Development of loyalty and respect in the family (2015)
00:00:19 Relationships and service
• In a relationship, one serves the other, and the one who serves is usually less and less affecting.
• If you don't like this situation, you can stop communicating or teach another person to behave properly.
00:03:15 Jealousy and acceptance
• Jealousy is a manifestation of selfishness, and it is important to learn to accept your loved one as he is.
• If you accept a person, he becomes better and begins to apologize.
00:06:55 Attitude towards the father and relationship with her husband
• If you had difficulties with your father, this may affect your relationship with your husband and other men.
• It is important not to worry about your fate and work on your problems without getting hung up on them.
00:10:12 Relationship with father
• The daughter experiences strong aggression towards her father, but tries to communicate with him respectfully.
• Prayer helps her change her attitude towards the Father and serve him.
00:16:17 Relationships at a distance
• Relationships are built in the heart, not through conversations.
• If you have the strength, you can build relationships, if not - sadness and longing.
00:18:28 Relationship with an absent father
• Prayer and respect help build relationships with an absent father.
• It is important not to expect happiness from him and not depend on him.
00:19:29 Prayer and blessing
• The author blesses a woman who wants to change her relationship with her father.
• He talks about being grateful and humble to improve his relationship with his father.
00:24:33 Good deeds and disinterestedness
• The author talks about doing good deeds and being disinterested in order to improve his life and get a good job.
• He gives the example of a girl who helped a hungry man and received a blessing from fate.
00:28:21 Choice of activity and success
• The author advises to turn to a holy person and ask him about where success is.
• He says that success will come gradually if you first work where God gave.
00:29:39 Purpose and jealousy
• Oleg Gennadievich says that a person must find his own destiny, and not ask others.
• If a person doubts his purpose, he must decide for himself what to do.
• If a loved one is jealous, you should not make jealousy, but it is better to make eyes at other people.
00:35:47 A gross and rude pleasure
• Oleg Gennadievich explains that a man enjoys rude pleasures, and a woman - thin.
• If a man enjoys too much of a woman, it may be a sign that it's time to have a baby.
• When a child appears, the woman's pleasure energy is drawn to him, and the man calms down.
00:39:19 Lectures and answers to questions
• Oleg Gennadievich begins a lecture by answering the questions that were asked earlier.
• He says that a man should be the eldest in the family, endure his wife's emotions, support his family financially and develop his personality.
00:41:25 duties of a woman
• A woman strives for stability and calmness, a man for change and perfection.
• The man makes decisions, listening to his wife and loved ones, so that everyone is happy.
00:47:19 Work and personal life
• A woman should invest her energy in her personal life, not in work.
• At work, it is important to be able to communicate with friends, snack and leave early.
• Work should be a resting place, not labor.
00:53:52 Spiritual practice and beauty
• A woman should be engaged in spiritual practice to become radiant and beautiful.
• Spiritual practice helps a woman become strong and attractive.
00:55:48 feminine energy of love
• Love comes unexpectedly and can change a woman's life.
• Women have two types of love energy: attracting men for sex and for creating a family.
01:00:00 Work on yourself and relationships
• Women should learn humility, obedience and modesty to attract men to create a family.
• It is important to pray and work on relationships, not to run around taverns and not to keep yourself in prison.
01:06:49 Features of relationships in our time
• Women who do not put the family in the first place can become slaves of the lamp and lose their beauty and influence.
• It is important to put the family first and take care of others to attract the blessing and create a happy relationship.
01:12:03 Relationship between man and woman
• A woman should take care of her life, not just work and earnings.
• If a woman is secured and strong, she attracts a dependent man.
• A weak woman needs a weak man, as his strength is in her weakness.
01:15:48 fosterage
• Girls can behave like boys in a past life, but this is normal until the age of 25.
• Boys may cry and be weak in childhood, but as they age, they become strong and courageous.
01:18:21 Relationships in the family
• A woman should be humble and obedient, and a man must make decisions and be responsible.
• If a woman punishes a child with silence or tears, it helps him become a man.
• If a man punishes a child, he can become a sadist.
01:23:31 Features of relationships in our time
• The video discusses the features of the relationship between a man and a woman in the modern world.
• It is noted that people mature late, and often create families without signing, due to distrust and spiritual illiteracy.
• It is said that it is important to believe each other and not look at other women if you want to start a family.
01:31:49 Return to husband
• The video tells the story of a girl who divorced her husband, but returned to him because she realized that they did not diverge and that God wants them to be together.
• It is said that it is better not to leave your husband if you want to start a family, and that marriage must be protected.
01:35:01 Features of relationships in our time
• The video emphasizes that in our time people become less educated in matters of personal life and conscience, and what is important to study Vedic knowledge and understand that there is a God in the heart of every person.
01:37:47 God and Conscience
• The author talks about how he felt that God informs him of the need to get up at a certain time.
• He also describes his experience when he suddenly stopped breathing in his sleep and began to breathe, as if someone was in charge of it.
01:39:36 Prayer and Saints
• The author explains that prayer and appeal to God help a person to feel happy and filled with power.
• He also mentions the great holy romance of Jachari, who gave his disciples the instruction to leave this world and continue to serve God.
01:43:17 Eternity and power
• The author shares his experience of feeling eternal and strong when he prayed and bowed to the holy romance Jachari.
