Family saving in modern society. Lecture 1 (2019)
00:00:06 Talk about personal life
• The woman talks about the divorce and how she changed after listening to the lectures of Oleg Gennadievich.
• She talks about wanting to get married and that she has a child from a previous marriage.
00:10:20 Questions about personal life
• A woman asks questions about how she can improve her relationship with her husband and how she should be with her child.
• She also says that she did not listen to the advice of other people that her husband did not suit her.
00:12:11 Divorce and relationship with ex-husband
• The woman talks about how she left her husband and how they broke up.
• She says that she still loves her ex-husband, but they broke up.
00:14:49 Tips on how to build relationships
• Oleg Gennadievich gives advice on how to establish relations with a woman and how she should be with a child.
• He talks about the importance of understanding your partner and not thinking that you deserve the best.
00:19:50 pregnancy problems
• A woman asks about the possibility of having a child after a miscarriage and a missed pregnancy.
• RECOMMENDATION: yoga, running, swimming in the sea, massage.
00:26:03 Jealousy and balance between personal life and activities
• A woman talks about her desire to actively show her activities and share her knowledge, but her beloved is jealous.
• Recommendation: learn the etiquette of relationships with people, communicate with women, not give men knowledge.
00:30:54 Friendship and communication with men
• The speaker discusses that women should share with men, but not be friends with them too close.
• He explains that his wife controls his communication with women and reacts to his actions.
00:31:51 Gender differences and mentoring
• The speaker emphasizes that men and women should communicate with people of their own sex in order to develop properly.
• He also talks about the importance of male mentor and female mentor for women.
00:35:45 Restrictions and trust
• The speaker explains that only God can limit a person, and that trust must be a natural process.
• He gives the example of a small child who may suffer from mistrust.
00:38:31 lecture begins
• The speaker begins the lecture, urging the audience to be careful and listen carefully.
• He asks the audience to change if they are uncomfortable to sit in their seats.
00:40:29 Subtleties of the relationship between a man and a woman
• Discussion of the rules that are set from above and must be consistent with the life of each person.
• It is mentioned that man and woman may have friendly relations, but it is important to understand that this may lead to the inclusion of the wrong energies and can destroy the family.
00:44:30 Friendship between a man and a woman
• It is mentioned that friendship between a man and a woman can lead to the power on of the energy of love, which can lead to the destruction of the family.
• It is discussed that a woman, like fire, can drown a man's psyche, and he can begin to burn in relation to her.
00:48:00 Relationship Tips
• It is mentioned that it is important to meet only one man and not be friends with others in order to avoid betrayal and destruction of the family.
• It is emphasized that knowledge about how energies are arranged and how they work can help avoid problems in relationships.
00:51:17 Love and its role in life
• Love is the Divine Power, the consort of God, which does not belong to man and will never belong.
• People fall in love with each other thinking they should use this energy, but in fact love trusts a woman and acts through her.
00:53:42 The correct behavior of a woman when meeting
• A woman must behave correctly in order to attract a man who wants to start a family.
• She must be educated and know how to communicate with a man correctly in order to understand his intentions.
• A man who wants to get married behaves culturally and decently, asks questions about life and how to live on.
• A woman should be ready to get to know each other and have knowledge of how to behave properly.
00:56:33 Differences between men and women
• Men who want sex win women, but this makes them weak and dependent on women.
• Men who are looking for a serious relationship behave differently, they do not immediately try to bed mode and try to understand the character of a woman.
01:01:14 Love and marriage
• Fall in love can lead to a family if the woman is not very in love and the man is serious.
• If a woman is very in love, it can lead to relationship problems.
01:04:34 Criteria for choosing a partner
• A man must work on himself, be directed upwards and have or almost not have bad habits.
• A woman must be ready for marriage, be developed and not have bad habits.
• A man must withstand the character of a woman and have enough money for her desires.
01:08:43 Destruction of relationships due to misunderstanding
• The video says that men and women often do not understand why they were born, and this leads to the destruction of relationships.
• The author explains that love has a divine nature and that a person falls in love with a woman's connection with the divine.
• He emphasizes that a woman embodies the qualities that belong to the wife of God, and that a man falls in love with these qualities, and not with the woman herself.
01:10:39 Torment and fate in relationships
• The author says that when people live together and create a family, they cannot be mistaken, since this is their fate.
• He explains that first people get the divine in each other, but then they start torturing each other, since there is no one else.
• He gives an example with a man who gives flowers to a woman, but she does not accept them, and he feels uncomfortable.
• The author emphasizes that in a relationship it is important to understand that fate can be very tough and act through close relationships.
01:13:53 Love and Relationships
• The author says that love is not given forever and does not exist by itself, but is the energy that people use to create a family.
• He explains that love is not only a divine feeling, but also selfish, and that people often do not understand how to build relationships and how to give love.
01:23:30 Love is like a dream and faith
• The author discusses that love is like a dream, as people want to create an ideal family and enjoy life without working on relationships.
• He also says that love, like faith, can destroy a relationship, as a person begins to deify another and sees nothing wrong in him.
01:26:41 Love is like duty
• The author argues that love as a duty can be for a person who likes, works on himself, is faithful and respectful, and that such a model of relations is stable.
• He emphasizes that love as a faith in a person can destroy a relationship, and that this feeling should be directed only to God.
01:30:59 God and man in relationships
• The video discusses that in Odessa the dawn brings the sea, not a person.
• It is said that a person can be divine, but cannot be a god.
• If a person thinks that he brings dawn, flowers and the singing of birds, then it is the fact that the divine energy of love acts through him.
01:32:17 Difficulties in relationships
• In relationships between people there is love, but it has a different nature than love for God.
• Love arises only when we accomplish a feat over ourselves, accepting a person with all his shortcomings.
• Gratitude is a respect and desire to serve, but it takes time and effort.
• People want happiness for this, but they do not want to work on relationships and endure a person.
• Relationships include selfishness when everyone wants to get their share of love.
• Women and men have different ideas about what "I want love" is.
