Needs and Responsibilities of a Man and Woman (2015)
00:00:07 prolegomena
• Oleg Gennadievich Torsunov, Candidate of Medical Sciences, presents himself and explains that he will answer questions and conduct lectures.
00:01:35 Lectures and their format
• Lectures will be held in a format other than the usual one, using singing and studying Vedic knowledge.
• Lectures will be based on a practical study of the relationship between a man and a woman and on laws that should be practical and legal.
00:10:58 Psychic structure and happiness
• The psychic structure that seeks happiness is called reason, and the structure that seeks knowledge is called knowledge.
• The goal of a person is to find happiness and understand where it is located.
• Lectures are held to help people understand where happiness is and how to achieve it.
00:16:58 Three centers of reason and their impact on happiness
• Man has three centers of mind: forehead, heart and groin.
• The first center is associated with knowledge, the second with love, the third with the desire to live.
00:20:03 Selfishness and its influence on happiness
• Egoism can be of two types: requiring itself and based on knowledge.
• Selfishness based on knowledge leads to happiness, and selfishness based on waiting leads to defeat.
00:27:06 Microphone tuning and true ego
• The true ego is based on knowledge and acts when a person is aware of what is happening.
• False ego is based on pain and acts when a person experiences pain.
00:30:10 ministry and happiness
• When a person begins to serve, the true ego and the ability to give happiness are turned on.
• Service and action in the name of others lead to happiness and success.
00:31:41 Psychic channels and their impact on health and happiness
• A person cannot be happy until he starts doing something for others and is distracted from himself.
• Distraction from oneself means the presence of psychic energy for happiness and action.
00:40:12 Psychic channels and their connection with the desires of the soul
• Knowledge that a woman is woven from the energy of love is in the subtle structure of a person.
• The subtle body permeates the whole body and leaves it with the soul at death.
• The subtle body of the mind, mana, is called the desire body and is associated with the psychic channels.
• The subtle body of the mind is associated with the energy of people and the desires of the soul.
00:44:14 The influence of mental channels on the development of personality
• The psychic energy associated with the left channel is more in demand in women than in men.
• Mental energy associated with the right channel is more in demand in men than in women.
• Psychic energy associated with the left channel develops the desire for close relationships, compassion, the ability to care and feel family ties.
• The psychic energy associated with the right channel develops mindfulness, the ability to have a strong thinking and feel.
00:53:33 Differences in male and female psyche
• Men are hard emotionally when women show tenderness and care.
• Women see the shortcomings of men, and men see beauty in front of them.
00:57:16 How to communicate with the opposite sex
• Women need to speak calmly and without emotions so that they can understand.
• Men need to speak calmly and without emotions so that they can feel.
01:03:19 Opening windows and doors for fresh air
• In the hall you need to open all the doors and windows for fresh air.
• If someone is cold, you can sit forward or forward.
01:05:06 respect in relationships
• Talk to a loved one without a mood, so as not to convey your pain to him.
• Carefully and unobtrusively explain your thoughts, not to put pressure on a person.
01:10:55 respect for a woman
• A man should tune in to a woman like a fluff, and speak to her gently and carefully.
• A woman should talk about her feelings, a man should listen and understand her.
01:14:50 respect for the wife
• A man should behave neatly and correctly in the house, not violate the rules and regulations set by a woman.
• A man must respect the sensitivity of a woman and not violate her harmony.
01:22:24 respect for a woman
• A man must see the beauty and quality of his wife so that she feels harmony and gives back the energy of beauty back.
• If a man does not cultivate respect for a woman, he will not be happy in his personal life.
01:26:08 Checking the readiness of a man for marriage
• If a man is ready to marry, he must be able to endure the emotions of a woman and only he is ready to work.
• If a man is not ready, he may be immature and weak.
01:30:43 Respect for a woman and family life
• When a woman feels respect for herself, she blossoms and behaves joyfully and directly.
• A man must behave like a lamb at home and as a lion in activity to maintain harmony in a relationship.
01:33:46 Female energy and atmosphere in the house
• It is difficult for men to behave with women, as their psyche is rough and tough, unable to reckon with others.
• Women need to fill the house with an atmosphere of happiness so that a man can rest and fill his strength.
• Everything in the apartment has feminine energy, and this is good, as a man relaxes and rests in such an environment.
01:37:47 Mood in the apartment and the influence of a woman
• The mood in the apartment depends on the mood of the woman, and even cockroaches are under her influence.