• He says that this feeling is a huge power and power, and that it comes through contact with a holy man.
01:45:15 Preservation of the family in modern society
• In modern society, it is impossible to save a family because of friendship between a man and a woman, which is called subtle sex.
• If a man and a woman begin to communicate closely, this can lead to the collapse of the family.
01:47:24 Family preservation tips
• To preserve the family, you need to be not in a modern society, have rules higher than existing ones, and cultivate conscience.
• If you want to save your family, you need to change yourself and make sure that the family has more moral culture.
01:50:54 example from life
• The man talks about how he returned his wife by going through the stages of forgiveness, prayer and establishing heart contact.
• In the end, they became friends and were able to maintain a relationship.
01:55:48 conscience and family preservation
• The video discusses how conscience can help save a family.
• The story of a woman who turned to lectures is told and began to listen to them in order to understand how to save the family.
02:01:11 Three layers of life
• The video explains that there are three layers of life: ignorant, passionate and spiritual.
• The ignorant layer is characterized by selfishness and lack of conscience.
• The passionate layer is characterized by the desire for happiness and success, but without the inner life.
• The spiritual layer is characterized by faith in God and conscience, which helps to save the family.
02:09:27 Divorce and passion
• The video discusses that most divorces are due to people living in passion without having an inner life and interest in something more.
• This leads to depletion of fate and sooner or later to a break in relations.
02:12:33 life in goodness
• Life in goodness means trust in your heart and faith in a deep relationship.
• A person in goodness strives for friendship with holiness and wants to move forward in his life.
• In goodness, a person lays a path to a loved one in his heart, which leads to a change in his life.
02:14:54 Learning the right life
• In order to change your destiny, you need to study the right life and work on it.
• It is important to have knowledge about what the right life is and how it affects family relationships.
02:17:09 Разрушение семьи из-за состыковки
• В видео обсуждается тема состыковки между мужчиной и женщиной, которая может привести к разрушению семьи.
• Рассказывается о двух женщинах, одна из которых забирает жизнь, а другая - счастье в жизни.
02:24:28 EXAMPLES FROM LI
• Приводятся примеры из жизни, когда люди сталкиваются с подобными ситуациями и их последствия.
• Обсуждаются примеры из жизни мотыльков, оленей, рыб и слонов, которые погибают из-за своих сильных чувств.
02:25:31 Family preservation tips
• В видео даются советы по сохранению семьи, основанные на культуре и этике общения между мужчиной и женщиной.
• Подчеркивается важность уважения и верности в отношениях.
02:31:13 Верность в семье
• В видео обсуждается важность верности в семье и как это начинается с сердца.
• Упоминается, что если человек помнит первую встречу с близким человеком, он сохраняет любовь на всю жизнь.
02:34:55 Тренировка верности
• Автор предлагает домашнее задание: каждый день вспоминать первую встречу с близким человеком и прощать его.
• Также предлагается написать на листочке хорошие черты своего мужа или жены и пытаться найти что-то хорошее в них.
02:39:55 Сознание пчелы
• В видео объясняется, что пчелы стремятся к нектару и не замечают ничего плохого в своей жизни.
• Автор призывает учиться видеть чистоту в близком человеке и искать только нектар в нем.
02:44:15 Верность в семье
• Уступание и забота о близком человеке - первая стадия любви.
• Важно молиться и бескорыстно делать что-то для близкого человека, чтобы он чувствовал благодарность.
02:47:00 Благодарность и служение
• Благодарность возникает от бога в сердце и контролирует человека.
• Важно видеть хорошее в людях и не искать недостатки.
02:51:47 Вторая стадия любви - вежливое воспитание
• Когда человек чувствует, что больше не может служить близкому человеку, он говорит об этом аккуратно и мягко.
• Благодарность и вежливое воспитание помогают наладить отношения и двигаться вперед.
02:56:03 Принятие и служение близкому человеку
• Автор подчеркивает важность принятия и служения близкому человеку, чтобы изменить его к лучшему.
• Он объясняет, что когда сердце человека подобрело, он может наказывать его, но с добрым сердцем.
• Если сердце злое, то лучше держаться подальше от ребенка, так как это разрушает отношения.
03:00:19 Прощение и принятие
• Автор рассказывает о том, как он принял свою жену и как это изменило их отношения.
• Он подчеркивает, что важно прощать и принимать недостатки близкого человека, чтобы жить с ним в гармонии.
• Он также упоминает о том, как важно слушать голос возвышенного человека и молиться, чтобы изменить свое отношение к близкому человеку.
03:11:15 Сила любви и прощения
• Олег Геннадьевич говорит о том, что важно научиться любить и прощать, чтобы изменить свою жизнь.
• Он приводит пример, как важно давать человеку возможность дотянуться до того, что ему дали, и говорить правду, даже если это трудно.
03:19:09 Практика прощения и принятия
• Олег Геннадьевич проводит практику прощения и принятия, где участники повторяют "я желаю всем счастья" и кланяются.
• Он объясняет, что это помогает изменить сердце и дает возможность принять, простить и сохранить семью.
03:21:01 Важность победы и пути к богу
• Олег Геннадьевич подчеркивает, что на пути к богу нет поражений и что даже незначительное продвижение спасает от опасности.
• Он призывает участников сосредоточиться на своих целях и не думать о своем счастье, а только о других.
