy people and remain faithful to his wife.
02:22:53 duties of a woman
• A woman should save her family, not get upset about thinking about finding a better man, and not launching a mechanism for destroying the family.
• A woman must be happy and support her man so that he can achieve his inner achievements.
• A woman must learn to be faithful and not leave her man so as not to lose the opportunity to have what she wants.
• Fate punishes those who leave loved ones, creating complex and painful relationships for them.
02:28:01 The problem of happiness and suffering
• The video discusses the idea that people are born on Earth not for happiness, but for suffering.
• It is said that until a person passes the exam, he will suffer and suffer.
02:30:07 True love and family relationships
• The question is raised that most people choose the wrong path in a relationship and do not appreciate each other.
• It is said that fate gives a person once, and if a person does not pass the exam, he will suffer.
02:38:54 Karma and family relationships
• It is discussed that through close people, higher powers create the biggest obstacles in life.
• It is said that loved ones speak only the truth and will not talk nonsense.
02:42:15 Civil marriage and faith
• The concept of civil marriage and its significance for people who do not want to admit their fate are discussed.
• It is said that faith arises when a person begins to serve another disinterestedly.
02:43:52 The problem of unsuccessful marriages
• Люди, которые не хотят жениться, обречены на неудачу, так как в каждой семье будут ситуации, когда жить вместе будет невозможно.
• Женщины должны стремиться быть женщинами, верить в судьбу и развивать свои женские качества, чтобы встретить хорошего человека и создать семью.
02:50:34 Проблема мужчин и женщин
• Мужчины должны стремиться победить себя, а не зависеть от женщин, чтобы сохранить свою личность и не потерять себя.
• Для мужчин жениться - это аскеза, а для женщин - это их жизнь.
• Если мужчина не идет этим путем, он начинает деградировать и теряет себя.
02:54:59 Внутренняя жизнь и свободное время
• В современном мире люди все больше проводят время вместе, но у них разные интересы и предпочтения.
• Внутренняя жизнь - это практика, которая помогает постичь свою внутреннюю природу и изменить свою судьбу.
02:56:26 Благословение и внутренняя сила
• Благословение - это процесс, когда человек передает свою силу другому, например, матери, которая благословляет сына перед армией.
• Внутренняя сила помогает изменить судьбу и жизнь других людей.
02:57:24 Внутренняя жизнь и взаимодействие с миром
• Внутренняя жизнь означает отдавать, а не только получать.
• Внутренняя сила может быть использована для благословения и помощи другим людям.
02:58:18 Внутренняя жизнь и карма
• Внутренняя жизнь увеличивает карму благочестия, что помогает в случае опасности или несчастных случаев.
• Внутренняя жизнь помогает человеку стать более счастливым и успешным.
02:59:44 Внутренняя жизнь и святые люди
• Сесть прямо и активизировать свой разум.
• Вспоминать святого человека из своей веры и мысленно кланяться ему, повторяя: "Я желаю всем счастья".
• Отдавать энергию, которую получили от святого человека, тем, кто нуждается в помощи.
03:06:10 Practice and repetition
• Повторять "Я желаю всем счастья" негромко, из сердца.
• Не кричать и не пытаться быть круче всех.
• Практиковать это в течение пяти минут, затем повторять для других святых людей.