• A woman can fill the apartment with the energy of happiness or rest, and a man must test the situation before entering.
• Some days a woman is filled with strength and needs peace, and a man should engage in self-improvement.
01:41:21 Respect for a man and acceptance of his character
• Women need to respect men and accept their character, wealth and bad habits.
• This will help them to be happy in family life.
01:42:23 Bad habits of women
• Every woman has her weaknesses, which can be both bad habits and benefits.
• For example, some women cannot live without new jewelry, others want peace and quiet, and others want their husband to look at them.
01:51:10 Respect for a man
• Respect for a man means accepting his hobbies and supporting his activities.
• If a woman respects her husband, the people around her will also respect him.
01:55:48 Honeymoon and changes in life
• First, everything is fine on the honeymoon, but then difficulties may arise.
• Knowledge of how to live properly can change your life in a year and a half.
01:56:20 Respect for a man and his development
• Respect for a man means watering him, which makes him stronger and better.
• If a woman respects a man, he becomes a real person.
01:58:29 Women's desires and their influence on men
• The Vedas say that knowledge about how to properly come through training.
• Women should always look attentive when a man speaks and agree with him.
• Men do not care how everything will be, it is important for them that everyone agreed with their opinion.
• Women want to do what they should, not how they should be.
02:00:06 example from life
• A woman wants a new dress, but her husband says that this month she will not buy a new one.
• A woman cannot cancel her desire, even if a man speaks seriously.
• Husbands usually speak seriously when something is very valuable to them.
• If a woman agrees with her husband, he calms down and relaxes.
02:07:17 Using tears to achieve what you want
• Women should use tears directed at themselves to make the husband unarmed and agree to their desires.
• Tears should be sincere and directed at yourself, and not at the husband.
• If the wife is unhappy, the husband will be nervous and agree to her desire.
02:11:36 respect in the family
• The video discusses the importance of respect between husband and wife, especially in the context of their relationship and parenting.
• Respect means understanding and accepting each other, as well as the ability to inspire and support each other.
02:14:05 Holiness and spiritual practice
• The Vedas compare God with the Sun, and light with knowledge and happiness.
• For respect in the family, it is important to have contact with holiness and spiritual tradition, which helps to fill with strength and patience.
02:18:04 Set up for holiness and help others
• To solve problems in your personal life, it is important to tune in to holiness and concern for others, and not just about yourself.
• At the end of the lecture, a workshop "I wish everyone happiness" will be held, which will help in solving problems in your personal life.
02:21:54 respect in the family
• Respect in the family is the foundation that allows you to live normally.
• Respect for a man means understanding his sensitivity and accepting his shortcomings.
• Respect for a woman means understanding her sensitivity and accepting her whims.
02:30:05 acceptance of loved ones
• Acceptance of loved ones with their deficiencies and diseases of reason is a manifestation of love and respect.
• Acceptance of the situation of fate and loved ones as they are helps to cope with difficulties.
02:35:02 practice
• Assistants in the hall raise their hands if they cannot withstand bad character traits or habits of loved ones.
• Women who can take on their husbands' bad traits raise their hands.
02:36:38 Taking the bad habits of a loved one
• The video discusses the process of taking bad habits of a loved one, which can take from six months to two years.
• It is important to understand that acceptance does not mean that a person will not continue to do these habits, but this will help him to realize their harm and start correcting them.
02:41:33 thread invisible between people
• The video highlights the importance of sincerity and trust between people who can be achieved through heart work and intimacy.
• The invisible thread means that people can be sincere and honest with each other without fear of being rejected or offended.
02:46:10 Knowledge and faith in good
• The video says that knowledge and faith in good things can help overcome relationships and avoid divorces.
• Knowledge and faith in the good can help people overcome darkness and ignorance and become happy.
02:49:06 Prayer Training
• The host explains that now there will be a prayer training, where participants will listen to the voice of people who pray, and repeat "I wish everyone happiness.".
• He also explains that if the participants feel that they can already repeat this phrase, they must remember the source of their faith and bow to him.
02:52:40 Three stages of development of victory over fate
• The facilitator explains that after the participants tune in to prayer, they must remember all the events and problems they have and start giving the energy of happiness.
• He also says that the participants should be bright and shine everywhere to help themselves and others.
03:01:09 Completion of training
• The facilitator thanks the participants for their presence and support, and wishes them happiness, love and success.
• He also expresses his gratitude to those who helped him in organizing the training, and say goodbye to the participants.
